@narcissist
So at first appearance it looks like your thread was hijacked, right? But alas, no........Reykhel purposely pushed the
buttons of Tweedledum and Tweedledee especially to bait them into overreacting in the thread and highlight exactly what your
thread is about. A real live example....
And don't you think they performed beautifully? Reykhel only has to tap tap on their insecurities and the two muppets come
running out to play. Not even realizing that Reykhel was speaking about them and not directly to them.....
Should I read the garbage that they (badly) wrote? Maybe one day if I have time......but one of them was actually quite large and to read that text would be a challenge.
Anyway, Reykhel predicted what would happen. Reykhel plays the tune and these two monkeys dance to the beat of Reykhel's drums....
Would this happen if they did not have so many insecurities? would this happen if they didn't have buttons to press?
A book that is highly recommended is Stephen Covey's "the seven habits of highly effective people"
Specifically to this thread is the section on being PROACTIVE. The majority of people are REACTIVE......like our two little emotional volunteers who kindly took part in our little experiment. They are reactive thus they are at the mercy of other people's opinions and whims....
These two overgrown babies are like two little leaves getting blowing about in the wind.....
The key is to become PROACTIVE. In control of your emotions. Amused by others' attempts to push buttons.......Reykhel makes observations based on BEHAVIOR.......that's why it's often so easy to push buttons......peoples' behavior reveals their inner workings.....vocabulary is also a dead giveaway (you can tell if a person is a victim or if they are taking responsibility for their life by the vocabulary they use..)
Notice whatever "mudslinging" that comes Reykhel's way is normally simple stupid insults. Like these two posters who allude to homosexuality........why would that push your buttons if it's not an issue for you. Laughable. But OBSERVATIONS BASED ON BEHAVIOR.......for some reason seem to hit when there's an unhealed trauma or hurt..........oh by the way one of these posters offered to "make Reykhel and speeddawg his bottom bytches"......isn't that really telling? He's actually confirmed that he's a homosexual.......his actual words......all Reykhel is doing is repeating his words.
So the key is to work on your inner game and fix what ever issues that could be used to push your buttons........
Oh by the way.....if somebody says something to you that's not true.....it cannot really effect you can it? for example if
someone said to you "hey you look stupid because you have green hair!" .....but it's clear that you haven't got green hair........you wouldn't let that push your buttons would you? Because you're 100% sure that it's not true. You are secure in that belief.
But let's say you had a doubt about something and somebody starts tapping on that..........now there's the potential that it could effect you............say, for example you were insecure about your height or even about your weight or whatever physical feature..........big nose whatever.........
.........and you weren't at peace with that (in other words you don't have full self acceptance.....problem with self concept) Well it's only then, when you have that self doubt (insecurity) that someone can tap on it and thus push your buttons.
It's like the guy wanting to fight Reykhel, a stranger on the internet......what has he got to prove? why does he need to prove it to a stranger on the internet? does he need to prove it to himself?
Look at it this way.....if you were driving your ferrari down the road and stopped at traffic lights and a BMW driver pulled up beside you and start revving the beamer and challenging you.......what would you do? You know the Ferrari would blow the Beamer out of the water.........you know it. You're secure in that fact.......why would you need to prove to a stranger that your Ferrari is better?
for your ego? only if you were really insecure and unsure of yourself would you feel the need.....
Good thread.
So at first appearance it looks like your thread was hijacked, right? But alas, no........Reykhel purposely pushed the
buttons of Tweedledum and Tweedledee especially to bait them into overreacting in the thread and highlight exactly what your
thread is about. A real live example....
And don't you think they performed beautifully? Reykhel only has to tap tap on their insecurities and the two muppets come
running out to play. Not even realizing that Reykhel was speaking about them and not directly to them.....
Should I read the garbage that they (badly) wrote? Maybe one day if I have time......but one of them was actually quite large and to read that text would be a challenge.
Anyway, Reykhel predicted what would happen. Reykhel plays the tune and these two monkeys dance to the beat of Reykhel's drums....
Would this happen if they did not have so many insecurities? would this happen if they didn't have buttons to press?
A book that is highly recommended is Stephen Covey's "the seven habits of highly effective people"
Specifically to this thread is the section on being PROACTIVE. The majority of people are REACTIVE......like our two little emotional volunteers who kindly took part in our little experiment. They are reactive thus they are at the mercy of other people's opinions and whims....
These two overgrown babies are like two little leaves getting blowing about in the wind.....
The key is to become PROACTIVE. In control of your emotions. Amused by others' attempts to push buttons.......Reykhel makes observations based on BEHAVIOR.......that's why it's often so easy to push buttons......peoples' behavior reveals their inner workings.....vocabulary is also a dead giveaway (you can tell if a person is a victim or if they are taking responsibility for their life by the vocabulary they use..)
Notice whatever "mudslinging" that comes Reykhel's way is normally simple stupid insults. Like these two posters who allude to homosexuality........why would that push your buttons if it's not an issue for you. Laughable. But OBSERVATIONS BASED ON BEHAVIOR.......for some reason seem to hit when there's an unhealed trauma or hurt..........oh by the way one of these posters offered to "make Reykhel and speeddawg his bottom bytches"......isn't that really telling? He's actually confirmed that he's a homosexual.......his actual words......all Reykhel is doing is repeating his words.
So the key is to work on your inner game and fix what ever issues that could be used to push your buttons........
Oh by the way.....if somebody says something to you that's not true.....it cannot really effect you can it? for example if
someone said to you "hey you look stupid because you have green hair!" .....but it's clear that you haven't got green hair........you wouldn't let that push your buttons would you? Because you're 100% sure that it's not true. You are secure in that belief.
But let's say you had a doubt about something and somebody starts tapping on that..........now there's the potential that it could effect you............say, for example you were insecure about your height or even about your weight or whatever physical feature..........big nose whatever.........
.........and you weren't at peace with that (in other words you don't have full self acceptance.....problem with self concept) Well it's only then, when you have that self doubt (insecurity) that someone can tap on it and thus push your buttons.
It's like the guy wanting to fight Reykhel, a stranger on the internet......what has he got to prove? why does he need to prove it to a stranger on the internet? does he need to prove it to himself?
Look at it this way.....if you were driving your ferrari down the road and stopped at traffic lights and a BMW driver pulled up beside you and start revving the beamer and challenging you.......what would you do? You know the Ferrari would blow the Beamer out of the water.........you know it. You're secure in that fact.......why would you need to prove to a stranger that your Ferrari is better?
for your ego? only if you were really insecure and unsure of yourself would you feel the need.....
Good thread.
bring your Ferrari.