captainkirkz
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Hello All. This is my first post on here. I never thought i would have to, to be honest but hey, i need to vent this lot.
Every part of this post (probably multiple posts) that i type will be relevant in one way or another so bear with me
I'm 51 and i thought i had seen it all but i obviously hadn't. I have no propensity towards whack job women and have built 3 pretty successful relationships in my time. I do like 'quirky' but not out and out crazy.
My story begins way back in 1997. The back story .....From 1982 to this point, i had been with the mother of my children. We had one of those relationships that other people saw as 'unbreakable'. Two up two down, 3 lovely kids etc etc. However, around 1994 she had a brief fling which i sussed pretty quickly and i was devastated. I took my eye off the ball a bit what with working all the time and she was flattered by the attention she received from someone else. You know the drill. I had never strayed up to that point. I'd had opportunities but just didn't. (I did have a one night stand a little later in 1996 but it wasn't revenge)
We worked at it and got through that. However, she started working as a care assistant and started chasing the dollar with this old guy she was caring for. At this point i started to lose respect for her. Things started to appear in the house, new carpets, sofa etc etc. Hell, even a new car at one point! She started disappearing on Sundays, which is family time, for meals in fancy restaurants with this old dude.
I said to her 'Pack it in now or you will have no family to come back to'
This was mid 1997 and we were at a real low ebb.
I was working in IT as a programmer at the time and was quite used to having great looking women around me in the workplace. I wasn't available to them though although the flirting was an ego boost. At this point a new girl started work there. I will call her Rose. Didn't notice her at first really. A little overweight and nothing major about her to make her stand out.
She had worked there for a couple of months before i really had my first proper contact with her. I was troubleshooting a problem in her department and ended up sitting at a desk facing hers. We got chatting as i was working and it was just a load of banter at first. Nothing unusual there. I noticed though that she was blushing furiously at regular intervals and realised she was 'interested'. Normally i would have just had a laugh and retreated, but i don't know what the hell happened and maybe it was because my relationship was at a low ebb but, i was 'interested' too. She had hooked me in somehow. We started talking about the Christmas party which wasn't too far away. I said i was going and she said that she was too and arranged to have a drink and chat when we were there.
And so, i made a beeline for Rose as soon as i got to the party. It was madness. We stayed together the entire evening and we got on so well it was like meeting the other part of me. She told me how she had been in a relationship that had finished and that she was over him as he had treated her badly. How the hell it happened is beyond me but i was totally hooked! I sent her home in a taxi and walked home 6 miles in sub-zero temperatures lol.
The following Monday we hooked up in the coffee room and decided to have a day out shopping later in the week(shopping haha) ....... to be continued ...................
Every part of this post (probably multiple posts) that i type will be relevant in one way or another so bear with me
I'm 51 and i thought i had seen it all but i obviously hadn't. I have no propensity towards whack job women and have built 3 pretty successful relationships in my time. I do like 'quirky' but not out and out crazy.
My story begins way back in 1997. The back story .....From 1982 to this point, i had been with the mother of my children. We had one of those relationships that other people saw as 'unbreakable'. Two up two down, 3 lovely kids etc etc. However, around 1994 she had a brief fling which i sussed pretty quickly and i was devastated. I took my eye off the ball a bit what with working all the time and she was flattered by the attention she received from someone else. You know the drill. I had never strayed up to that point. I'd had opportunities but just didn't. (I did have a one night stand a little later in 1996 but it wasn't revenge)
We worked at it and got through that. However, she started working as a care assistant and started chasing the dollar with this old guy she was caring for. At this point i started to lose respect for her. Things started to appear in the house, new carpets, sofa etc etc. Hell, even a new car at one point! She started disappearing on Sundays, which is family time, for meals in fancy restaurants with this old dude.
I said to her 'Pack it in now or you will have no family to come back to'
This was mid 1997 and we were at a real low ebb.
I was working in IT as a programmer at the time and was quite used to having great looking women around me in the workplace. I wasn't available to them though although the flirting was an ego boost. At this point a new girl started work there. I will call her Rose. Didn't notice her at first really. A little overweight and nothing major about her to make her stand out.
She had worked there for a couple of months before i really had my first proper contact with her. I was troubleshooting a problem in her department and ended up sitting at a desk facing hers. We got chatting as i was working and it was just a load of banter at first. Nothing unusual there. I noticed though that she was blushing furiously at regular intervals and realised she was 'interested'. Normally i would have just had a laugh and retreated, but i don't know what the hell happened and maybe it was because my relationship was at a low ebb but, i was 'interested' too. She had hooked me in somehow. We started talking about the Christmas party which wasn't too far away. I said i was going and she said that she was too and arranged to have a drink and chat when we were there.
And so, i made a beeline for Rose as soon as i got to the party. It was madness. We stayed together the entire evening and we got on so well it was like meeting the other part of me. She told me how she had been in a relationship that had finished and that she was over him as he had treated her badly. How the hell it happened is beyond me but i was totally hooked! I sent her home in a taxi and walked home 6 miles in sub-zero temperatures lol.
The following Monday we hooked up in the coffee room and decided to have a day out shopping later in the week(shopping haha) ....... to be continued ...................