People need to learn the Fundamentals!

Infern0

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Seriously, I haven't been here long so I hope i'm not overstepping the mark on this one but it's already becoming frustrating.

Threads like "she's losing interest" and then we see the guy say he's been texting the girl over 100 times a day and he has "no clue" why she might be losing interest.

or other just basic, basic mistakes, "I told her i loved her on the first date and now she wont call me, what did i do wrong"

(haven't actually seen that one but I would not be surprised)

It's just frustrating, most of these guys could improve their game several times over by just taking the time to read the BASICS, with how truly clueless even guys on sites like this are, it's really not difficult at all to pull ahead of the pack in terms of success rate.

If you look half decent and know BASICS of pick up, you will be more succesful than 90% of your peers, just from the BASICS

I don't mind giving advice, in fact it's my pleasure to help other guys out there but seriously, how much can you improve if you won't put the time in to read the bible, and assimilate other info, you can learn the basics from podcasts in your car, never again will you be utterly confused when she stops replying to your clueless ass.
 

SmooveMooves

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When newbies first get to this site they see the first page of the Don Juan Discussion section. Not the DJ Bible. Now think, how many threads on this 1st page are actually helpful? Not very many. We gotta put out better quality threads mate.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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Some dudes here are noobs but see the amazing success that veteran DJs/players have and think they have to attain that level of success.. That results in sloppiness that ends up hurting their numbers.
 

amoka

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This is why I advocate restrictions to be imposed on newbies from creating new threads. They must read existing threads and comment on them, minimum of 10 posts, in order to be eligible to create a new thread. This will not only prevent trolls creating advertising threads but also encourage new members to read and not expect to be spoon fed advices.
 

Yewki

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I find it interesting when the very basic question/problem is actually being posted by someone with 1,000+ posts and high rep. The poster himself probably has offered advice to dozens of people with the same problem, but suddenly he has a mental relapse when it becomes personal. Logic vs emotion.
 
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