Pimp in Distress !!!!!!!

[HotDog]

I need some help here. I was talking to this woman today that is friends with a chick that I liked. We was talking about something this chick I like said one time and I said I don't really care. What I meant was I don't care about what she said and this woman said Now don't try to tell me that you don't care about Kelly......... I said yeah I guess I do so tell me something to pi$$ me off so I can get over her she said No I am not going to tell you lies for you to get over her I don't want you to hate her and neither does she.


Now she says brings up how Kelly had feelings for me , Kelly told me herself that she had feelings for me. This woman then tells me that Kelly Loves her boyfriend "yes she has a serious boyfriend". I said she can't Love her boyfriend and have feelings for me she said sure she can how do you think affairs get started and she also said you can't help who you fall for.


Ok somebody please help me out on this situation also what exactly does feelings mean? just like or more?? PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!

 

[spanky]

Here is what to do:


Do not act on your feelings for Kelly. She has a serious boyfriend and she may have some feelings for you but they don't hold a candle to her feelings of "LOVE" for her boyfriend. Let her make the first move.


You can try to make the first move and watch Kelly run away then come back to play with you whenever she is upset with her boyfriend. And I don't mean play in a good way; I mean play in a confused bad way.

Play it cool and pretend if you was never told she has feeling for you. easier said than done but you can refuse to heed this warning and watch who walks away with Kelly and who will be back at square one.

Again, let Kelly make the first move and wonder if you still like her.

 

[HotDog]

You can try to make the first move and watch Kelly run away then come back to play with you whenever she is upset with her boyfriend. And I don't mean play in a good way; I mean play in a confused bad way.

B-I-N-G-O You Hit the nail on the head. I did try to make a move she rejected me, but she said not here. So I guess a more private place would be ok. I don't see her no more on a regular basis and all of a sudden she I hear from her, then I hear from somebody that her boyfriend wants to leave her. Now what does play in a confused bad way mean, I don't understand?????

 

[spanky]

Originally posted by HotDog
Now what does play in a confused bad way mean, I don't understand?????

Just what is happening here. She knows that you have feelings for her so you can be her shoulder to lean upon while "Johnny" is acting up. Each time you offer that shoulder she will lose more attraction for you.

Johnny acts up-she wants to show Johhny she can move on- But she can't really cuz she loves Johhny just too much- She is confused-----this is bad for you.

She calls you up-You get happy and say "here I am"-You are definitely no challenge like Johnny and she sees that she can have you whenever she wants-she runs back to Johhny cause she actually loves him and "love" is stronger than "like"(don't confuse "feelings' with "love"- love wins out!)-Johhny sees that he can have her whenever he wants and he has her where he wants- Because of this, Johhny doesn't compromise in the relationship-Kelly gets p!ssed-Cylce continues.


Let her come to you so you can be more in control and appear more attractive but give her a hard time when she calls you up wanting to spend time with you. If you do this, just maybe she will wonder why she needs Johnny to give her a tough time when she can get it from you. And you might just not take her for granted like Johhny does. Plus, you don't just throw that shoulder out for her to lean on when she comes to you.

So let her act first and you respond by giving her a hard time. Don't mention Johhny when she calls. Just show her that you can be just as challenging as Johhny.

And of course, see other women. You don't have to next her. You can get good experience in these situations and dissect this "confused rollercoaster" women ride through while making some poor suckers suffer through it with them.

 

[HotDog]

She calls you up-You get happy and say "here I am"-You are definitely no challenge like Johnny and she sees that she can have you whenever she wants-she runs back to Johhny cause she actually loves him and "love" is stronger than "like"(don't confuse "feelings' with "love"- love wins out!)-Johhny sees that he can have her whenever he wants and he has her where he wants- Because of this, Johhny doesn't compromise in the relationship-Kelly gets p!ssed-Cylce continues.

Well when she called me and wanted to see me I didn't go over to see her. Because of this site otherwise I would have ran right over there. Then she tells me to start calling her sometimes which I haven't done. So the next day she came to my workplace to go to lunch, and I hid out so she just left. I have not heard from her since. I assume I will again someday then HUH????

 

[spanky]

Yeah, she won't come to your job for lunch one day and disappear off of the face of the earth all of a sudden. The important thing here is to let her call you next. Give her a bit of a hard time while seeing other women ( don't be scared to do it).

The seeing other women is so important here. It will really help you to be more attractive even if she doesn't know you have other women on the side. It will show in your attitude.


Don't count on pulling this off correctly without approaching other women.

 

[CLOONEY]

HotDog, if you like her it is best not to do anything with her. She is with her SERIOUS boyfriend and if she cheats on him with you, u will get nothing after she realises she still loves her boyfriend. If she breaks up with him for you then you are set. Just make sure that she knows you like her.

I liked a girl once, when she found out she dumped her boyfriend, however then I didnt like her. haha.

Another time I liked a girl, I mean REALLY liked, and she had a boyfriend she REALLY loved, we did a few things, but in the end she stayed with her boyfriend. This really fukced me up for a while.

And it dont matter if you are better looking than hiim or whatever, love is love man, and if she loves him u cant stop her feeling it.

 

[chicago#one]

forgeddiboutdit

Women like this bug me. The married ones are especially good at it. You are wasting your time. Not only that, if she does go anywhere with you, she will only do it long enough to get her man's attention. If he finds out, you may have a bigger problem. LBJF her and be her FB when they finnally split up. Do not hold out for her, there are plenty of other women who will not give you such a hard time. And she has already proven herself unworthy in terms of GF material. She sounds quite manipulative.

 

[spanky]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
HotDog, if you like her it is best not to do anything with her. She is with her SERIOUS boyfriend and if she cheats on him with you, u will get nothing after she realises she still loves her boyfriend. If she breaks up with him for you then you are set. Just make sure that she knows you like her.

I liked a girl once, when she found out she dumped her boyfriend, however then I didnt like her. haha.

Another time I liked a girl, I mean REALLY liked, and she had a boyfriend she REALLY loved, we did a few things, but in the end she stayed with her boyfriend. This really fukced me up for a while.

And it dont matter if you are better looking than hiim or whatever, love is love man, and if she loves him u cant stop her feeling it.

This is why I say have other women on the side as long as you deal with her . then you will be less likely to care what happens in the end.

HotDog, I didn't tell you to next her and I won't tell you because:

1). I doubt if you will listen anyway.

2). You can still have some fun with her and gain more experience with her.

3). Some next too easily and sacrifice too much experience with dealing with women in different situations (variation of 2.)

I like to know how to deal with the single chic, the cheating chic, the shy chic, the challenging chic, the hard-to-get chic, the virgin chic etc., at least once.

You can keep her around and she can just be one of the few women that you can spend a Saturday night getting freaky with. A woman does not always have to equal LTR or actually sticking your c&ck into her.

Companionship to the movies? BJ? HJ? Another chic to show up and get drunk at your parties? Someone who like you enough to drive you to the airport at 4:00 in the morning? Or what ever!

But Like I say, she will be with Johhny in the end and when she is ultimately ready to move on from him, it will very unlikely to be you.

Avoid hurt in this situation by having other women while you can take your opportunity to get with her in some sort of way and get some sort of pleasure out of it.



Again, if you do not have other women, it will not be done correctly and you will walk away with nothing but big disappointment.

 

[xblitz44x]

She's not in love, these feelings that you're talking about are nothing more than an attachment to the gratification of your ego. She gets gratification from you AND her boyfriend, no love, just gratification. You get gratification from being with her. Nothing wrong with that in itself, but you're trying to go through allll this effort to figure out what she's thinking, danger her relationship, and thus further gratify your ego. At that point the desire itself becomes UNHEALTHY. Cut yourself off from thoughts of her, it's just the "2 year old" side of you whining that "I want I want I want" and doesn't care how it goes about getting it. Cut the shyt.

-Blitz

 

[HotDog]

But Like I say, she will be with Johhny in the end and when she is ultimately ready to move on from him, it will very unlikely to be you.

I have read here before about when a woman is ready to leave her boyfriend they usually forget about you and find somebody else. Why is that??


Ok first of all I want to Thank You guys for the help I really appreciate it alot. What I am confused about it wether or not this girl is just playing with my head? What I mean is does she really have these feelings for me as her friend told me and is she Head Over Heels over me as she herself told me, and she is just confused on what she wants, or is this just a game she is playing with my head???

 

[CLOONEY]

She is either confused, or simply playing a game with your head to raise her own ego.

 

[spanky]

Originally posted by CLOONEY
She is either confused, or simply playing a game with your head to raise her own ego.

Yes.


HotDog, you can stick around to try to figure out which one but I will reiterate that whatever one it is, you will be very unlikely to wind up with her in the end considering the situation. But, you can give it a shot but like I say, cushion yourself with other broads.

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by spanky
Yes.


HotDog, you can stick around to try to figure out which one but I will reiterate that whatever one it is, you will be very unlikely to wind up with her in the end considering the situation. But, you can give it a shot but like I say, cushion yourself with other broads.

yep, VERY unlikely you will end up with her.