Persist or pull out?

[Cheeks]

No bud. Vlad gave you the answer to what to do back on 8/22. You sending her "ok" is showing that you're mad, AKA involved in her drama & she knows it of course by her responses. Simply text her. "Girl, I'm not mad at you. I've just been a little. When are you free to hang out again?"

Then, if she does anything but give you a day/days/dates/etc, then you can go NC on her. If she gives you one, pick the one that works for you.

Really, out of this, I would just be looking to bang her. Anything else, sounds like too much for my liking.

I've already done all that. Really don't care if she thinks I'm mad, I'm not getting laid anyway.

 

[The_411]

Too much effort here. She's telling you she's not right in the head and she's playing games. Drop your emotional attachment and walk away. Sometimes that's all you get from a girl and often it's less. Accept it and move to someone who won't create so much drama.

 

[scrouds]

Just send her a pic of a flaccid black ccck. Or a white one if you're black. You're going to have to ratchet up the ashole if you want some more.

 

[Cheeks]

If anyone cares to assist, here's how the rest of the exchange went:

Her: Dude. Seriously?

Me: What

Her: Nothing I guess. I'm just trying to figure out what I did

Me: Oh did you do something? You're assuming I'm mad so I guess it makes sense.

Her: Well you don't normally talk to me like that so I would say it's a pretty safe bet that you're mad at me or something

Me: Don't know what you mean, but ok

Her: I mean if you're not mad, then fine. I was just wondering how your weekend went and everything because we didn't get to hang out..

Me: it was ok

Her: Did you go on your date ? (I didn't have a date, just made it up to seem less like a loser)

Me: Just hung out

Her: Nothing wrong with that. That's cool. How's Gwen ? (My pet bird)

Me: She's ok

Her: That's good. Any plans for this week ?

Me: just busy

Her: Ok well if you wanna hang out, let me know i guess

Me: Ok


That was on Tuesday and we haven't talked since. My instinct tells me to not contact her again. There's a rule like "never let her reject you twice" or something along those lines. If I ask her to come over she'll flake.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Me: pffft

Her: What?

Me: do whatever makes you happy then, no worries

Her: Yeah but I like hanging out with you
[/B]

Your response should have been:

My house, tomorrow, 9 pm.

"Smash and trash" is all this chick is good for. Might as well have some fun before she goes back to her ex.

 

[Cheeks]

Me: pffft

Her: What?

Me: do whatever makes you happy then, no worries

Her: Yeah but I like hanging out with you
[/B]
Your response should have been:

My house, tomorrow, 9 pm.

"Smash and trash" is all this chick is good for. Might as well have some fun before she goes back to her ex.

Whenever I try to smash she flakes out. Then I stop engaging her and she comes back for more games. I don't know, whatever

 

[Outlaw_]

Whenever I try to smash she flakes out. Then I stop engaging her and she comes back for more games. I don't know, whatever

So, give her the invite, but consider it a 50/50 shot. Mentally & emotionally consider it a long shot...like, I'm not doing anything that night anyway & if I get some pvss, that will be great. IF not, then I will go to sleep.

Good job of keeping in contact with her & not getting involved in the emotional stuff. She's actually giving you some great practice, because all she is doing is giving you major **** tests...as well as she is a game player, a la "I lied about having a date".

Most guys can't handle this type of stuff mentally & emotionally. If you can detach, but still stay in contact, you will smash her again.

 

[Cheeks]

So, give her the invite, but consider it a 50/50 shot. Mentally & emotionally consider it a long shot...like, I'm not doing anything that night anyway & if I get some pvss, that will be great. IF not, then I will go to sleep.

Good job of keeping in contact with her & not getting involved in the emotional stuff. She's actually giving you some great practice, because all she is doing is giving you major **** tests...as well as she is a game player, a la "I lied about having a date".

Most guys can't handle this type of stuff mentally & emotionally. If you can detach, but still stay in contact, you will smash her again.

Thanks. Yeah, I've been through the wringer and now I never expect anything but the absolute worst behavior from women at all times. This allows me to sit back and remain unattached and dispassionate. It is what it is.

 

[mikey2012]

She going back to her ex coz hes a pvsy and she can do what she wants but it wont last. Shes toxic, maybe BPD. Bang her if you dont get emotionally involved. But if I were you...find another.