Passive aggressiveness from an 8 on the Tinder

[Slash Dolo]

Been on Tinder for a few months. Chatting with an 8 on there and she sends me something that seemed a little aggressive. Can't tell if it's a sh*t test or if she's just kind of a b*tch. Word for word here.

Her: Do you have any other social media?

Me: I do. How would you like to stalk me? Facebook or Twitter?

Her: Preferably Facebook. Lol.

Me: What's in it for me? I mean I haven't even met you and you're already trying to snoop my social media.

Her: Or to get better idea of what you look like.
From what I can tell. You either have really old photos....
Or you look like 3 completely different people.
I am a visual learner.
Otherwise. I could give sh*t less of the content of what your social media life creates.
But. You think about that while I go to bed in order to be functional tomorrow for work. Goodnight.

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My first instinct is to not reply/next because she seems a little passive aggressive and ignored my 'what's in it for me?' line or just give her an 'lol.' What would you guys do in this situation?

 

[om1xr]

you : "k"

she's sh!t testing you.

to a get a more idea how to use tinder and online dating check out this link for the right way
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/

 

[pyros]

I dont see the problem. She doesnt really like/trust your pics from tinder, so she wants to have a look at your fb. So what?

I've done this also with chicks, to make sure they were not ugly or fat lol

 

[om1xr]

I dont see the problem. She doesnt really like/trust your pics from tinder, so she wants to have a look at your fb. So what?

I've done this also with chicks, to make sure they were not ugly or fat lol

man that's anti-game and you are seeking her approval and be submissive because you are following her leads.

and how about asking for her number and then exchange pics over text.

never share social media info with new girls because that way you let her read your whole fvcking book.

no mystery means no tingles and imagination from her part and girls fall in love with their imaginations of you not fall in love with you.

 

[mrRuckus]

My first instinct is to not reply/next because she seems a little passive aggressive and ignored my 'what's in it for me?' line or just give her an 'lol.' What would you guys do in this situation?

You were overgaming with that line.

 

[Slash Dolo]

you : "k"

she's sh!t testing you.

to a get a more idea how to use tinder and online dating check out this link for the right way
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/

Good read. +rep for you. I don't agree with the caveman speak; in fact I've heard the opposite from some folk on here, but the other stuff is good. Have you tried the caveman convo style yourself om1xr?

I do want to f*ck this girl. Though she is an 8, her f*ckability is a 10 if that makes sense. I think a "k" might be a bit too vexing in this instance with all these other guys throwing attention her way. I'll try a role reversal reply; just ignoring her request and asking for her number or something. Changes the frame, still keeps her interest.

You were overgaming with that line.

I don't doubt it. OLD is where I have the most trouble.

 

[om1xr]

do whatever you feel like it just look at it as practice but I sense that you are putting this girl on a pedestal very hard and I can understand that if you don't meet or been with 8+ regularly.

caveman style! well everyone is practicing and experiencing what work for them and fit their characters. and tinder is a great way to practice and come to the fact that girls ain't sh!t

personally I don't use OLD but my text game and dating experiences are tight because I've been with too many 8+ and my style is different but close to that because I never take what a girl says or anyone seriously. it's a game so have fun lol.

meanwhile text other girls and experiment with that article style and use a style that shower girls with attention and you will see the difference.

the point is you should experiment and see what fit your character and at the same time works and give you results.

and remove that girl from that pedestal and talk to other girls and you will see that "k" is more than enough in that situation.

and it's a number game. but as for your answer I'm always succinct and amusing in my texts and that works wonders.

let the orbiters be her therapists lol.

 

[Slash Dolo]

Thanks for the tips mate. I think my biggest issue is I try to re-create my game IRL in text form since I'm successful in face to face encounters. Fact is, it's very difficult to display charisma and charm through text, so I find myself scratching my head a lot in these online, never met the girl before scenarios. I think my text game is strong, but that's with girls I've already met. OLD is a different ball game.

I also have to take into account there is constant competition, so I need to find a sweet spot of showing just enough interest to keep her hooked but not being lost in the shuffle.

I am talking to multiple chicks on Tinder so that isn't the issue; the main issue seems to arise when I try to make a date with a girl. Interest seems to wane and I'm not sure if it's because she's an attention wh*re that just uses OLD for an ego boost or if I'm going about it too fast (I ask relatively quickly to avoid wasting time; however, I see how it can come off as desperation). Should I confidently persist or back off and let the competition hit her up instead? I feel as if both can lead to her losing interest. I don't expect a 100% success rate, but I want the odds to be in my favor and I'm not sure how to go about it.

 

[pyros]

Thanks for the tips mate. I think my biggest issue is I try to re-create my game IRL in text form since I'm successful in face to face encounters. Fact is, it's very difficult to display charisma and charm through text, so I find myself scratching my head a lot in these online, never met the girl before scenarios. I think my text game is strong, but that's with girls I've already met. OLD is a different ball game.

I also have to take into account there is constant competition, so I need to find a sweet spot of showing just enough interest to keep her hooked but not being lost in the shuffle.

I am talking to multiple chicks on Tinder so that isn't the issue; the main issue seems to arise when I try to make a date with a girl. Interest seems to wane and I'm not sure if it's because she's an attention wh*re that just uses OLD for an ego boost or if I'm going about it too fast (I ask relatively quickly to avoid wasting time; however, I see how it can come off as desperation). Should I confidently persist or back off and let the competition hit her up instead? I feel as if both can lead to her losing interest. I don't expect a 100% success rate, but I want the odds to be in my favor and I'm not sure how to go about it.

girls on Tinder, POF etc are attention wh-ores, all women are attention wh-ores in some degree.
Anyway, she is getting tons of texts on Tinder so this is why it is difficult to get her on a date. Trust me, a female friend of mine used it for several months, and she showed me the messages guys sent her in just a week. She had like 50 messages from guys, ugly guys, average guys, good looking guys etc. She had so many that she could not really decide, and she told me she didnt really want to meet any of them, she used it just for 'fun'. She is an HB6.5 or more. It looked like this:

guy1: hey
guy2: hey
guy3: how are you?
guy4: you seem like a bad girl
guy5: hello sexy
.
.
.
.
.
guy53: whats up sexy?


You get the point.
It is a waste of time cause there is just too much competition.

See this, when I used POF, I had my standard message which I copied and pasted like 20 times each day. In a month I may have gotten one date with an ok/cute chick, but they were spoiled in some way or another. So these apps or web sites are just crap and time consuming.

Sometimes I think official statistics are fake and there are actually 4 or 5 times more men than women on Earth.