Plate Takes Ages To Text Back?

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I have made mistakes in being way to full on repeatedly.

What I don't understand is, at some point, I actually want to marry and raise a family with a woman.

How will this ever work if you are cohabiting? Seems once you are tied in you are lost forever.
 

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Honestly, if it's not a text that requires an urgent response, who cares if she gets back to you in 5 minutes, or 5 hours?

If it's a text that requires an urgent, or timely, response, and you're not getting that, then 'you do you' and make decisions accordingly.

If you are inviting her out in a few hours, and she doesn't get back to you with in an hour (or whatever you deem appropriate) them 'do you' and move on with your plans.

If we are just taking idle chit chat, then she may be bored with the conversation, and that it's why she isn't responding/is show to respond. Try not to get all bunched up with a slow response to idle chit chat. It's never a good idea to over invest emotionally in casual conversation like that. Keep your attitude casual with chit chat, that makes it easy on both parties.

If she's really just a plate to you, your texting should be one opening text "hey, how are you?" She replies, and then you text back, setting up a date. The chit chat can happen in person, on the date.
 

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@soulforge her behavior does not define your true value, it demonstrates her personal and intrinsic issues

remember that moving forward
 

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she's too busy textin Brad Pitt!

lolz!!!:p
 

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For crying out loud, you guys over-analyze EVERYTHING. Who the f*uck cares how long it takes her to reply? She's only a plate with her own life, not your fricking wife. RELAX. It's not disrespect or any of that bullsh*it. Maybe she's busy, has other guys, family issues, or it's just her style. Maybe she doesn't want to appear too needy. Whatever. If she's only a plate, why get so upset?

Be a DJ and DGAF.

Ok?
 

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For crying out loud, you guys over-analyze EVERYTHING. Who the f*uck cares how long it takes her to reply? She's only a plate with her own life, not your fricking wife. RELAX. It's not disrespect or any of that bullsh*it. Maybe she's busy, has other guys, family issues, or it's just her style. Maybe she doesn't want to appear too needy. Whatever. If she's only a plate, why get so upset?

Be a DJ and DGAF.

Ok?
frame frame frame
 

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You should consider it a blessing.

An hour is nothing mate. Maybe she has a life.

Go the gym or something.
 

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Ok guys, so been seeing this chick 2 months.. I bang her good once a week, and she seems like a nice person too..

However when I text her during the week, it takes her roughly one hour to text back..



Then on weekends much longer.. sometimes around two hours..



Possible low interest here, although she does seem very keen on me..

Maybe i am making myself too easily available to her..

Simple question?

If she takes ages to text back, should i take even longer to message her back and make myself less available?

Do i play her at her own game... ??
Simple game 101

Mirror her investment
 

Peace and Quiet

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Is this something new or has she's always taken a long time? Agreed on mirroring her investment
 

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Well I have decided to stop giving fuccks regarding this matter..

I generally text her back within 15 mins to 30 mins for every text she sends me.

She takes about 1 hour to text back, pretty much everytime..

In between I just text other plates... problem solved..

She can take all the time she wants lol
 

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Ok guys, so been seeing this chick 2 months.. I bang her good once a week, and she seems like a nice person too..

However when I text her during the week, it takes her roughly one hour to text back..

Then on weekends much longer.. sometimes around two hours..

Possible low interest here, although she does seem very keen on me..

Maybe i am making myself too easily available to her..

Simple question?

If she takes ages to text back, should i take even longer to message her back and make myself less available?

Do i play her at her own game... ??
I have some plates/girls that do this all of the time. Basically, when we are together we do sexual stuff, but she might not be as BIG of a communicator via telephone as other women.

Don't sweat it. As long as you can still get SOME sort of response out of her and be able to still meet up with her, chill, fvck, etc., then don't worry about it. Not every girl is a texter and not every girl is a heavy telephone related communicator. They just aren't.

Now the moment she doesn't respond at ALL and you are having issues meeting up with her, then you should consider dropping her as a plate.
 

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Well I have decided to stop giving fuccks regarding this matter..

I generally text her back within 15 mins to 30 mins for every text she sends me.

She takes about 1 hour to text back, pretty much everytime..

In between I just text other plates... problem solved..

She can take all the time she wants lol
Yep, the easiest way the put things out of your mind, is to stay busy.
 

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any hot girl already has 100x better text game then any guy..

talking about chicks that literally have been through 1000s of dudes hitting them up for yeaarrrsss

with that many ref experiences it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know the few cool guys from the chodes.

the very small subtle things they throw out to all there orbiters/potential fvck buddy's are definently well placed..

the cool guys she bangs are very few and they definently tell cues they are high value.
AND DESIRED.

all text response time is a HUGE game to them.

if they respond a week later and you responde back in a few minutes, fvck yourself because you're done

my room mate has a plate that obviously plays that game big time, they won't talk for months then she'll hit em up, he won't respond for a month, she ends up coming over and they bang.

she says things like, gawddd you're such a c0cksucker I hate you.. but I can't stop banging you gaawwddd,

it's bad.. meanwhile her massive chain of orbiters hit her up everyday and there's no way in he'll she'll run with them.

bros, just think about it.

if you just stop talking to these girls through a cellular device, you're ahead of 95% of everyone else.

you can get away with it when you're super high value, but even then you'll be the one throwing away female orbiters and preferring the real quality azz.

#thoughts
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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You care about her text respond times so obviously she's a bit more than a plate.

Go ghost for a week see what happens.

^ this. Best advice right here.

What she is doing is deliberately waiting to text you because she has been told by her women friends and women relationship books that this type of behaviour drives a mans interest up and will make you fall for her faster.

This is the problem when todays women take advice from "women experts," on how men think. 95% of these experts don't have a clue, but they still get their stuff published.
 

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when I text her during the week, it takes her roughly one hour to text back
Fck man. Chill the fck out. This is pretty fcking needy man. I can go for whole days without texting the women I'm seeing and vice versa. You know what happens. They always text me eventually. Always.

The only thing this shows us is that you are more invested than she is. Like Penkitten said, maybe you're her plate. And she's playign you like a fiddle.
 

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^ this. Best advice right here.

What she is doing is deliberately waiting to text you because she has been told by her women friends and women relationship books that this type of behaviour drives a mans interest up and will make you fall for her faster.

This is the problem when todays women take advice from "women experts," on how men think. 95% of these experts don't have a clue, but they still get their stuff published.
yeah, reminds me of 'rules girls' back almost 20 years ago...

has it been that long? Lolz :p
 

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yeah, reminds me of 'rules girls' back almost 20 years ago...

has it been that long? Lolz :p
It has. Lol. I too remember seeing my sister read that book. I told her throw it away. She asked why? I told her cluess women giving advice on men they Don't inderstand, if you follow that books advice one of 2 things will happen.

You will be ignored.
You will be dumped.

Both happend.
 
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