People who MAKE FUN of us, DJs...

[Caveman]

Good point back-breaker.

Actually once i mentioned the stuff being discussed on this site to a female friend of mine. Just for the fun of it. She is very spiritual and wise but no matter how right I was, she wouldn't agree with me. (big surprise) We almost got into a fight that i could only prevent in laughing at our disagreement. My point was to not convince her.. Just wanted to know what she thought of it.

Actually talking about some of this stuff is pretty funny to discuss with women. (Don't discuss with girls you wanna get with though) They get all defensive and all, but in a way their actions prove otherwise.

I agree with anyone that said to not show your friends this site. Don't use the thermology, just use your achieved wisdom to help them out a bit. Tell them what you think they are doing wrong and most of all: Don't give them advice if they are getting pu$$y while you are still only spending your time reading this stuff. Why would they believe you??

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by neobrood
He called me a loser because of a reason along the lines of:

"Why the hell do you need to read those shlt? You are a man and getting woman should come naturally. That is how its programmed by nature. Don't be a desperate loser. You'll find a chick soon. dont worry. they will come."

Your friend is actually 100% correct if we followed the 'natural order of things' and men acted like men and women followed their true natures!!

Unfortunately, men of today are effeminates or have effeminate thinking and qualities. The strong have become the weak and the weak have become the strong!

 

[backbreaker]

My business partner is pretty good looking (I am not gay), well built, makes a nice amount of money, but has no sucess with women. He complains about it alot, and the other day I just broke down and told him that he needs to "grow up", but not like you think. He is a moma's boy. No one wants a 22 year old mama's boy. Also he never smiles. What woman wants a man who is always serious? I told him he had to open himself up more and be more appricative of other people.

This one woman that was at my barber shop was bragging how she is getting married in a year, and I almost made her cry. For one, she has been with him for 4 years, and only one of thoose years have they lived in the same state. He lives in Texas, we are in Arkansas. I told her that she is a)to young (20) and b) way to nieve. What man wouldn't mess around if your woman was out of state for 3 years? You really wouldn't have a choice, damnit I have needs, and you are not fufilling them. However I did wish her the best of luck (and I did mean it)

I was at Denny's with some friends of mine last friday night, and I get a phone call from this girl I am... well..."friends" with. I had called her eariler and asked her if she wanted to do something, and she said she was busy. I was fine with it, and just went bowling. She calls me and asks me was I busy and did I want to come over. i told her I had plans for the night. My friends told me" you don't have any plans, why not go over and get some?". I told them it's the principal of the matter. You just can't call me when YOU feel like it, at 1:30 in the morning and ask me to come over, and expect me NOT to be busy, after you probably just got screwed by another guy. Doesn't work like that.

 

[backbreaker]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Your friend is actually 100% correct if we followed the 'natural order of things' and men acted like men and women followed their true natures!!

Unfortunately, men of today are effeminates or have effeminate thinking and qualities. The strong have become the weak and the weak have become the strong!

I don't mean to sound dumb, but effeminate means woman like right?

PuertoRickan_lover, I would love to meet you one day, you have some pretty interesting views on women and life in general. I bet you are a pretty cool cat.

 

[neobrood]

What woman wants a man who is always serious?

I think this is only 95% true.

I used to be this overly serious angsty suicide freak... But why did this girl approach me and talk to me and like me (to be her friend)?

The word "friend" in relation to a woman seems bad for some people here. "I don't wanna be friends with you. If you're not goin out with me, i'll find someone else..."

But hey. At least she liked me as a friend...

 

[neobrood]

I SHOULD SEE A PSYCHIATRIST

I've been givin advice to my brother on how to succeed with women and all... (without mentioning this site)

I explained to him some DJ rules and he said...

"wheredya get that crap? from the internet? I don't trust all that internet BS"

And then later on, he said something like...

"You know what, you should see a psychiatrist. Not too long ago, you always looked down and hated the world so much, and now, why are you so hyper and so confident? No offense, but you should see a psychiatrist"

 

[Julian]

Ive showed a couple friends Sosuave, they seem to like it but they are still afc. -_- I wish i could go sarging on some chicks with them but they refuse which sucks cuz a wingman would be nice.

Oh well, their loss.

 

[comic_relief]

me too

neobrood,
My parents think I am weird because of how I rationalize things have changed so much (how I tell them a couple techiniques on how to be happy and most of my ideas on love and such ("love is a lie made by a feminist to control men" I do not know who made that quote up but I like it)and actually told me the same thing. I replied "really a pschyocologist?!? I would love one. Give me someone to talk to when I am bored." They just looked at me in shock and I walked away. Came back in that night and acted like nothing happened and this just freaked my parents out even more.

 

[Slickster]

Its great that you want to help your friend but this site should be something that one finds on his own.

 

[comic_relief]

Posted by Neobrood
"Why the hell do you need to read those shlt? You are a man and getting woman should come naturally. That is how its programmed by nature. Don't be a desperate loser. You'll find a chick soon. dont worry. they will come."

Look at him and say "I'm the desparate loser!?! Whose going to be alone Friday night ."

And I agree with slickster. People must find this site when they are good and ready. Otherwise 95% of the people you show this site to will do the same exact thing to you. Oh well Fvck em.

 

[Ebach]

Hey, you have to understand it's perfectly normal. No one wants to feel less so sometimes people talk through their egos just so they can top your offer off. Say you give him advice about women and they say yeah I already knew that even if they didn't. Don't scorn at them because they say they know it because it doesn't matter. The important thing is they heard your advice and let them take it from there. You don't have to force your **** in order for people to find it useful. RANT RANT RANT! HEHE

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by backbreaker
you can't help someone until they want to be helped.

Thats what it all comes down to. Not just in showing them sosuave, but in everything in life.

Oh and Ebach, nice rant!! lol. Im actually starting to like you, some of your rants are just plain funny!!!

PRL, where did u grow up, a cave?? he he he, just playin with u man. It just sounds funny the blunt way you word your opinions.

Neobrood, great people are starting to notice your changes. Being positive about life is a choice we make. And what is the point in living on the negative side of things, u only fukc up your own mind. In everything that happens in life, there is always a positive, even if you dont see it right away, a lot of the times good things come to those who wait!

 

[Austin Allegro]

What's the first rule of fightclub?
You don't talk about fightclub.

There is NO point trying to 'change' AFCs by telling them about this website.

In my AFC day I saw speedseduction (a similar site) and thought it was 'sexist rubbish'.

You have to reach breaking point before you can appreciate what it means to be a DJ. It's what alcoholics call a 'moment of clarity' when they finally see through the haze and realise something needs to be done.

When your friends reach that point, perhaps you can recommend this site. Until that point, I'd just restrict myself to giving occasional pieces of advice.

 

[chicksrock]

Those who want to know this material, and are willing to learn..will find this website by themselves...

concentrate keeping your life on track... that's hard enough as it is...

offcourse if a friend asks for dating advice i'll offer my opinions..but not going to so far as to convince them to read and do all the stuff i do!

Opinions guys..just give your opinions..
most ppl aren't evolved enough to understand and incorporate all the stuff on this message board (they;'re just too AFC!)

 

[Hamaraz]

Originally posted by neobrood
Um... I showed a friend parts of the DJ bible... and he laughed at me and called me a "desperate loser"...

Dude is an AFC more then likely and actsl like a ***** with girls. Everyone can improve their game. IMO, 95% of men/boys are AFCs.

 

[Hamaraz]

Originally posted by Austin Allegro
What's the first rule of fightclub?
You don't talk about fightclub.

Yo, I seriously like that ****.

 

[Hamaraz]

Regarding other AFCs wanting to help them.

F them.
Let women use them.
Let them spend money on them.
Let them be dogs to girls.


The fewer men in the world the better for us.

 

[WestCoaster]

I want to liberate society, too!

Originally posted by neobrood
I try to tell people about the DJ bible because I WANNA HELP SOCIETY.

According to the DJ bible, the media is full of AFC shows... and this society is becoming more "feminized"... and its the women who are taking control... and things were not like this 100 years ago... etc... etc... etc...

I wanna help liberate my fellow men from the chains of AFC-ism.

I agree: A DJ society is a good society. Like one of my friends said, DJism helps the woman, too. It brings out the best in them. They don't like desparation, but they sure settle for it ... not initially, but then again, go to your local grocery store. Here you will find the 400-pound giagantegous humongeous dragging around AFCus Wimpous.

I want to trim down this part of society! I want to go to a bookstore, look in the self-help/psychology section and see books about good men dating quality women; not airhead women "who can't love" or "who love bad boys." Heck, not even airheads: I know some Ph.d.'s who love those bad boys, too. I want these women either turned around, or ignored in society -- and I want the DJs controlling the switches!

I want to turn on the TV and not see "Everyone Blows Raymond" where everyone is an AFC ... or "The King of Queens AFCs," where the big dork is just a big, fat wimp. Thank God I've only seen parts of these shows in my entire life.

DJism is about respecting yourself, living your own life and not groveling for any of it, be it a woman or your career.

Still, we're told to grovel by our society ... at least the U.S. society.

I want to liberate society, too. The more people who know and practice DJism, the better off society will be.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by backbreaker
I don't mean to sound dumb, but effeminate means woman like right?

PuertoRickan_lover, I would love to meet you one day, you have some pretty interesting views on women and life in general. I bet you are a pretty cool cat.

Yes, effeminate means to take on 'womanly' qualities - 'homos' would be considered as being quite 'effeminate'!

Yeah, I think I'm pretty cool too. When you get your personal jet after your company goes public pick me up and take me to Arkansas to meet some fine dark virgins who have a righteous mindset.

I do have a thread out there with my pic if you are curious to put a face to the writings - the title is "I have a personal ad on Yahoo" - or something like that.

originally posted by ClooneyPRL, where did u grow up, a cave?? he he he, just playin with u man. It just sounds funny the blunt way you word your opinions.

It is odd that you say that - it has been cold, dark and raining here where I live for the past 3 months - a 'cave' is a perfect decription.

Clooney, most of what I say is not necessarily my opinions, they are the 'natural order of things'!

I am blunt because I am in sync with the rhythm of truth - at least most of the time.

 

[WestCoaster]

Re: Once again, DJism is misinterpreted

Originally posted by baseballDJ
:love is a lie made by a feminist to control men"

How come 90 percent of the guys on this site misinterpret what DJism is all about.

The above quote is so far away from DJism that no wonder your parents think you need a labotomy.

DJism is not about anti-love, being mysoginistic, or being some twisted, angry loner who wants to just be left alone.

DJism is taking control of your life, being confident through the ups and downs of situations with your career, women, family, and other aspects of your life.

It has NOTHING to do with love being a lie. DJ's love to be in love, but know it's part of their life, not the all-encompasing aspect of it.

Please, for God's sake read the DJ Bible before ever posting here again.