Pimpologist
Don Juan
Pimpology 101: Shaping The Playing Field
Whether you’re performing a pick up, having conversation on a date, or involved in one or more relationships, there have probably been times where you didn’t make your strongest impression or you couldn’t convince the girl to do something. Well there’s a simple concept that allows you to overcome these obstacles in any situation. It’s known as “shaping the playing field”.
What exactly does it mean? It means preparing her to be more easily influenced or more easily persuaded by subtly implanting ideas in her mind. In other words, it’s psychological conditioning.
By far, the most common application of this technique is in the field of 3somes. As you’re probably aware, most women are not keen to the idea of simultaneously sharing you with other women. Therefore, although men may bring up the topic and attempt their persuasion, they rarely get the results they’re looking for.
The reason most men are unsuccessful at this is because they hadn’t properly conditioned the girl to be more receptive to the idea. And the solution to this is…?
Simple, somehow tell her you’ve had 3somes before (with tact, of course). If you’ve never experienced a threesome, a white lie never hurt anyone. Think along the lines of the concept that “you need money to make money”.
Women will become more comfortable with and curious about the idea once they know you have 3some experience. All you need to do is incorporate it into the conversation.
Example: The question of “what’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?” or the more intimate “what’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?” will usually come up sometime during flirtatious conversation.
Suppose you asked the question first, she answers, you guys talk about it for a bit, and she throws the question back at you. Now’s your time to shine. Most likely you’ll have to provide a few juicy details to whet her appetite and satisfy her curiosity (i.e. when, where, how,…).
Talk about it like it was no biggie. And in several seconds you’ll have molded her perception of you into one of increased desirability. It’s also an efficient form of social proof taken from an unlimited reserve. Now that you’ve shaped her view, you can increase the likelihood of her receptivity to the idea of 3somes in due time.
As mentioned earlier, this technique can be applied to any field of seduction for your own personal benefit: pick ups, dating, sex, just to name a few.
Pick Ups: When meeting girls on the street you can quickly increase their comfort level by saying something about how you usually seem to hit it off really well with girls you randomly meet (preferably during a high point). This will help buffer any decreases in conversational intensity due to psychological expectations.
The same applies to meeting girls at clubs and bars. If you want to make the convo a bit more flirtatious, you can say that she’s a good flirt or that she’s the most flirtatious girl you’ve met tonight and that you connect best to those type. You can see how a subtle connection can be made directly that will provide grounds for greater influence.
Dating: Instead of wondering how often you should see a particular girl, you can dictate the schedule of meetings through past experience. For example, if you wanted to see a girl only twice a week, you would tell her (within conversation) that your best relationships were those in which you kept the meetings to around a certain number per week. You may have to provide some reasons, but in the end she’ll end up being on your schedule and there will be limited room for her to do any of the game playing.
Sex: If you have an insatiable sexual appetite, you can also usually dictate how much sex you two usually have. Let’s say you like having sex twice a day. You would tell her about your past relationships and how you would usually have sex 2 or 3 times a day. She’ll be aware of what you’ve come to expect and won’t want to be the one who’s “different” and so therefore will most likely engage in the same.
Using the same concepts with a few creative twists you can have multiple sex partners, be banging women within a couple of dates, and have them catering to your wishes. Remember that central to the game are ideas and their expression. Therefore the possibilities are limited only by your imagination.
Whether you’re performing a pick up, having conversation on a date, or involved in one or more relationships, there have probably been times where you didn’t make your strongest impression or you couldn’t convince the girl to do something. Well there’s a simple concept that allows you to overcome these obstacles in any situation. It’s known as “shaping the playing field”.
What exactly does it mean? It means preparing her to be more easily influenced or more easily persuaded by subtly implanting ideas in her mind. In other words, it’s psychological conditioning.
By far, the most common application of this technique is in the field of 3somes. As you’re probably aware, most women are not keen to the idea of simultaneously sharing you with other women. Therefore, although men may bring up the topic and attempt their persuasion, they rarely get the results they’re looking for.
The reason most men are unsuccessful at this is because they hadn’t properly conditioned the girl to be more receptive to the idea. And the solution to this is…?
Simple, somehow tell her you’ve had 3somes before (with tact, of course). If you’ve never experienced a threesome, a white lie never hurt anyone. Think along the lines of the concept that “you need money to make money”.
Women will become more comfortable with and curious about the idea once they know you have 3some experience. All you need to do is incorporate it into the conversation.
Example: The question of “what’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?” or the more intimate “what’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?” will usually come up sometime during flirtatious conversation.
Suppose you asked the question first, she answers, you guys talk about it for a bit, and she throws the question back at you. Now’s your time to shine. Most likely you’ll have to provide a few juicy details to whet her appetite and satisfy her curiosity (i.e. when, where, how,…).
Talk about it like it was no biggie. And in several seconds you’ll have molded her perception of you into one of increased desirability. It’s also an efficient form of social proof taken from an unlimited reserve. Now that you’ve shaped her view, you can increase the likelihood of her receptivity to the idea of 3somes in due time.
As mentioned earlier, this technique can be applied to any field of seduction for your own personal benefit: pick ups, dating, sex, just to name a few.
Pick Ups: When meeting girls on the street you can quickly increase their comfort level by saying something about how you usually seem to hit it off really well with girls you randomly meet (preferably during a high point). This will help buffer any decreases in conversational intensity due to psychological expectations.
The same applies to meeting girls at clubs and bars. If you want to make the convo a bit more flirtatious, you can say that she’s a good flirt or that she’s the most flirtatious girl you’ve met tonight and that you connect best to those type. You can see how a subtle connection can be made directly that will provide grounds for greater influence.
Dating: Instead of wondering how often you should see a particular girl, you can dictate the schedule of meetings through past experience. For example, if you wanted to see a girl only twice a week, you would tell her (within conversation) that your best relationships were those in which you kept the meetings to around a certain number per week. You may have to provide some reasons, but in the end she’ll end up being on your schedule and there will be limited room for her to do any of the game playing.
Sex: If you have an insatiable sexual appetite, you can also usually dictate how much sex you two usually have. Let’s say you like having sex twice a day. You would tell her about your past relationships and how you would usually have sex 2 or 3 times a day. She’ll be aware of what you’ve come to expect and won’t want to be the one who’s “different” and so therefore will most likely engage in the same.
Using the same concepts with a few creative twists you can have multiple sex partners, be banging women within a couple of dates, and have them catering to your wishes. Remember that central to the game are ideas and their expression. Therefore the possibilities are limited only by your imagination.
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