Pissed off... rite now... getting flaked on as we speak

[judoguy]

HB 6... Got this chicks number...

seems like she is really into me... we make places to hang out tonight

SHe seems really into it .... texting me at 1pm asking if we are still hanging out

We text back and forth and she says how excited she is to see me....

I told her i would get there around 9-930 so I called her at 9 to get her adress and no awnser

I went on IM and she is on there .... I imed her and no awnser


WTF it is now 920 and this HB 6 isnt even gonna call and cancel she is just not gonna awnser the phone... dam that is low of the low

I mean if she was gonna flake she could at least let me know instead of just strining me along... wow WTF

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

ever occur to you that she might be in the shower? girls are renowned for running late and not being ready.

 

[tick37]

So, did you get in touch with her?

 

[ARrocket]

Still nothing? Not cool.

Do NOT contact her again until she contacts you.

 

[Effington]

For the first time, I'd give them the benefit of the doubt that they didn't purposefully blow you off. However, I think if someone accidentally blew you off, they'd call within a couple days to apologize, I know I would.

First impressions do count for a lot, and it goes both ways. You don't want to be the guy who lets her bail without notice, and you don't want her to think it's OK.

 

[zinc64]

I have flaked girls before by accident. Sincerely forgetting or just something came up. Just see if she ever contacts you again. I know it sucks...but go look for another chick in the meantime or go out with your friends.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

you sound like a dramatic female.

she blew you off? who cares.

you're rambling on like a female expecting other dramatic females to come in and agree with you.

IE:

Still nothing? Not cool.

Do NOT contact her again until she contacts you.

 

[judoguy]

ok yea so chick completely bailed out on me... Never answered her phone

Never texted or called back

I was like ok whatever


SO ...I called this other chick I was working on and we went out to dinner at applebee's

nothing really big to report... convo was hard to keep going...( felt like the dreaded interview) but I tried my best to tell stories and smile alot

I was really bored and just dropped her off at her house and was like ok well bye hahahaha.... I think she was expecting something else... overall she was a nice girl just not my style.. kinda nerdy

but yea.. the chick completely flaked on me and I honestly did not see it coming at all... usually chicks that flake will give an indication like" call me in a few days to see what im doing... etc"

This girl seemed interested up until the moment she didnt awnser my calls

w/e... that is the magic of spinning plates

 

[aifia]

actually the first sign was when she texted "are we still gonna go out"

 

[JackPrescott]

Welcome to the Wonderful World of the Single Life!!!

 

[everywomanshero]

Nothing happened because you went to dinner with no follow up plan. It's better to risk isolation and have her walk away than to not even try and have such low odds, but maybe you just weren't interested in her? Could be a fattie for all I know.

On the flake, hindsight is 20-20, at the time you didn't think it would be an issue so..... sometimes **** just happens. I just say focus on the 80% that don't flake, niot the 20% that do.

 

[JackPrescott]

Nothing happened because you went to dinner with no follow up plan. It's better to risk isolation and have her walk away than to not even try and have such low odds, but maybe you just weren't interested in her? Could be a fattie for all I know.

On the flake, hindsight is 20-20, at the time you didn't think it would be an issue so..... sometimes **** just happens. I just say focus on the 80% that don't flake, niot the 20% that do.

Nothing happened because she was not attracted. Period.

 

[ARrocket]

actually the first sign was when she texted "are we still gonna go out"

Could somebody explain this one??

 

[DonGorgon]

actually the first sign was when she texted "are we still gonna go out"

Soo true..LOL

 

[DonGorgon]

Could somebody explain this one??

OK, she was having doubts about seeing you and projected that into an "indicator question".. She really called to tell you she did not want to go but could not do it so she ended up casting doubt subconciouslly instead..

 

[dopexile]

HB6... if she flaked she did you a favor

 

[thedeparted]

OK, she was having doubts about seeing you and projected that into an "indicator question".. She really called to tell you she did not want to go but could not do it so she ended up casting doubt subconciouslly instead..

Exactly.

 

[nando]

lose her number

 

[nando]

OK, she was having doubts about seeing you and projected that into an "indicator question".. She really called to tell you she did not want to go but could not do it so she ended up casting doubt subconciouslly instead..

Can you explain it more? I don't get it, why would she remind him of the plan if she didn't wanna go, she could have just fabricated a bs story to ditch him.

 

[Alphamale1821]

HB6... if she flaked she did you a favor

lmao thats what i'm saying. Any chick is lucky to go out with me but certainly if she is a hb6 she better have a damn good body and personality.