Places to meet older women for LTR?

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Where are good places other than through social circles to meet quality older women (23-33) that are potential LTR material? I'm not talking 10s, I'm talking cute in shape mature women who aren't the hottest thing around but are attractive enough and the kind of woman you could settle down with.
 
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Jeffst1980

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If only there was a specific place to find such women...

Your best bet is to cast a broader net. Start by finding good places to meet WOMEN, then filter out the bad apples as they come.

But, to give you some ideas, yoga classes and cooking classes are always a good idea. You ALWAYS want to go places where there is a favorable woman-to-man ratio--this will trigger the natural competitiveness of women and essentially allow you to take your pick. It's such a simple yet effective tactic, but most guys are stubborn and will stick to sports bars and frat parties and wonder why it's so hard to find girls. Here's an interesting link: http://www.andhranews.net/Entertainment/2009/June/3-Women-less-choosy-9501.asp

Volunteering is also a goldmine for single women above college age--for some reason, the very act of volunteering will make you preselected, and the women that you come across tend to be much warmer towards strangers.
 

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I belonged to the group Toastmasters a few years ago (its a public speaking group).

Wow, the hot professional women you could meet. Met a gorgeous brazilian woman, 30-35, gorgeous persian/iranian woman, like 36-38. But like full DD's, haha. And some other young little hotties.

Depends on the group, but some throw halloween parties, christmas parties. I got invited to a birthday party (by the brazilian). Didnt get to go, but she invited, I dont know, 50 or 100 people. Brazilians are known for being fun party people. I thought it was interesting, since it wasnt even a social group. But interesting way to meet some smart, motivated, and hot women. Like MBA's and stuff.

Also, theres several regional speaking contests through the year. You can go fairly deep in the organization. Attracts high quality people IMO.

My social skills werent what they are now, and my confidence/inner game was not good. I didnt really game any of the women. But a good experience meeting some qualty older women you wouldnt ordinarily meet.
 

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Grocery store, malls, any shopping area, laundromat, Starbucks, McDonalds....the list is endless.

Check out the DJ boot camp and learn to cold approach. Develop a routine and get over any fear of rejection you might have. Then go after what you want, don't hesitate on the approach. Always look your best when going out of the house. Have your cell phone or a pen at the ready to take in numbers.

I've been out of the chase for a couple of years but once you develop yourself you can average 5-10 numbers a week just going about your daily business. You don't need to go the pub route or use the internet....you will find you'll get higher quality women when you cold approach.
 
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