Hubris
Don Juan
It seems to me that alot of the people who are stuck in a rut (thinking specifically of the guy who wrote the "never been kissed" article) probably need to go out and get laid.
Now I'm sure everyone is thinking "that's why they come to this site dumba--!" But really that isn't what the DJ bible is about.
The DJ bible is about getting lots of play from the most attractive girls possible. What I'm talking about is going out and having sex with a girl. -Any- girl.
Virginity is *not* an asset to males. It is less than useless. If you are sleeping with a girl who's more experienced than you, you are automatically in an AFC situation. Not good.
Also while you're a virgin you've got this idea about what girls are like that is highly skewed. Virgins tend to see them as partly devine. They have this romantic vision that is fed to them by the media of this prince charming male figure and the 'first-kiss is a marriage promise' and where 'sex is a wonderful gift of unearthly pleasure' that is seen in movies, soaps and everything else. This is garbage and it makes it even harder to approach women and going on your way to becomining a DJ.
Ppost virginity is a different story entirely. After that one night in bed us guys start to realise a few things. First sex isn't as much fun as the world led us to believe. It's fun, but so is a really good rock concert, or nailing your SAT's. Second, women start to look pretty dumb after we've slept with them. There is a reason why it is always the guys that "take advantage" of women because, to put it bluntly, sex looks and feels a whole lot like guys get to forcefully take pleasure out of women.
I know that's not entirely accurate. Women like sex too, but it certainly seems like I've described above.
I honestly think that a begining chapter is missing in the DJB (I havn't read all of it so maybe I overlooked something). And the first lesson should be "If you havn't done so already, go out and lose your virginity." Take that girl who's kinda annoying who you've known for years or take a dive or something, make sure you've had a drink or two first.
It really is a key ingredient in becoming a man and I think the DJB is written for men.
Thoughts? Comments?
Now I'm sure everyone is thinking "that's why they come to this site dumba--!" But really that isn't what the DJ bible is about.
The DJ bible is about getting lots of play from the most attractive girls possible. What I'm talking about is going out and having sex with a girl. -Any- girl.
Virginity is *not* an asset to males. It is less than useless. If you are sleeping with a girl who's more experienced than you, you are automatically in an AFC situation. Not good.
Also while you're a virgin you've got this idea about what girls are like that is highly skewed. Virgins tend to see them as partly devine. They have this romantic vision that is fed to them by the media of this prince charming male figure and the 'first-kiss is a marriage promise' and where 'sex is a wonderful gift of unearthly pleasure' that is seen in movies, soaps and everything else. This is garbage and it makes it even harder to approach women and going on your way to becomining a DJ.
Ppost virginity is a different story entirely. After that one night in bed us guys start to realise a few things. First sex isn't as much fun as the world led us to believe. It's fun, but so is a really good rock concert, or nailing your SAT's. Second, women start to look pretty dumb after we've slept with them. There is a reason why it is always the guys that "take advantage" of women because, to put it bluntly, sex looks and feels a whole lot like guys get to forcefully take pleasure out of women.
I know that's not entirely accurate. Women like sex too, but it certainly seems like I've described above.
I honestly think that a begining chapter is missing in the DJB (I havn't read all of it so maybe I overlooked something). And the first lesson should be "If you havn't done so already, go out and lose your virginity." Take that girl who's kinda annoying who you've known for years or take a dive or something, make sure you've had a drink or two first.
It really is a key ingredient in becoming a man and I think the DJB is written for men.
Thoughts? Comments?