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Paying for a "dating coach"

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This guy branches out into fitness as well. I guess he's got to make a living....

For an extra 50$ you can get a personal aerobic training session with him.....only available to his already clients
you can't make this ****e up.........

 

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Dance move "Making the pizza" :p


Hitch. Classic movie about Will Smith as a "dating coach".

 

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I think guys who aren't 'naturals' or 'atheletes' or are 'afraid' of women need someone to guide them, how to look, how to dress, how to talk, but a dating coach would actually be detrimental.
So true, any kind of self development is a process. It takes time to get good at something. It takes time to change your mindset. What can one gain from speaking to a "coach" for an hour on Skype. Most of them will just blow smoke up your azz. Make them temporarily feel good. Give them a little boost by telling them "you are the prize". A temporary bandaid. It reminds me of wife hunter's "advice" (all gleamed from Cory Wayne videos, nothing form his own lived experience) "you are the prize" "she is trash" "walk away" all platitudes that change nothing or improves nothing over the long term. In fact, so many man are spouting that "only approach quality women"....it's a fvcking buffer......the quality one never comes along and thus you don't have to experience any real live potential rejection.....

You are dealing with emotion when you are dealing with women. How is a dating coach going to tell you what to say in a specific situation when you are alone with a woman you are attracted to and she throws you a curveball?
Exactly. Get out there and gain experience. Get rejected, reject, mess things up sometimes, learn.....get real reference points. Speak to women, speak to people.

Ridiculous on some levels
Totally. Feel good platitudes.

95% of those dating coaches would beg their girlfriends to stay, not to mention 95% of the men in the Western Hemisphere
Corey still orbits some of his exes.

If you want to learn what to do, read books, get to school, get your education, watch some movies where the man is in control, has power, knows what he wants. Watch how people dress, look, act, talk. Go out there and make a fool of yourself so you can get experience and confidence. That's the only way.
Great advice.

Learned knowledge, applied knowledge and then mastery.

But we must climb the learned knowledge and applied knowledge ladder........back and forth......
 

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Most "dating coaches" have no idea what you're doing. Might as well use that money toward fitness and getting jacked. That's what I'm doing this summer. Also spending on fun travel (not to get women just to relax) and better quality food.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Day two aerobics....little bit of boxing thrown in for good measure. Value.

You want to be a well rounded PIMP though, so use some weights too......
no weights? salt and pepper shakers.

Keep Pimping
 

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I wouldn't necessarily pay for a dating coach because tried and tested system. The furthest I went was buying "Models" but that honestly was the best $30 bucks I spent on women.
 

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Perhaps I'm just not attuned to American marketing hype. Everything there seems to need to be bigger than Texas to sell.

The one that attribute all the good teachers in my life shared was they were humble.

The only thing that really annoys me about the site is after a certain number of posts it automatically gives people the title master DJ.

I do have a good social circle. A smart kind and pretty girlfriend who amongst other things cuts my toenails for me. It's the little things that get you.

Reasonable body count I stopped counting after 50.

After a two-year battle with the flab I'm definitely at least athletic looking. Play competition tennis and badminton. And highly trained in a number of Martial Arts. Speak 3 languages. Excellent cook.

I have a management position and earn six figures.

And guess what I'm not a coach. I'm still a student and I still learn plenty from the guys here including the young guys. Even occasionally from BigNeil. I regard myself as an average member here and that is the strength of the community.
 
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The one that attribute all the good teachers in my life shared was they were humble.
I agree. And it's interesting that you mention that because it's something I've been talking about lately. Not necessarily although I think
I did mention it in a thread related to martial arts. The truly confident have a judicious mix of self belief and humility.

...this guy comes into a forum and starts blasting other men out of it calling them keyboard jockeys and claiming that he's the master pimp.........now there's something very suspect in all that. A man that knows his own abilities and knows what he's capable of because of past experience and present success/training.......normally does not have the "need" to big himself up by belittling others.......which is this guy's style. I see he's pulling out the race card again...

"Reykhel is mad because a black man is stealing his white woman" or some other garbage his sprouting.....

It was too much of a red flag, so I had a little look around.......same behavior that got him banned before........
 

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You are better off paying a Physical Trainer than a dating coach. 3 days per week, 1 hour per session is enough to see a huge difference.

A dating coach is just one opinion. That's like asking one person how they rate a particular woman. The best thing about SS is that we get a consensus from dating coaches (and students). Usually the coaches win the argument (but as Amante points out, read carefully).
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Want a dating coach? Hire a model for a photo shoot and pay her a few hundred for her time (about 4-6 times cheaper than a dating coach per hour). You get to control every variable, her hair, her outfit, her makeup. Then take her to dinner and photograph her. You might seduce her (you'll usually get a pity peck), but you'll at least learn why you didn't seduce her. Always pay up front so you're not extorting anything.
 

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Day two aerobics....little bit of boxing thrown in for good measure. Value.

You want to be a well rounded PIMP though, so use some weights too......
no weights? salt and pepper shakers.

Keep Pimping
:cry::rofl::cry: this guy is out of shape, overweight, and with about 45% bodyfat........teaching people about physical fitness?

I'm done, I can't take anymore :rofl::rofl:
 

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the problem is you spent ALL friday night arguing on the internet about some dumb chit. I could give a fuk less that your blasting on player supreme, I would feel the exact same way if you kept harping and beating a dead horse on ANY topic. Lol its actually funny how butthurt your getting. your like a hillary supporter. speaking of brain dead you are coming off like some liberal retard anyway. @Reykhel
 

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peace im out
A "man" that can't honor his own word to himself ain't worth ****e......he cannot be taken seriously.....

the problem is you spent ALL friday night arguing on the internet about some dumb chit. I could give a fuk less that your blasting on player supreme, I would feel the exact same way if you kept harping and beating a dead horse on ANY topic. Lol its actually funny how butthurt your getting. your like a hillary supporter. speaking of brain dead you are coming off like some liberal retard anyway
Dry your eyes mate. Your white knighting for your master is as embarrassing as your spelling.

What does your codependent azz care for how other anonymous men spend their Friday night. Voyeur. Hint: We are on different time zones.....nice try though.

Run along now.....Reykhel is going to watch that aerobic video again to split his sides laughing......you've got to admit....it's comedy gold!!!!

 

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Interesting video.....seems like this guy is not only a fraud but also trolls every site and every youtube channel that he visits.....
same style with everyone he comes in contact with......he shames men like a woman shames men....same style...

This guy calls him out for behaving like a bytch (his words) and throwing the younger guys under the bus to build himself up.......interesting
are the youtube comments....pretty unanimous that the guys a troll and fraud........

Oh and he's pushing 60 and married to a fat broad from Portugal. Yes that who is looking for 200$ for Skype sessions and claiming to
be a master player......I repeat: MARRIED TO A FAT HAG....

The title of this : Player Supreme you's a simp azz bytch (sic) ....


worth a listen
 

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@Reykhel That's his "wifey"? I thought it was one of his heshe looking students that paid for a spot on his show or a "bodyguard" he paid $5 bucks for to pretend like his techniques are so efficient that he needs protection from his naysayers.
 

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You too can attract hotties like this pimp's wife....

..Just don't act "too white" player....

http://sluthate.com/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=92112
I have a "hottie" but she is a liability, doesn't really add to my life in any way. Doesn't even make me look good. I have other female friends who do add to my life, do things for me, put me in a good light, dig into their purses for me, but look a notch or two down from my "hotty". They submit to me, and I know if they were my woman they would do their best to please me... My "hottie" pleases herself, as most of them do.
 

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Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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