Phonesex

[itishe]

I want to get into phonesex with my girlfriend, but I don't really know where to begin.

What techniques, phrases, etc. do you use to begin the escalation and eventually jump into phonesex? When in phonesex what do you like to discuss, etc.?

I asked her if she'd be into phone sex one night, she replied with "What did you say?". I said, "you heard me". She paused for a while and said, "I don't know" and giggled. I teased her for a while and she finally said, "I never said I wouldn't do it". So I know she's up for it, just need help getting off the ground.

 

[( . )( . )]

Phone sex is for chicks,chumps and faggots,pull your head in and stop wasting everyones time.

But thanks anyway I guess, bozos like you spend hours sexing the b!tch up getting her primed for a guy that has got better things to do other than pull himself off over the phone.

 

[itishe]

Anyone want to be helpful?

 

[SamePendo]

DJnese:

Phone sex is for chicks,chumps and faggots,pull your head in and stop wasting everyones time.

But thanks anyway I guess, bozos like you spend hours sexing the b!tch up getting her primed for a guy that has got better things to do other than pull himself off over the phone.

Translation:

Why would you want "phone sex" when you can get the real thing with a woman, live? What you are doing by having "phone sex" is to heat her up, and what sex real bad, she will look for sex elsewhere (she obviously won't admit to it) and whoever stumps into her will have it much more easy, being that she's turned on.

Get on the other side and be the guy that stumbles into a turned on chick with by a guy that doesn't have better options but to resort to phone sex.

 

[Muzzlehatch]

Hi there,
Wow, seems like a some people believe phone sex = loser sex. How do you work that out?
Talk about sex in any way with your girlfriend whenever you can, wherever you can. Get her so hot she's gagging for it. Write to her about it, text her about it, email her about it, any possible means of turning her into a hot nympho should be taken at all costs. Then reap the rewards. What's the matter with that?

itshe, you didn't actually make clear your motives for phone sex clear, (not that its really relevant in my opinion, but anyway) i.e is it instead of physical sex or as well as? Also you didn't say how far away you and your girlfriend are. I think that's what SamePendo and titman are driving at. Though I would think that once you've had hot phone sex real sex is just about inevitable anyway! Its a kind of foreplay, and even more powerful for a woman, because they respond especially well to words, whereas we are wired to respond more to images, hence the delightful porn we all know and love.

So use that as a starting point. Make your words to her all about how things feel for her; tastes, touches, smells etc. as that's what women respond best to rather than visual words and imagery. You can also use phone sex to get her used to the idea of talking dirty during sex if that's your thing. I find that a real turn on, and its going to be so much easier to say 'you love the feel of my c!ck don't you, you horny btch' if you've used stuff like that in phone sex first. Likewise with any other kink you want to introduce to her, eg, anal sex, threesomes etc. Phone sex rocks!

I've never tried doing this, but the Speed Seduction stuff seems tailor made for phone sex. Just a thought.

No, I'm afraid I don't have any actual scripts for phone sex. Like anything else, take it easy the first few times to find her boundaries, then amp it up and push the boundaries gradually each time. And phone me, because I like listening in. Just kidding guys! Just kidding!

 

[Doc Dogg]

Damn! there is some critics in the audience tonight... I find that when I describe in intimate detail what I'm planning to do to a girl the next time I'm with her, it can be very powerful. I almost guarentees me a good night the next time I see her

But I have to agree with breasts man and SP about how it could lead her onto the awaiting p3nis of another man, so be careful.

Whether I do it over the phone or by text or MSN, I ALWAYS make sure I describe everything in as minute detail as possible, including what I'm wearing, what she is wearing, where we are doing it, everything. Then if I am on the phone I will use a slow, deep melodical tone of voice to emphasise what I'm saying. I always make sure I tell her what I am doing for HER, it isn't real sex so your orgams isn't important, focus on how you would touch her, how you would kiss her, avoid making it X rated until right at the end. If you break out the "I shove my throbing c**k deep into your moist c**t" too early (or at all) it will kill it. I always describe where I am kissing her, how I am positioning her (I like to sit behind girls and kiss their necks and shoulders from behind in real life so I also focus on this in my e-sex)

Just remember it is all about her, have fun and she will *** a lot and be waiting for you to do it in real life the next time you see her

 

[itishe]

You see my girlfriend lives 3,000 miles away, and she's coming up in December.

 

[diablo]

Moved to AE...

 

[Muzzlehatch]

3,000 miles away.... hmm, not exactly convenient for a quickie.
Have fun with the phone and I hope December rocks.

 

[itishe]

I can't seem to find the right time to start slipping into it. It's not like real world kino and escalating up to sex.

I think she wants it though, because she's always saying she is laying down in her bed when I call her. She'll stop what she's doing and go lay down.