What I think, is that when a culture where men are polite, respectful and gentlemanly is considered 'AFC' then it's a sorry world indeed.
You guys want to conquer women left and right, but if you don't first show YOURSELVES enough self-respect to be men then you've got it all wrong. Being a man is about having dignity, self-respect, balls yes - that includes respecting others - but if that's at the price of good manners and basic human decency count me out.
None of you will become men until you realise that being a man isn't just about how badly you treat your woman so she'll be attracted to your 'jerkiness'.
All my life I've opened doors for women, let them go first where applicable, done all the 'chivalric' stuff and you know what, I bet I've had more girls than 90% of you guys on here. Some might argue "I've got the looks/muscles" - well fine, that's just a bonus. If you're scrawny and ugly, you might as well be polite and have SOMETHING going for you.
Oh, and you can be polite/charming AND be a devilish, seductive rogue as well. you CAN have both.
Now if you'll excuse me, it's time to eat.