People's take on this situation

[vorbis]

First I suppose a small bit about myself. Even though I'm 23, I've have fairly limited success with women. Shyness was a big factor for years, but its getting better. Anyways.

I was out on Friday night in a club. I ended up scoring a 5 (nice face, bit heavy). As we were leaving, I had to get my coat so she went outside to wait. In the queue, this HB7 started chatting me up. Took me a few seconds to realise that she was talking to me. Walked with her out of the nightclub.

The girl I scored was outside chatting to a few guys. The HB7 was showing a high IL so I decided to chance her. Things were going fine, was doing some kino on her neck and her back. I leaned in for a kiss but she lowered her head. Said she had a bf. Normally I would bail at this point. She though didn't move back from me and was still holding my hand.

I figured she was testing me so I started busting her about the bf. She started talking about how great he was and that he was always there for her. At the same time, she had no issue with me continuing the kino on her hair neck and back.

Her choice of language was unusual, she kept using terms like "angel", "dependable" to describe her bf. She even said that he was not much to look at but that she loved him. She called me good looking and an interesting guy.

Kept on chatting to her for about another ten minutes. Have to say she was great to talk too so I wasn't viewing the whole thing as a waste of my time. One of her friends came back then to tell her they had got a taxi. I walked her up to it. She still seemed to be showing high IL. She seemed to be expecting me to ask for her number so I did. She also asked me for my number. Gave her a kiss on the cheek and left.

I am inexperienced with women so this one left me a bit confused. Is she just looking for attention? i.e. a AW

 

[Docs]

Hello!

Great pickup on words there. That suggests to me that she isn't happy about your boyfriend, considering that she did not push away.

She could be a AW, or it's a shattest, you passed it though, because you didnt' bail.

Excellent job. Persistance

Looking some more, it feels to me you were a little quick on that kiss.... Still, she's a option since you reeled in her number, and her yours, so it doesn't hurt to go after her. I'll leave it to someone else to tell you if and when to call her.

Kudos to you.
Docs

 

[Maverick001]

vorbis,

Welcome to the board. A field report as a first post; well done...

If you want to move things along with this girl, of course call her and call within 2 days max.

Then set the rules of engagement by pacing this out as you want. If she`s an AW, no problem. We can help you deal with those.

If she really does have a boyfriend, I would suggest being in the periphery for now. Remember, bros before hoes.

If you haven`t read the DJ Bible, and done the bootcamp, don`t wait.

Cheers,
Mav

 

[Bonhomme]

(Consulting Pook's ******** translator...)

******** translator sez if a gal is telling you what a guy does for her, she's not under his spell, and thinks of him as a good friend, more than anything else.

If she tells you how he makes her feel, whether good or bad, or some combination thereof, forget her. She's totally under his spell, and treating you like one of her female friends. Girl talk is for girl friends.

From what I can tell, she gave you a bit of both, but more about what he does. Saying she "loves" him is not like saying he "makes her feel alive," or some such. ******** translator indicates she probably wants to jump ship, but doesn't want to hurt the guy, because she likes him as a person. Bummer for him.

But don't worry about him. If the chemistry's not there with her current fellow, it's not there, and she's gonna bail on him anyway. If she handles it with class and decency, it's a good sign, as far as her character goes. Women will very often pick a replacement before they bail on a guy.