Pick your targets, Open and walk away.(F/R of sorts)

[Purefilth]

Last night I went out solo for a few drinks and to see what was cracking on Friday nights. Didnt go out peacocking lol -couldnt be bothered, went straight from work i was out in work clothes, so I was rocking ****ies, scruffytrainers and a sweater - all covered in a healthy sprinkling of plaster dust - from drilling out ceilings

Great fun, danced a bit, met some lads and had a laugh. Plenty of warpigs about, mostly ****blocking ('protecting')the prettier ones.
Constantly vigilant, I noticed a few IOI's from several hotties mostly eyecontact, then looking away quickly and blushing followed by sly sideways looks in my direction. I just smirked, laughed and carried on having fun.
Obviously some of these could be looks wondering what the fvck I was doing dressed like that but IDGAF.

Anyways I see several start hovering around and orbiting, dancing close - but Im still not interested in them, they can wait till Ive found the one I want.
Soon enough back at the bar, I catch the attention of a beauty 8.5-9, decide *I want that one* and open to her, get in close. HOLD THE EYE CONTACT WHILE TALKING- Its important for the moment small convo, light kino -hardly noticeable- then warpig friend pipes in.

Unfortunately riding solo you have to adapt a bit but seeing as most of my buddies are taken by wives/gf's, Im used to having no wings. So its about trying to seduce both of them and only bang one.
So smile to the warpig and engage her in a few sentences with a winning smile (Important to win her over quickly). Turn back to the hottie and dismiss her. "Go with your friend, I'll catch you later" guide her away from you (hand on her hip pushing gently). Now Im back to dancing like a **** and having a laugh.

A little later i walk past her and catch her eye, give her the smirk (which is greeted by a big beaming smile) and carry on past.

Chatting to a lad, I decided fvck it- bedtime "Watch, This is either an epic win or an epic fail "
And off I go to find her. As I approach, I see she's with a whole group - oh well, Im already decided on what I'm doing tonight - Fat friend see me first, and gets excited and taps hb8.5-9, turns her towards me.Note the importance here of winning the friend over earlier - Saves from getting c0ckblocked here at the final hurdle

stop a step away Hands on her hips, pull her to me -Lean in, cheek touching cheek(quietly in her ear) "What are you doing now then"answer isnt important since here I was going for kiss close She pulled away, kiss denied.
took her hand and led her away from her friends, Turn, Kiss close. (Some girls just dont want everyone they know watching).

"So you live close?"
She nods, smiles.
"Lets go"
She laughs, shys a little, but thats not a NO. So I give her a kiss, back her up to a pillar. Makeout a bit - tease her with it, I wanna get laid tonight so I dont go hard at it - it works.
Look deep in her eyes, Say again"Let's go up to your place"
Same response as before, so i Backup a little, take her hand and lead her out the door, and to the taxi.

Notes

Went out for fun, no objective other than that.
Didnt waste my time on uninterested/semi-interested girls. - noone sees you get rejected(not that I care about that - it just makes you look a creep if you're seen to hit on every girl you see)
Had fun, ****ted about - people love this, (seeing someone not give a sh1t and just have fun) It gives them permission to act the same
Opened to the one I wanted when i wanted.
Made the warpig friend like me - potential c0ckblock spotted and dealt with swiftly(sometimes this ones more difficult to pull off)
Walked away when I wanted to - (Indifferent/no desperation)
Had fun, got what I wanted, and Didnt buy a girl a drink

 

[ARrocket]

Nicely done Purefilth, especially handling the friend (still not really sure how you managed that, but hey).

 

[Mike32ct]

Perfect. "Game" is not doing 50 approaches. It's going with your gut and doing one approach

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Awesome bro! Handled it perfectly!














PIMP

 

[marmel75]

I've noticed several times when I've been out if I just say "Hello" to a woman and maintain strong eye contact and walk away I will notice them in our vicinity just kinda hanging out like they want me to come back and talk to them....personally my favorite is to chill at the bar and wait for lames to try and buy women drinks and then make a joke about with her as an opener...works almost everytime, lol...

Nice work on the FR bro!

 

[foreverAFC]

thanks this was pretty informative, i just never know when the time is right to back off or engage, and i end up making things awkward.

 

[Purefilth]

Cheers guys, I'm not a great writer, I tried to get most of the details in, may well add more f/r now and again.

@ARrocket - Luck was a big part of that, I was not in GODMODE, but sometimes sh1t just goes well. I think because they turned out to be part of a bigger group the friend wasn't about to be left alone - that in itself is one of the hardest parts about riding solo.
Last chance saloon to save this if she had been a big c0ckblock would have been to grab a lonely looking lad and introduce him to the friend then sneak the HB out while they're talking.

@Mike32c - I fully agree, snipers over shotguns all the way, may mean you miss some chances, but if theyre not that interesting anyways it doesnt matter it isn't really a miss. I'm about getting what I want, not whatever is easiest.

@Pimp-sicle - Cheers bro - it wasn't perfect game, but its called getting lucky for a reason

@marmel75 - Yeah, by the bar is definitely the place to open sets and guage interest. If you're facing the bar theres normally mirrors behind the liquor, using that and your peripherol vision lets you scope out the chicks on the sly (can catch them eyeing you up in these mirrors too).

@foreverAFC - I can go through it and do a deeper analysis in italics if you'd like. It would all be in hindsight though - the bits that just happen without thinking at the time. Dunno if that would help though - might just be too much info.

Will edit in Italics underlinedif you want.

 

[JohnChops]

very nice purefilth, having no outcome in mind is the best way to go out! Perfect