Pet names possible s-test

[Dubh]

Im a mild-dj getting there. what is your take on them? she calls me all these soft names like muffin baby and love ect? I sometimes call her the same thing but could she b tryin take the frame how do you respond?

 

[Proselytiser]

Whether or not I have a pet peeve about the pet name 'love', I don't know, but whenever a woman has used that on me, it has been a frame grab. It's never happened in a relationship.. but it's always been used in a 'be a good boy and do that' way.

 

[Dubh]

Lol o yeah man its crazy because my afc wanted to reaspond but i just smiled at her did i mess up?

 

[Proselytiser]

A condescending smile is a fine response. But what was the AFC in you begging you to do? I can't really see any other way of responding haha

 

[salmon]

I've seen guys turn this around onto the girl. If done in a funny way, you can get away with calling her stupid names like "muffin face" or "puppy pants". You just have to really play up the cutesie factor for her -- play the puppy-dog eyes, and a silly voice.

I use the nickname "nanna" a lot (another word for grandmother) with girls I meet, and back it up by accusing them of doing things like knitting at home and baking cookies (then insisting they bring some along for me).

Proselytiser is right -- don't get caught in it. If it's constantly in the "do something for me" sense, call her out on it. "Oh, I see what you're doing! Your evil mind control isn't going to work any more -- what's in it for me?"

 

[x86]

Heh, salmon I pretty much use the same line. I go with "Your Womanly powers do not work on me"

 

[Proselytiser]

I never explicitly point it out - just speak to her like a child