People don't like me ..
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perseverance
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For every person that dislikes me, one likes me and one has no opinion of me. That's life, get over it.
EvilAgenda
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how does this relate to your life?
I don't see the point of getting along with the average joe, unless he offers value to your life.
I don't see the point of getting along with the average joe, unless he offers value to your life.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Exactly.EvilAgenda said:
Maybe I'm just lucky but the people whom can actually do something for me tend to like me, especially if I can do something for them in return. Those who don't like me are generally irrelevant and I've noticed that they tend to be unambitious people who are going nowhere in life. Like attracts like after all.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
If you want friends, then just focus more on showing yourself friendly to other people. If you think you're coming across as too cool, try to be more outgoing to those who might not be as cool as you. Also, start looking for mutual points of interest that you may share with other people, then start conversations with them about what you KNOW they already care about. People usually have no problems talking to you if it gives them an opportunity to share their opinion on something.cola said:
But the most important thing to ask yourself is THIS:
Do you like YOURSELF?
If you do, then what other people think about you should always be LESS important to you than that.
coochieman
Don Juan
Me too.
Remember how much silent contempt and green envy you had for the so called "jerks" getting all the spots, girls, fun & respect back then?
Kind of like the same thing!
Get used to it. More importantly, enjoy it.
Remember how much silent contempt and green envy you had for the so called "jerks" getting all the spots, girls, fun & respect back then?
Kind of like the same thing!
Get used to it. More importantly, enjoy it.