Physical traits becoming a bigger quality then being a Don Juan.

[PEACEDJ]

Hey have you guys ever encountered this problem. I'm korean and girls do find me attractive and since my Don Juan skills back me up I stand out from the crowd, but for some reason, since I am asian its hard to get a blond. It's really easy to open them up and such but when it breaks down to dating them as a girlfriend they particularly look for the american guys.

I still don't get it because I'm friends with mostly all of them and they are HUGE AFC's but the blond's like them for their looks. I don't know whats going on.... Any ideas for this situation?

 

[Julian]

Man i can sort of relate. Im half Mexican half German.

However chicks, at least the ones around here seem to dig the latin flavor and they favor a more exotic look, compared to all the white boys ya know.

So i guess i cant realy relate.

I dunno what it is, alot of girls just dont dig asians. I like asian girls, hell i love asian girls.

I guess then only thing for you to do is try and get white washed or some sh1t if you want. But as usual ill just tell you to be yourself, be asian, thats what you are. If a chick doesnt want you because of your race then shes a wack b1tch.

 

[The Bishop]

Originally posted by PEACEDJ
Hey have you guys ever encountered this problem. I'm korean and girls do find me attractive and since my Don Juan skills back me up I stand out from the crowd, but for some reason, since I am asian its hard to get a blond. It's really easy to open them up and such but when it breaks down to dating them as a girlfriend they particularly look for the american guys.

I still don't get it because I'm friends with mostly all of them and they are HUGE AFC's but the blond's like them for their looks. I don't know whats going on.... Any ideas for this situation?

Well, I am half asian and i have no problem with the blondes. It isnt a matter of what your race is as much as you thinking that race is your problem. In my experience these days girls see guys as just "guys", not "asian guys" or "black guys" or anything like that. Sure, some people may have prefrences in terms of race but you cant really help that.

 

[InsidiousNstinct]

I got the same problem... I live in TN (redneck country) so its really hard to get a girl. I had one girl tell me she wanted ot date me but her parents would have a fit. (cuz im Hispanic and shes white)

How messed up is that.....

just be thankful you don't live down south....

Its all good tho....Im not gonna let shiii like that bring me down.

 

[The Irish Corleone]

Originally posted by JBizzle
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just be thankful you don't live down south....

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Believe me I am...jk no offense southern dudes.

 

[TeflonDon]

i'm with julian on this one...i'm a mexican DJ and the ladies love the latin look...but as for being asian...i think u have a point with the whole korean getting a blond thing...haven seen too much of that going around, but if your going to do anything, just be yourself, and done go whitewashed...cuz it'll only hurt you in the longrun...

 

[Superman X]

I've said this a million times.

Unless you live in some remote redneck village, race doesn't matter unless you make it matter. I'm half Asian half white and I've had a girlfriend of every race. You are using your race for an excuse for the fact that you are a pvssy.

My advice to you: grow some balls. Tough love, man.

-Dan

 

[PEACEDJ]

Originally posted by Superman X
I've said this a million times.

Unless you live in some remote redneck village, race doesn't matter unless you make it matter. I'm half Asian half white and I've had a girlfriend of every race. You are using your race for an excuse for the fact that you are a pvssy.

My advice to you: grow some balls. Tough love, man.

-Dan

If I don't have any balls I wouldn't have encountered this problem.

 

[DJ_Cloud]

I'm just an average looking chinese guy, but im funny, ****y, confident, and i have status - ive had no trouble dating caucasian girls, though I do admit I'm a bit whitewashed..

 

[dbot]

This depends completely on where you live. In California it seems that pretty much anything goes. But I'm sure there's some regions with a bit of racism.

 

[RockGuitarist]

Originally posted by The Irish Corleone in response to "just be thankful you don't live down south...
Believe me I am...jk no offense southern dudes.

None taken... if you'll pay my bus fare to get me the hell out of here .

Later,
DJBedford.

 

[hobbes344]

i have the exact same problem. im asian too, but it is almost impossible to pick up chicks without them having the initial high level interest... to be brutally honest, i'm probably what you call a banana (yellow on the outside, white on the inside) so i think that it's not a personality issue, just one of different color... hmmm, funny, most the asian/white mxed girls i know are pretty hot though.

 

[Dale North]

Same thing here, buddies. Live in Mississauga, Toronto. Funny thing is, while I'm not the best with white gals, my other chinese DJ friend has blondes crawling over him left and rite.

Haha. Damn him, but he did have a 2 year head start.

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