Have any of you guys tried picking up in a club playing mostly heavy metal music ('goth' music as im sure many of us UK folks call it)? Have you ever been successful in these places? I went to such a club with some buddies last week and noticed the following obstacles towards the PUA:
- music is even louder than your regular club: conversation is impossible without repeating what you say, over and over, shouting right into the person's ear. It's difficult to have an 'intimate' convo whilst shouting.
- everyone on the dancefloor is dancing completley differently to how you'd see them in your typical R'n'B, or dance music club. moshing, jumping about, and air guitar playing is ripe: the atmosphere seems more violent than sensual. So grinding, butt-bumping etc seems really out of place for this music amongst all the moshing.
- I'm new to this rock club atmosphere, but it seemed to me that in general the people there seemed to be just moping about, drinking in their groups. ... not looking as sociable as people in other clubs when I've been.
I don't think this is my scene particularly, but lots of my buddies like going there - so I see myself hanging there with them in the future. Do any of you have any advice for picking up girls in this (what seems to me) less-intimate environment?
thanks!
- music is even louder than your regular club: conversation is impossible without repeating what you say, over and over, shouting right into the person's ear. It's difficult to have an 'intimate' convo whilst shouting.
- everyone on the dancefloor is dancing completley differently to how you'd see them in your typical R'n'B, or dance music club. moshing, jumping about, and air guitar playing is ripe: the atmosphere seems more violent than sensual. So grinding, butt-bumping etc seems really out of place for this music amongst all the moshing.
- I'm new to this rock club atmosphere, but it seemed to me that in general the people there seemed to be just moping about, drinking in their groups. ... not looking as sociable as people in other clubs when I've been.
I don't think this is my scene particularly, but lots of my buddies like going there - so I see myself hanging there with them in the future. Do any of you have any advice for picking up girls in this (what seems to me) less-intimate environment?
thanks!