Party Girl

[In10se]

Had a strong weekend, 8 hookups and 10+ numbers (no hookups were not all lays)...

Lesson learned: If you bag the hottest girl at a venue...KEEP HER... do not walk away for any reason because other guys will make their move

So I met this stunner and made out with her in less than 2 minutes of talking to her...really wasn't much talking involved to be honest...we were making out hard and she was begging me not to leave her and I was licking her stomach/grabbing her ass...she was wayyy into me...offered her number and then after like 45 minutes I realized I hadn't seen my friends...told her I was going to find them and come back...

Well 15 minutes later I head back towards her and she is making out with a chode...I realize she was probably pretty drunk, but regardless I went and found another chick...

I texted her at the end of the night and was like "Hey cutie glad I ran into you- this is ____the guy you were hu with that isn't a total chode

She responds later: "come cuddle"

Me: I'll have to take a rain check, we'll hang out together this week

Her: no response

Trying to build on my text game, so where do I go from here ? I'm under the assumption she liked me, but was also pretty drunk so how do I spark that initial interest?

 

[InnerHappiness]

Why not ride the "cuddle" caboose that night? She was in trance and begging for it.

What.The.Fvck.

Text her to get together for drinks later on in the week.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

"Come cuddle" was both an invite to bang and a sh!t test.

You failed.

Her lack of response means that she's written you off as a chode. She thinking, "I've made out with four chodes tonight and not one of them was man enough to bang me. Losers!"

You missed your window by overgaming.

 

[Eternal_water]

You got a girl making out with you and begging you not to leave her, AND YOU LEFT?!?!

I wish I was in your position

 

[Aristippus]

"Come cuddle" was an invitation but an invitation I personally would have passed up. For a few reasons. Before I continue, I'll say this. I would have taken the invitation right then IF I was the only one she made out with that night.

Were you seriously considering making out with her again after she swapped spit with some other guy? Can you say "mononucleosis"? Anyway, girls like these are unappealing to me because they're prick teases. Sure, you could have banged her down, but she flirts with every guy that comes her way. Not an attractive trait in my opinion.

**You said......."Trying to build on my text game, so where do I go from here ?"...........

Where do you go from there? In my opinion you should rip the number into tiny pieces and throw it away. These types of girls, in my opinion, are of low quality, no matter how physically attractive they are.

Every guy should keep his standards high, but especially someone like yourself. You have OPTIONS. If you got some physical action from 8 different women and 10+ phone numbers, you've got options. I wouldn't worry about this one.

p.s. I just realized something. You probably made out with 8 girls, so I guess you're not worried about whether or not the girl is a prick-tease. Anyway, don't leave when things are getting hot and heavy. Stick with one woman if she's really into you. Keep the fire going.

 

[Purefilth]

"Come cuddle" was an invitation but an invitation I personally would have passed up. For a few reasons. Before I continue, I'll say this. I would have taken the invitation right then IF I was the only one she made out with that night.

Were you seriously considering making out with her again after she swapped spit with some other guy? Can you say "mononucleosis"? Anyway, girls like these are unappealing to me because they're prick teases. Sure, you could have banged her down, but she flirts with every guy that comes her way. Not an attractive trait in my opinion.

**You said......."Trying to build on my text game, so where do I go from here ?"...........

Where do you go from there? In my opinion you should rip the number into tiny pieces and throw it away. These types of girls, in my opinion, are of low quality, no matter how physically attractive they are.

Every guy should keep his standards high, but especially someone like yourself. You have OPTIONS. If you got some physical action from 8 different women and 10+ phone numbers, you've got options. I wouldn't worry about this one.

p.s. I just realized something. You probably made out with 8 girls, so I guess you're not worried about whether or not the girl is a prick-tease. Anyway, don't leave when things are getting hot and heavy. Stick with one woman if she's really into you. Keep the fire going.

too right, hot or not she has no respect for herself or you, if shes tounging someone else straight off the bat. drop it and hit up one of the other 9.

 

[The Bat]

I don't think she liked you like the way you think she liked you. I think she liked you just as much as she liked the next chode she was making out with. And yes, she definitely told the other chode to come cuddle if he texted her that night.

See if she will grab drinks with you but don't expect too much. I never waste more than an ounce of energy on party girls because they love the drama that comes with being a young, free-spirited, sexually-liberated individual in our society. That means they would rather go out with their girls, shake their booties off, make out with random dudes, and pass out in a pool of their all-veggies-pizza vomit and margarita-infested piss than go out for a drink or two with a one of the many random chodes she made out with while her blood alcohol was higher than a month's worth of water supply to Uganda...

The flakiness is strong with this one...

 

[In10se]

Thanks for the input, I am more interested in hearing how to **** her...don't care whether I should or should not want to...I need a play by play for texting, you hook up and make somewhat connection with a chick and xchange numbers...let me see some text structure...

I feel weird just asking right off the bat to hang out, b/c that seems needy...while texting some weird witty comment is kinda corny...I need to start converting better with my numbers

 

[Aristippus]

If you want better results from your phone numbers then don't text. Talk on the phone instead. All you're doing is adding the technology barrier between you and her when you text. It's much easier to feel a connection when you're hearing someone's voice than to feel a connection when you're texting someone. I think you're making extra work for yourself if you choose texting as your primary method. You have the number anyway. Why not call?

 

[In10se]

I guess, girl's get kind of taken aback by phone calls from some dude they just met and made out with...also if they don't answer...then what?

Texting is low pressure, they almost always respond unless they really don't like you...I know there are plenty of dudes that seal deals just by sending a few simple texts...I always seem to over talk or try hard...when all I really want to do is set a date

 

[Aristippus]

If they don't answer it's not the end of the world. Just leave a message. Leaving a message is still better than sending a text message. If you're worried about over-talking, then just have shorter conversations and be a bit more laid-back. And try listening a little more. You don't have to do all the work. She has to work for it too.

 

[The Bat]

I disagree with talking over texting. This generation of early 20s girls, especially party girls, practically live out their social lives over texts and tweets and facebook statuses. You're right that girls don't want to talk to some random chode they made out with....and especially if you are slightly hesitant about how you will come off conversing, then don't call.

And no, we aren't gonna give you a text structure because we weren't there in person to see how the interaction went down. We don't know what type of personality you got. The actual content you need to come up with on your own. Just have the attitude of someone who doesn't care whether this girl laughs, cries, freaks, or gets turned on by whatever the hell you say in your texts.

Just get straight to the point and ask her out for drinks. Don't bother beating around the bush, i.e. wasting your time with long drawn out texts that will make it seem like you're a budding comedian trying out a new monologue.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

I'm not hating at all, just trying to educate so don't think I'm pissing on your parade.

With that said, #'s don't mean shiat.

What's more important than text game and all that jazz is learning how to structure your pick up when you meet them in the first place.

If you make out with a drunk chick and leave for a short time and find her making out with someone else, that should tell you two things:

a) she's likely pretty drunk

b) she wasn't that into otherwise she wouldn't have done what she did

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What you need to work on is building comfort with these girls. The attraction is there, along with too much alcohol so the make out is really not that big of a deal in that environment.

You need to differentiate yourself from the pack by trying to act like you want to get to know her. That will make her remember you.

Then when you text she will be eager to get together and you can proceed to stage 2; aka phuckin her.

The fact that she responded to your text is positive, but as others said it was likely a shiat test and if you would have complied I'm not sure if she would have actually met up with you anyways.

Don't worry about text game. You don't really need to have text game. You need to have solid game when you meet the byatch in the first place and the text game will fall in place.





PIMP

 

[In10se]

Well here's how it went down today for anyone whose interested... I think it went flawlessly even if it ended in a no response:

Me: hey sexy, just saw a chick with a fanny pack that reminded me of you

Her: Why does a woman with a fanny pack remind you of me loll

Waited 20 min...Me: Lol your fun to tease, im stuckin boring meetings all day, whats going on in the world of XXX

Waits 20 min Her: Oh you know the usual, daily bank robberies, giving candy to children, occassional bar fights, etc.

(Lol wtf, does this chick either read pick up material? Or get a load of this **** from other clowns?)

Waited 30 minutes Me: Perfect, lets get together tn for a drink to celebrate your latest heist...ill drive the getaway car

And thats how it ended...honestly I think the flow was there, but likely there just isn't enough comfort to meet with some random dude she made out with...gotta work on the comfort part that's the element my game is missing...attraction is there 20 fold so that's good!

 

[InnerHappiness]

I think you have been outgamed LMAO!

NC until she texts you back and then wait a day to text her.

 

[Trump]

So I met this stunner and made out with her in less than 2 minutes of talking to her...really wasn't much talking involved to be honest...we were making out hard and she was begging me not to leave her and I was licking her stomach/grabbing her ass...she was wayyy into me...offered her number and then after like 45 minutes I realized I hadn't seen my friends...told her I was going to find them and come back...

Well 15 minutes later I head back towards her and she is making out with a chode...I realize she was probably pretty drunk, but regardless I went and found another chick...

I texted her at the end of the night and was like "Hey cutie glad I ran into you- this is ____the guy you were hu with that isn't a total chode

She responds later: "come cuddle"

Me: I'll have to take a rain check, we'll hang out together this week

Her: no response

Trying to build on my text game, so where do I go from here ? I'm under the assumption she liked me, but was also pretty drunk so how do I spark that initial interest?

You are making out with a super hot girl and you stop to tell her you have to go find your friends? The same super hot girl tells you to "come cuddle" and you say next week? Wow and wow.

Bro next week is like a year in hot girl time. You have to close the deal while they are all hot and bothered, just like in business. The longer you wait, the more time they have to think about it, change their mind, competition arrives, outside factors arrive, market value changes, whatever.

 

[headFirst]

Well here's how it went down today for anyone whose interested... I think it went flawlessly even if it ended in a no response:

Me: hey sexy, just saw a chick with a fanny pack that reminded me of you

Her: Why does a woman with a fanny pack remind you of me loll

Waited 20 min...Me: Lol your fun to tease, im stuckin boring meetings all day, whats going on in the world of XXX

Waits 20 min Her: Oh you know the usual, daily bank robberies, giving candy to children, occassional bar fights, etc.

(Lol wtf, does this chick either read pick up material? Or get a load of this **** from other clowns?)

Waited 30 minutes Me: Perfect, lets get together tn for a drink to celebrate your latest heist...ill drive the getaway car

And thats how it ended...honestly I think the flow was there, but likely there just isn't enough comfort to meet with some random dude she made out with...gotta work on the comfort part that's the element my game is missing...attraction is there 20 fold so that's good!

Lol, so sorry but here is my impression. She seems witty and fun.. You seemed normal and casual. You should of played along and had better responses. You seemed a little boring.

"Oh you know the usual, daily bank robberies, giving candy to children, occassional bar fights, etc."

I love when a girl is witty like that. It's so easy to build something quickly because I'm the same way.. and I'm the one usually making those remarks lol..

I would of responded with:

I would of been like, yea I was feeling like a rebel today, I took two mints instead of one while paying for lunch.. Aren't Tuesday's your usual Cage Fight nights?

Lol, when you made the fanny pack comment she probably is in a totally different mindset than what she was at the bar.. So she was looking for verification.

 

[In10se]

Idk, I guess I just need to have tighter game in person so the text BS is all a formality...On the other hand, I was witty, but got to the point quickly...which was setting up a date....I didn't want to go on with the bantering sh!t