People Who take your kindness for Weakness....

[Night-hawk]

Do social things other than drinking and clubbing. The crappiest, least honest, most using, least reliable people in any town or social scene are the ones drinking and partying several nights a week. It may seem like -everyone- is doing that, but it's an illusion, you just aren't in the right places to determine otherwise.

[Socrates] Any one who has common sense will remember that the bewilderments of the eyes are of two kinds, and arise from two causes, either from coming out of the light or from going into the light, which is true of the mind's eye, quite as much as of the bodily eye; and he who remembers this when he sees any one whose vision is perplexed and weak, will not be too ready to laugh; he will first ask whether that soul of man has come out of the brighter light, and is unable to see because unaccustomed to the dark, or having turned from darkness to the day is dazzled by excess of light. And he will count the one happy in his condition and state of being, and he will pity the other; or, if he have a mind to laugh at the soul which comes from below into the light, there will be more reason in this than in the laugh which greets him who returns from above out of the light into the cave.

 

[scrouds]

Return of Kings has a great post about how living by the golden rule is utter bs. I recommend people here read it.

 

[glass half full]

is Return of kings on this website, or another? Searched through the members list but didn't find him.

 

[VikingKing]

I agree with phm. People believe what they want to, we all do. It's a way to avoid the hard cold truth, but in the end it will be your downfall. Now this doesn't give you a right to be a complete sh!t bag. If you are a true sociopath ( I wish I was) then by all means you can do it and be unaffected, and you will get very far as long as you don't get busted.

I do, however, believe that many people who lie, do it compulsively. I think for women it because much more of a natural reaction, and they don't really look at it as honesty or dishonesty. Only sometimes, because I think women are more ok with just telling a bold face lie, and going to sleep at night.

Maybe just after telling bold face lies so much, and no one is keeping you in check, it becomes a norm for them to lie, and unlike us (at least me) they don't think about lying like we do. Lying is only wrong to women if it backfires on them, or if they are the victim of a lie that affects them negatively.

 

[glass half full]

women do seem to think its okay if they lie. But they will quickly call out a man for it. From personal experiences...
Me and some friends were discussing this subject many years ago, and we realized the cold truth about how women lie and its ok, but not men, not even a little white lie. Very interesting, must get it from Eve!

 

[scrouds]

is Return of kings on this website, or another? Searched through the members list but didn't find him.

www.returnofkings.com

 

[Alvafe]

women do seem to think its okay if they lie. But they will quickly call out a man for it. From personal experiences...
Me and some friends were discussing this subject many years ago, and we realized the cold truth about how women lie and its ok, but not men, not even a little white lie. Very interesting, must get it from Eve!

not really, woman like when guys lies for her sake or to make her feel better, and we sure have a lot of guys who do this, woman don't like when you call her bullsh!ts, woman hates more truths then lies,

also just think why everyone lies? because it works, you are tired, your back is killing your job is pilling and someone come and ask everything is fine? you will always tell that person it is,, because if not you are boring/annoying and people will start to avoid you.

but sure you also need to remember one thing everyone do things to ease his life a little, be it by drinking and going out every day, be playing games, hobbys, even drug. why? because if we do only what they teach us in school and what society asks we or will become a drone, a flesh robot, or we go crazy and suicide or go out shooting anyone you see.