I'll try to make this as concise as possible since this is either happening or not happening tonight...
Met this girl through Hinge, she's an au pair (lives with a host family with children).
Hung out with her twice, both times we went out for drinks at different bars and the night ended with a BJ in her car, though the second time she wanted to have sex - just not in the car, she wanted it to be in a normal room with a normal bed.
We can't go to her place because she's an au pair, and we can't go to mine since I live with my family.
For this reason I thought our next meet-up could involve getting a room somewhere and having drinks there. She wasn't too interested in this idea because although she's been very open about wanting sex, she doesn't seem to want it to be ONLY sex. I told her I'd be willing to hang out and do other things, but I put that ball in her court since she's busy working or with her host family most often.
A couple weeks go by, she posts an Instagram story with her friends out at a local bar after having not read or responded to my message asking if she was free that weekend, so I just wrote her off.
She regularly watches and likes my Instagram story since they're mostly workout clips, and asked me if I was going out tonight. She told me she was going to be out with friends for a costume party at a local bar with some of her friends and invited me to join them.
I'm wondering whether I should go to that. I may have 1 other friend join me, but otherwise I'd be by myself. Logistically, I don't see a way the night could go all that great - especially since she's going to have friends to worry about and not just me.
So yeah, what do you guys think? Please don't leave some useless reply just for the sake of leaving a reply a la
@MatureDJ or
@AmsterdamAssassin as I need to figure this out in the next few hours.