Plate Leaving Marks

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Main plate left a marking about the size of a rice grain near my left sink where she knows I never use. My first thought was that it’s childish, but it’s definitely a test. Whether it’s still there next time or marking her territory.

It was going great and we’re seeing each other tomorrow, but seeing that makes me want to postpone it ‘indefinitely’. I don’t want to have to deal with this sh!t every time she comes over

Best approach?
 

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I don't get it??? Whaaatt? Normally it's feminine goodies left around, and Tampons in bathroom cabinets.
Territorial markings.
I was thinking the exact same thing. Just goes to show that women aren’t feminine anymore. Now they have to leave a mark like a male dog pizzing on a tree.
 

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Im not sure I follow. Did she litrerally pee a little on the floor?
 

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Main plate left a marking about the size of a rice grain near my left sink where she knows I never use. My first thought was that it’s childish, but it’s definitely a test. Whether it’s still there next time or marking her territory.

It was going great and we’re seeing each other tomorrow, but seeing that makes me want to postpone it ‘indefinitely’. I don’t want to have to deal with this sh!t every time she comes over

Best approach?
Clean your house.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I confronted her about it the next time I saw her. She acted surprised, but started cleaning the sink before she leaves. Never found anything left behind again @sharkfinale
 

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When you have plates, you are indifferent to when you see them. I go weeks without seeing plates. I punish plates over petty **** just like the situation you mentioned without even telling them. Eventually they just realize they're either gonna be obedient for me or I'm gonna go cold. You reward the plates that act right.

Always be the elephant in the room, address what she did and let her know whether it's acceptable or not
 

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When you have plates, you are indifferent to when you see them. I go weeks without seeing plates. I punish plates over petty **** just like the situation you mentioned without even telling them. Eventually they just realize they're either gonna be obedient for me or I'm gonna go cold. You reward the plates that act right.

Always be the elephant in the room, address what she did and let her know whether it's acceptable or not
How many times you been in jail over the course of your life?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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On the positive, she didn't take a Shvt on your doorstep. Don't worry about it.
 
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