party time

[That_Guy49]

when in a situation where there is more guys than girls...how do you become the stand out...how do you attract the other girl or girls YOU want, especially when all or most of the guys are around them like puppy dogs dying to be petted?

 

[Vincent]

do something to stand out, generally if there are more guys then girls, they'll be doing the same thing as you would be, sitting there doing nothing, you just need to make the move.

Or be crazy and outgoing. Whichever.

 

[That_Guy49]

you should elaborate!

BTW, thanks for replying just about everytime I ask for advice. I appreciate that kind of stuff.

 

[NEWBIE101]

Be the Alpha male of the group.

Lead the way of fun activities, don't be a follower.

Also, if all your buddies are talking and you see some girls in a group talking on the other side of the room. Bingo! You go over there and work your game. Don't just stand around trying to look cool, cause it never does.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by That_Guy49
you should elaborate!

Alright, it would help if you gave some context, because theres a big difference between a 15 person party and an 100 person party where there are 5 chickcs at each...

But just to humor you i'll talk about the 15 person party.

I'll tell you a story.

I'm at my friends house, theres about 15 guys there, and about 5-6 chicks. I know one of them good, and she brought 2 friends. One of the friends sits in the middle of the couch, kind of taking up half the end seat. So i squeeze in the end of the seat, when i could easily have been on the other end. This initiated kino, the close contact, also the fact that she didn't move when i sat down told me she was interested. The next step was to continue with the ****y and funny and the kino. Boom, thats all it takes.

I'm not sure of what kind of person you are, but i can assume your like the rest of us. Not terribly outgoing, you can be, but generally you just like to relax and not make a big scene.

Stop me if i'm wrong.

If you want chicks to notice you, you must make a scene. Have you ever seen Billy Madison? You know the scene where he's in his chemistry class, and he says "No i will not make out with you"

Well If you see a chick staring at you, just yell something random, "Stalker! Stalker!" "Quit staring at me!" That should get her attention, then you just move in saying something funny. "Well since your stalking me, perhaps you'd be so kind as to tell me your name" in a ****y and funny attitude. Boom its that easy.

Be creative. Its rather difficult to be seen as obnoxious at a party unless your doing something that will get the police called on your ass. Just be funny with it, and say it with a smile.

Just make sure she gets the joke

Hope that helped. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.

 

[NEWBIE101]

Originally posted by Vincent
Alright, it would help if you gave some context, because theres a big difference between a 15 person party and an 100 person party where there are 5 chickcs at each...

But just to humor you i'll talk about the 15 person party.

I'll tell you a story.

I'm at my friends house, theres about 15 guys there, and about 5-6 chicks. I know one of them good, and she brought 2 friends. One of the friends sits in the middle of the couch, kind of taking up half the end seat. So i squeeze in the end of the seat, when i could easily have been on the other end. This initiated kino, the close contact, also the fact that she didn't move when i sat down told me she was interested. The next step was to continue with the ****y and funny and the kino. Boom, thats all it takes.

I'm not sure of what kind of person you are, but i can assume your like the rest of us. Not terribly outgoing, you can be, but generally you just like to relax and not make a big scene.

Stop me if i'm wrong.

If you want chicks to notice you, you must make a scene. Have you ever seen Billy Madison? You know the scene where he's in his chemistry class, and he says "No i will not make out with you"

Well If you see a chick staring at you, just yell something random, "Stalker! Stalker!" "Quit staring at me!" That should get her attention, then you just move in saying something funny. "Well since your stalking me, perhaps you'd be so kind as to tell me your name" in a ****y and funny attitude. Boom its that easy.

Be creative. Its rather difficult to be seen as obnoxious at a party unless your doing something that will get the police called on your ass. Just be funny with it, and say it with a smile.

Just make sure she gets the joke

Hope that helped. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.

Bump

Nice example.

 

[wootapotky]

"Stalker! Stalker!" "Quit staring at me!" That should get her attention, then you just move in saying something funny. "Well since your stalking me, perhaps you'd be so kind as to tell me your name" in a ****y and funny attitude. Boom its that easy.




I've had girls that pseudo stalked me before. Uugghh, it's creepy, because they seem to know about most everything you've done without you being around them.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by wootapotky
I've had girls that pseudo stalked me before. Uugghh, it's creepy, because they seem to know about most everything you've done without you being around them.

lol alright

 

[Centy]

people will think you are weird if you just yeall 'stalker, stalker' just out of the blue (even if a girl is looking at you).

but, whatever rocks your boat dude.

 

[JSH]

Originally posted by Centy
people will think you are weird if you just yeall 'stalker, stalker' just out of the blue (even if a girl is looking at you).

but, whatever rocks your boat dude.

who cares what people think, its what you think that matters.

Anyway last night i went to a new invite only place and it was awesome, i went in knowing like 3 people and having no tie to anyone and came out with like permanent invites there, girls fawning all over me and loads of new friends.

How did i do this, by simply being confident enough to randomly start speaking to people, both male and female. The males gave me social proof (as did some of the females) enabling me to meet and greet even more people. Hell i started introducing them to other people who went to the same school.

It was awesome.