Pissed off...****ing mad as hell!

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This is a blessing in disguise.

This person has shown his true colors.

There is no more trust to be had there.

If you keep this person in your life never involve him in something that requires trust again.

Whether it be business or pleasure this person is a snake and not worthy of your trust.

He's just a person you can superficially laugh and bullsh*t with but not someone you can depend on for more than that.

In other words he's not a true friend just a lying opportunistic snake who has shown he'll gladly betray you if it will benefit him to do so.
 
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Another man cannot take away a woman from you, if she never wanted you! You should have gotten the hint when she allowed the dude to kiss her in front of you!
 

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guys think with their ****, this sh!t is gonna happen unfortunately. I'm not sure how old you are, but when you get older, you'll see its really not that big of a deal. My friends and i have all made out and banged some of the same chicks. You gotta love L.A. :) Nobody cares.

The bottom line is that you can never really trust anyone, even your best friends. So when things like this happen, I take it with a grain of salt, and let it blow off. Don't let a b!tch control your emotions. Just make sure you always looking out for yourself, and what YOU want.
 

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seek&destroy said:
HE KNEW that we had something planned together. HE KNEW that I liked her and wanted to DATE her. And instead of being my wingman and trying to help me with it he went in for the kill.

And yet he even had the balls to tell me that he will be my wingman if I need him to be.
"NOTHING COMES BETWEEN A MAN AND GETTING LAYED" - The best friend.
 

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iqqi said:
You get an AFC badge for this one.
Dude.. sorry. Im really not supposed to do tstuff like this but..
what iqqi said: its just the way it is..

Guys here have stated good advice.. mine?: read the DJbibble.
Understand that geting angry at you, at your friend and driving messed up is something you really shouldnt do for any girl.

1. Just forget her.
2. Man/DJ up! then youll show your friend who is AFC.
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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"You should have gotten the hint when she allowed the dude to kiss her in front of you!"


Like I said...I was high and I ommitted some details...like the fact that they didn't make out in front of me, only that I heard about it all from her, and meanwhile I've hung out a few times with my buddy and he hasn't said a thing about it. He actually has no clue I know about what happened after I left.
 

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seek, you've come the right place. It gets better.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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seek&destroy said:
"You should have gotten the hint when she allowed the dude to kiss her in front of you!"


Like I said...I was high and I ommitted some details...like the fact that they didn't make out in front of me, only that I heard about it all from her, and meanwhile I've hung out a few times with my buddy and he hasn't said a thing about it. He actually has no clue I know about what happened after I left.
Boy are you getting some AFC advice on here. The so called youngster "DJ"'s are showing their true colors!

Your boy isn't saying sh!t about it cuz WHY???? What is the big deal? It was just a H0. a H0. You knew her for a WEEK, and she is already making out and going home with someone in front of you.

Your friend = DJ
you = AFC

anyone who thinks you should be mad at your DJ friend instead of taking notes = AFC

The girl = NOTHING

Nothing at all.
 

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Don't get all p!ssed off about this. It's not that big of a deal. She probably was never feelin you anyway. Your friend didn't "take" her from you, you never had her to begin with. Don't throw away 4 years of friendship with this guy. I got in a fist fight with one of my best friends when I was 17 over a girl and I look back about how incredibly retarded that was. Plus, it was a blessing in disguise (SHE WAS PSYCHO!!!!)

And by the way, since when do you ask a woman for sex? LOL! You don't ASK a woman for sex, especially when she isn't even turned on to begin with. And that drug addiction? Should probably stop that.
 

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She was really flirting with me HARDCORE when we first met...if any of you have raed Art Of Seduction by Robert Greene, you will know what I am referring to...She fits the personality of a siren. She is ALWAYS extremely sexual with everyone, she flirts with most people and if she has a thing for someone, like she did for him, she will verbalize it in front of EVERYONE. She just doen't give two ****s about anything, and even though she shows a strong promiscuous side I still want her. The siren's power is too strong...it is very captivating and I've become it's victim since the first interaction I had with her.

Here's an example...I'd be working on my ****, getting stuff done and she would come up behind me and hug me just out of nowhere. Later as I got to know her she mentioned that she is very open (sexually) and really doesn't care what people think of her. This is why I started liking her...she has this auronomy about her. She's not only a hot piece of ass, but also someone who's at least somewhat intelligent and can hold a decent conversation too...

So to reacp...she has show interest in me in the beginning, but it was pretty much a part of her nature. I know she doesnt feel anything for me but what I want to do is see if I can make something out of this. I think I still have a shot...and I will go for it next time I see her. No more waiting...it's time to take charge.

As someone above mentioned, this is a blessing in disguise, and I believe so in 2 ways...one that my so called 'friend' has shown me his true colors...especially by not even telling me that something was about to happen between them...probably beacuse he is afraid of losing my friendship; we've been close since 10th grade...and now we are both 20...and as such I should realize that this is no big deal and **** like this does happen...at least now I know how NOT to deal with it.

As per everything else...


there's a concert coming up in 3 weeks and tickets are NOT sold out. I will be ordering a pair tomorrow afternoon and I'll ask her to come with me. I cannot be this way anymore...hiding my intentions just as I have been all my life til this point.
 

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And by the way, since when do you ask a woman for sex? LOL! You don't ASK a woman for sex, especially when she isn't even turned on to begin with.
How many times do I have to say this...IT WAS MY FRIEND WHO ASKED HER TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM...THAT'S WHAT THIS WHOLE DAMN THING IS ABOUT! It happened right AFTER I left the house.
 
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seek&destroy said:
She was really flirting with me HARDCORE when we first met..she mentioned that she is very open (sexually) and really doesn't care what people think of her.

There's a concert coming up in 3 weeks and tickets are NOT sold out. I will be ordering a pair tomorrow afternoon and I'll ask her to come with me. I cannot be this way anymore...hiding my intentions just as I have been all my life til this point.
Did she take the lead and ask him to have sex, or did he bring it up?

Don't buy the tickets!! Your friend had her by just talking to her - I suggest you do the same, or do something light.

She flirts with everybody and she doesn't care what people think?? And you like this?? HUH? This should tell you something - she didn't care what you thought when she told you what she did with your friend -- she is throwing it in your face - Danger, Danger! Don't spend money or too much time going after this!!
 

Peace and Quiet

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Jesus Christ, be a fvcking man about it. The same thing happened to me the other week (well, actually I was the ******* friend)... guy I knew liked this chick (but hell I didn't know it, the guy never made a move on her) that I just met, and got pissed and nearly broke his hand punching a wall because I was making out with her.

Sh!t happens. I was actually trying to get with this girl's aunt (yeah, a MILF) but she ended up hooking up with a different buddy of mine. Big deal, women are a dime a dozen. This is why oneitis is such a bad thing.
 

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your friend isn't wrong
and who's to say he was lieing about liking her?
didn't he say he'd only do something if he got drunk? wasn't he drunk?
it was 5am? hell, maybe he saw her as his last chance.

i've f'd my girls my boys were trying to mack and they've f'd girls i was trying to mack. what's the big deal? you trying to marry this girl? well, take that as your warning. and get away from her and her alligator soul.

she isn't special.. she sounds like a million other girls out there with her slutty 'openness'...
the dating pool is bigger than the work place...
 

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seek&destroy said:
She fits the personality of a siren. She is ALWAYS extremely sexual with everyone, she flirts with most people and if she has a thing for someone, like she did for him, she will verbalize it in front of EVERYONE. She just doen't give two ****s about anything, and even though she shows a strong promiscuous side I still want her. The siren's power is too strong...it is very captivating and I've become it's victim since the first interaction I had with her.
You are confusing a siren with a h0.

You must have misread what a siren is, because if this Greene guy thinks a siren has any traits of a h0, he is mistaken. Most likely though, it is you.

A siren does not have multiple men in her view, and she is not easy. She must be pursued. She merely entices.

Your girl is a h0, she flings herself onto men. Gross.
 

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She's not a slut though. She also told him that she wouldn't sleep with him not just beacuse her friend liked him but also cause "she doesn't sleep with men she's only known for less than a week". She does flirt a lot with all of us though, but it's all playful. She will make out with a guy if she likes him enough, but won't sleep with him right away. She likes to say she has some morals, and is sticking to them.
 

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Good job LMS. Kid, listen to LMS on this one; he's actually right this time.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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