Plate situation [experts only]

ubercat

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It is a dilemma. Some of those excuses seem BS but which ones. I d go with the 2 chances. Your an experienced operator. The quick nexting stuff is more for the noobs who r in big danger of oneitis
 

BadBoy89

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Guys on this site shoot themselves in the foot 95% of the time.

What if a girl text you to hangout and:

-You already committed to your best guy friend to go to a baseball, football, basketball etc. game?
-You're sick with a fever?
-Just worked a 60 hour week because you have 2 jobs?
-Are in school and have a huge exam the following day?

All the above are similar to what OP's plates said but in girl-speak.

And if you told the woman one of these reasons, all legit for delaying, she called B.S. and NEXT YOU? The guy would hop on SS and rant and b*tch about how cold and conniving all women are.

Women have lives outside of you and dating and you should too.
A woman’s time is more valuable than a guys time. They are on the clock fighting the biological forces of nature, Rather than having 2 jobs to make more money or meeting up with girlfriend, they should be thinking about connecting with a guy and dating him.

I don’t think guys shoot themselves in the foot. If the guy doesn’t do a hard next quickly, the girl will try to see how desperate the guy is to be with her.

This is 2021.
 

TheKid

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Flaking and girls go hand in hand.
My mate gave me a call 2 hours ago about some ohh that flaked 30 mins before there date.
You really only have 2 plays push or pull.
Leave or stay.
Regardless more women more drama anyway, And that is a rule.
 

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A woman’s time is more valuable than a guys time. They are on the clock fighting the biological forces of nature, Rather than having 2 jobs to make more money or meeting up with girlfriend, they should be thinking about connecting with a guy and dating him.

I don’t think guys shoot themselves in the foot. If the guy doesn’t do a hard next quickly, the girl will try to see how desperate the guy is to be with her.

This is 2021.
I disagree 110%, but everyone is entitled to an opinion.
 

Bigpapa

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@darksprezzatura glad you have the same dilemma I had :)

as a rule , unless she is just mega b1tchy , I would try to set up a meeting with her 3 times . If after 3 times she is still not meeting with me , I will just put the ball in her court . Some will come , some will not

I think that this is the line between being overly eager and interested ( but also having a life )o

most of the women have a hard time gauging the interest level of guy into them , as everyone wants to sleep with her , and playing silly games like this just helps them to see who is interested in them and whom is just trying to sleep with them

1 . you try once ,you get rejected and go radio silence
2. You try the 2nd time in 2 weeks , you get rejected and go radio silence
3. You try the 3rd time in 4 weeks after the 2nd Time , you get rejected and you just put the ball in her court
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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