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picking up a waitress .. gotta try this one

Starman

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I dont eat at restaurants too many times..and when I do the waitresses are either ugly or they are dudes..

But I have had much success with Hooters waitresses..my technique was to go there , drink, with friends (not more than 2 guys) and not when they are extremely busy

Then get them to sit with you..and start being c0cky and funny..sometimes I just said "Well you were a blast to talk with why dont you give me your #..and I'll give you a buzz sometime"

Other times..I had to visit 2-3 times to build rapport..then get the #

But after a while I got a bad rep there because I was DJing 5-6 chicks..and ohh do they love to talk

One time , I was DJing a chick there..I ran outside..picked a bushel of flowers from the ground..and brought them to her..she was laughing her ass off..because the roots and dirt were still on the flowers
 

unixguy

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Originally posted by Starman
One time , I was DJing a chick there..I ran outside..picked a bushel of flowers from the ground..and brought them to her..she was laughing her ass off..because the roots and dirt were still on the flowers

That is good stuff!!! :D


as long as you didnt have to go back and plant the ones you took .. lol


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Originally posted by unixguy
I am just wondering here ...
but all the guys who think my idea sucked.

1. what is your success rate with waitresses? I am sure you go out to eat and find an attractive lady .. what is your success rate with your pick up lines?


I never keep track of success rate... the reason being that is that the guy that gets the most rejections gets the most women... even if his rejection rate is very high.

That said, when I've straight asked for the womans number, my success rate is usually about the same as with any other woman. If the woman is attracted to you, for the most part, your approach will make little difference on her answer. (Ie, if she has a bf, she will shoot you down regardless of how well you approach, if she's got any class.)

2. share your pick up lines with waitresses? If you are 10 for 10. Tell us your stratagy dont just sit here and put my down. Lets hear yours.

Waitresses are pretty fun to flirt with over all, especially if they are of the type that come back repeatedly.... So, often I will get the chance to talk to the waitress 3 or 4 times in the sitting.

Just keep it short and to the point, give a wink, or some comment that will get her talking a little bit... she's busy, so don't hold her back. If you can manage to pull a joke or something... all the better.

Then, just before leaving, I'll say something to the effect of, "If you are half as interesting off the job as when your working, I want your number so we could hang out sometime and make friends."

Or, at the fast food joint...
Her : would you like anything else?
ME : Is your number a good choice? or If someone asks about your number, would you recommend it? *Smiling in a way to suggest that she must get that alot.*
Whatever you say, PLEASE ask for the number rather then giving them yours. I know it seems like a good idea, but really it's not. If you go on a date with that waitress... I will literally be amazed... If I knew you, I would be willing to place a 10$ bet that she will never go out with you.
 

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well props for trying something different. Whether or not she's actually interested in you depends on how nice of a pen it was. If it was one of those disposables that you get in packs of ten, then it's probably not the pen she wants...
 

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All I gotta say is.........

What the **** are you doing at Tony Roma's?
 
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