Peep this!

[flyjesta81]

Hey guys! I started school this past monday. this is the first time
going to college in the summer. it's cool though cuz it seems like
the chics who have things going for themself go in the summer.
well on monday I was at the snack machine and I heard this cute
voice say something to me. and I looked up and i saw a 10 in my eyes she asked were was the bookstore. I told her but then I said wait up and i'll take you there. well I didn't get her name cuz
I was already late. I saw her today she is taking a class next to mine and I looked at her with some eye contact but didn't say hi
then a friend of mine asked me to walk her to her car well as we
were walking outside I saw that girl and she saw me with this girl
and she made a weird face like dissapointment or something.
I wanna talk to her and get her # but what should I say? any info would help

 

[Grey Fox]

Well play it off as walking your friend to her car was no big deal, cause it wasn't. If you want her number, ask her for it, she'll respect your confidence. If you want to do it comfortably show up a bit early to your class, maybe you could catch her in the hall and strike up a conversation. If she says no, well no biggie at least you know your answer.

Grey Fox

 

[Kwah]

Yes, make the move dude. Worked for me. I met a woman on monday, called her tuesday, took her out last night.

 

[Starman]

wow ! you met a 10 dude!! Congrats!

if she is a 10..you must be a 3?

 

[flyjesta81]

Hey I aint no 3 more like a 2.9999999999999999999999999999
yeah I am just gonna ask her for her # i couldn't today because
I met in the libraury so I didn't see her, but tomorrow!!my problem
is if I get rejected I start thinking all this dumb crap that I aint good enough. but I guess I got to get used to it huh

 

[Starman]

If you have already failed in your mind, you have failed in reality

 

[topdog3853]

You should have got the her name and number the first time. Luckily you will have the opportunity to get it again, but what if you never saw her again, you would be kicking yourself in the a$$. Who cares if you were already late. You can use that to your advantage to say, "So are you new here?, Well I'm late for class, let me write down you number and I'll show around sometime."

 

[flyjesta81]

I meant get used to rejection because we will all get it. not get used to it because i'm a loser hehe.

 

[Rhetorical]

next time you see her, build rapport and activate your dj radiation.

 

[rtx1]

honesty..... it's really that simple.

some of the most meaningful impressions on me have been made when a man has came right out and told me something that i knew was hard. Like admitting he didn't think i would like him because he didn't think he was my type, but wondered if I'd be up for coffee after class. that's just one example...

it's not always what you say, but how.

be yourself, be honest, and don't act. even if you don't get what you want, you were real.

 

[Grey Fox]

Re: Re: Peep this!

Originally posted by rtx1
honesty..... it's really that simple.

some of the most meaningful impressions on me have been made when a man has came right out and told me something that i knew was hard. Like admitting he didn't think i would like him because he didn't think he was my type, but wondered if I'd be up for coffee after class. that's just one example...

it's not always what you say, but how.

be yourself, be honest, and don't act. even if you don't get what you want, you were real.

Right and if you believe that I got some lovely beach front property in Arizona I can sell you dirt cheap.

Look make the move, project the image you want, and don't give her the impression that she is better than you, treat her like you would anyone else. If she goes for you, congrats and best of luck. If not next her.

-Grey Fox

P.S. Never ask or take advice from a woman about how to deal with another woman. Its like asking a problem to solve itself.

 

[Starman]

The only instance when I would take that chicks advice above..is when you know its your last shot..and you want to come up front and either get a "YES" or "NO"

answer..so you could move on..but the pitfall here is..if she says she is interested..then blows you off...you will be back to square one wondering..what next?

 

[flyjesta81]

Hey guys, I did it she was in the lab room and I went up to her
and said "hey u finding your way around alright"? she laughed
so i just teased her some then said I have to go, and she asked me what my name was. I said u asking? she said no! i'm telling
so I said in that case i'm telling you to give me your # and she did
it seemed so easy. she even made an excuse to stay in the lab
which I take right after her. so i'm glad I got the balls and did it!