backbreaker
Master Don Juan
ebracer05 made what i think was a very good post earlier today and his post was so good i did not want to take over his thread with my thoughts on what he expanded because they go down a different path.
You know what, i'm going to say something that is true. you know it's true. I know it's true. Everyone knows it's true but everyone continues with the bull**** to make themselves feel better.
All this bull****.. all of it... the breaking down of different classifications of women's fvcked up behavior, the degrading of women all it is is a slightly more intelligent form of buffering. that's all this bull **** is. Now that you are older, you have a good job, you've read a few books, learned a few new words, and more importantly, you've been rejected a few times, you have had some fvcked up experiences, you have now learned how to coat your bull**** excuses for not playing the game with a new coat of wax.
When you were 18 years old she just doesn't like guys like me i'm not a football / basketball player. en you are 28 it just isn't the right time, still not over her ex of 3 years blahy blah blah or i don't have a good enough job. when you are 38 it's because she's an obviously cluster B who craves attention.
but you can wax the bull**** all day long, it's still bull****. it's intelligent bull****, but nevertheless it's still bull****.
You may not agree with everything I post, i may be a bit too arrogant for some, I may act like I know it all but everyone here has to give me one thing... when i put my mind on something, rather it's start a business, or get in shape, or beat a drug addiction, or learn how to talk to women, i fvcking do it.
I'm not saying I was an instant success at all of it. my business took 3 years before i was able to even buy myself decent clothes again let alone make money lol. i pledged to quit drugs somewhere between 20 and 40 times beofire i finally got it. i can't tell you how many times i've been rejected by women, some more outlandish than others.
but the difference between me and most guys here is i stuck with it until i got it. and i got it. i did not make excuses. sure i got fvcked over. i had a right to be mad at women, i had a girl i worshiped use me for years, mentally, emotionally and financially. i was thinking about even marrying a girl who cheated on me with some random dude at the club, and all i ddi was let her live iwth me rent and obligation free, didn't even have to work, just wanted her to be her, and she coudln't even do that. i've been accused even questioned for a sexual assault i did not commit whatsoever over a girl pissy beucase i rejected her.
but you know what, all that's just fvcking life. you take it how it comes and you deal with it. life either makes you or it breaks you. if you are sitting here debating on if a girl is a cluster B or just bi polar instead of going out and actually talking to women, you got broke.
in the thread about squrills some dude asks me why don't i just send warrior some money to get out of his legal problems. that's the problem with most men.. you don't get it. you want the result without the journey, you want to play in the NBA without waking up 5am every morning and shooting free throws in the gy m until midnight. you want to be a virtuoso pianist without spending your life practicing. and in the case for most men on this forum you want all this success with women, without allt he pain that women can and eventually will cause. that's just not how the world fvcking works.
My fav jazz pianist is oscar peterson... Art Tatum was more brilliant, but most times his brilliance did not translate to beautiful music, most of his songs are just a showcase of **** he can do, which is ungodly lol, that man could do **** in his sleep on the piano.. whil ebeiung blind that most men could not even think of doing.. anyway my point is, everyone listens to oscar Peterson and the man is gifted, and he plays so effortlessly.. there is a youtube video of him freestyling and everyone in the crowd is just like WTF this is unreal and he's not even trying.. people assume that **** came naturally. oscar peterson said in an interview that from the time he was i think 9 u tnil today he wakes up and practices the piano 6 hours a day. 6 fvcking hours a day, and the man is what, 75 80 years old. wakes up, 6 hours on the piano. go to sleep, wake up 6 hours on the piano. Thbe first time he heard Art Tatum,. he could not be convinced that it was just one person playing the piano and not 2. Art is that damn good. when he was finally convinced it was 1 person he was so stunned he stopped playing the piano for 3 weeks, convinced he would never be that good. but his father talked him out of it and he got back to playing and while he was never as technically gifted as Art, he didn't do half fvcking bad himself considering he's probably the best jazz pianist to play a piano int he last 50 years.
my point to all that is, when is the last time you actually took action? you don't win on the freaking sidelines. you don't win by coming up with excuses. you don't' win by damning women.
you are on one side of the cliff. the man you want to be with women is on the other side. you have to get across that bridge. there is no way to get to the other side without crossing that bridge. And it's in crossing the bridge, not being on the other side, that makes you a man, that makes you the guy that women want to be with and men want to be like, that makes you h ave no fear approaching women. lol by the time i met my now wife i had about negative 80% fear of being rejected. and it wasn't because i had convinced myself that i was so great or i had finally rationalized this perfect mindset it's because i had been rejected so many times, that i was not afraid of it anymore lol. there is nothing to fear anymore. i did it. alot. i got better at it but i still got rejected and i was cool with it. but to get there, i had to get rejected, a LOT.
lol to get ****y and have an aura of self esteem about yourself, you actually have to do something to have some self esteem lol. that's something a lot of men don't seem to grasp. why should a woman want you to lead her when to be frank.. you can't even fvcking lead yourself? you see women you want to fvck all day long and you don't talk to them yet women are supposed to throw their panties at you when you walk by lol? you want these skinny petite leggy women that wear size 2 dresses yet have C cups when you spend all fvcking day posting in threads about how looks really don't matter in game instead of actually taking your ass in the gym and putting some dedication into getting your diet right? and when the woman isn't interested in you, it's her fault for being shallow. You want a non skank bar slut educated woman but you wouldn't know who Dimitri Karamazov or John the Salvage or Guy Montag are if I gave you que cards. You want to have these romantic elligevent evenings with these dimes over a candle light dinner yet you have nothing to bring to the table to talk about but hot you think she is or how much you will be faithful to her if she gave you a chance. you don't do ****, you aren't aqbout **** and beucase of that you don't get ****.
I mean, there are some guys here that have been around a while and i know we don't see each other but i can really say I really do care about a lot of the guys here. I mean that. seriously. I want to see everyone here be successful and happy. But at the same time, just because we are older, doesn't mean the game hasn't changed. you still got to put on a helmet and pick up a bat and take some swings buddy. you got to get out there and play the game. you are single and you aren't making any appoches anymore.. why? you have talked yourself into believing that women aren't worth your time yet you still post here lol?
all i am saying is while this forum is very very valuable.. it is not a substitute for action. your game should be more action oriented not theory oriented. if you want dates, dare i even say plates, the only way you can get plates is to actually go FIND plates and talk to them this isn't a video game where every extra theory you unclock plates just magically appear lol.
for all this **** on this forum.. you talk to 10 women. 3 will say okay. 1 or 2 will flake out of those 3. you put enough 1 and 2's together and you might find a few girls that actually like you and want to see you. you gain some confidence and the plates get better as well as the precentages. but the only way any of that works is by getting out there and talking to women something i dont' think a lot of people do anymore.
You know what, i'm going to say something that is true. you know it's true. I know it's true. Everyone knows it's true but everyone continues with the bull**** to make themselves feel better.
All this bull****.. all of it... the breaking down of different classifications of women's fvcked up behavior, the degrading of women all it is is a slightly more intelligent form of buffering. that's all this bull **** is. Now that you are older, you have a good job, you've read a few books, learned a few new words, and more importantly, you've been rejected a few times, you have had some fvcked up experiences, you have now learned how to coat your bull**** excuses for not playing the game with a new coat of wax.
When you were 18 years old she just doesn't like guys like me i'm not a football / basketball player. en you are 28 it just isn't the right time, still not over her ex of 3 years blahy blah blah or i don't have a good enough job. when you are 38 it's because she's an obviously cluster B who craves attention.
but you can wax the bull**** all day long, it's still bull****. it's intelligent bull****, but nevertheless it's still bull****.
You may not agree with everything I post, i may be a bit too arrogant for some, I may act like I know it all but everyone here has to give me one thing... when i put my mind on something, rather it's start a business, or get in shape, or beat a drug addiction, or learn how to talk to women, i fvcking do it.
I'm not saying I was an instant success at all of it. my business took 3 years before i was able to even buy myself decent clothes again let alone make money lol. i pledged to quit drugs somewhere between 20 and 40 times beofire i finally got it. i can't tell you how many times i've been rejected by women, some more outlandish than others.
but the difference between me and most guys here is i stuck with it until i got it. and i got it. i did not make excuses. sure i got fvcked over. i had a right to be mad at women, i had a girl i worshiped use me for years, mentally, emotionally and financially. i was thinking about even marrying a girl who cheated on me with some random dude at the club, and all i ddi was let her live iwth me rent and obligation free, didn't even have to work, just wanted her to be her, and she coudln't even do that. i've been accused even questioned for a sexual assault i did not commit whatsoever over a girl pissy beucase i rejected her.
but you know what, all that's just fvcking life. you take it how it comes and you deal with it. life either makes you or it breaks you. if you are sitting here debating on if a girl is a cluster B or just bi polar instead of going out and actually talking to women, you got broke.
in the thread about squrills some dude asks me why don't i just send warrior some money to get out of his legal problems. that's the problem with most men.. you don't get it. you want the result without the journey, you want to play in the NBA without waking up 5am every morning and shooting free throws in the gy m until midnight. you want to be a virtuoso pianist without spending your life practicing. and in the case for most men on this forum you want all this success with women, without allt he pain that women can and eventually will cause. that's just not how the world fvcking works.
My fav jazz pianist is oscar peterson... Art Tatum was more brilliant, but most times his brilliance did not translate to beautiful music, most of his songs are just a showcase of **** he can do, which is ungodly lol, that man could do **** in his sleep on the piano.. whil ebeiung blind that most men could not even think of doing.. anyway my point is, everyone listens to oscar Peterson and the man is gifted, and he plays so effortlessly.. there is a youtube video of him freestyling and everyone in the crowd is just like WTF this is unreal and he's not even trying.. people assume that **** came naturally. oscar peterson said in an interview that from the time he was i think 9 u tnil today he wakes up and practices the piano 6 hours a day. 6 fvcking hours a day, and the man is what, 75 80 years old. wakes up, 6 hours on the piano. go to sleep, wake up 6 hours on the piano. Thbe first time he heard Art Tatum,. he could not be convinced that it was just one person playing the piano and not 2. Art is that damn good. when he was finally convinced it was 1 person he was so stunned he stopped playing the piano for 3 weeks, convinced he would never be that good. but his father talked him out of it and he got back to playing and while he was never as technically gifted as Art, he didn't do half fvcking bad himself considering he's probably the best jazz pianist to play a piano int he last 50 years.
my point to all that is, when is the last time you actually took action? you don't win on the freaking sidelines. you don't win by coming up with excuses. you don't' win by damning women.
you are on one side of the cliff. the man you want to be with women is on the other side. you have to get across that bridge. there is no way to get to the other side without crossing that bridge. And it's in crossing the bridge, not being on the other side, that makes you a man, that makes you the guy that women want to be with and men want to be like, that makes you h ave no fear approaching women. lol by the time i met my now wife i had about negative 80% fear of being rejected. and it wasn't because i had convinced myself that i was so great or i had finally rationalized this perfect mindset it's because i had been rejected so many times, that i was not afraid of it anymore lol. there is nothing to fear anymore. i did it. alot. i got better at it but i still got rejected and i was cool with it. but to get there, i had to get rejected, a LOT.
lol to get ****y and have an aura of self esteem about yourself, you actually have to do something to have some self esteem lol. that's something a lot of men don't seem to grasp. why should a woman want you to lead her when to be frank.. you can't even fvcking lead yourself? you see women you want to fvck all day long and you don't talk to them yet women are supposed to throw their panties at you when you walk by lol? you want these skinny petite leggy women that wear size 2 dresses yet have C cups when you spend all fvcking day posting in threads about how looks really don't matter in game instead of actually taking your ass in the gym and putting some dedication into getting your diet right? and when the woman isn't interested in you, it's her fault for being shallow. You want a non skank bar slut educated woman but you wouldn't know who Dimitri Karamazov or John the Salvage or Guy Montag are if I gave you que cards. You want to have these romantic elligevent evenings with these dimes over a candle light dinner yet you have nothing to bring to the table to talk about but hot you think she is or how much you will be faithful to her if she gave you a chance. you don't do ****, you aren't aqbout **** and beucase of that you don't get ****.
I mean, there are some guys here that have been around a while and i know we don't see each other but i can really say I really do care about a lot of the guys here. I mean that. seriously. I want to see everyone here be successful and happy. But at the same time, just because we are older, doesn't mean the game hasn't changed. you still got to put on a helmet and pick up a bat and take some swings buddy. you got to get out there and play the game. you are single and you aren't making any appoches anymore.. why? you have talked yourself into believing that women aren't worth your time yet you still post here lol?
all i am saying is while this forum is very very valuable.. it is not a substitute for action. your game should be more action oriented not theory oriented. if you want dates, dare i even say plates, the only way you can get plates is to actually go FIND plates and talk to them this isn't a video game where every extra theory you unclock plates just magically appear lol.
for all this **** on this forum.. you talk to 10 women. 3 will say okay. 1 or 2 will flake out of those 3. you put enough 1 and 2's together and you might find a few girls that actually like you and want to see you. you gain some confidence and the plates get better as well as the precentages. but the only way any of that works is by getting out there and talking to women something i dont' think a lot of people do anymore.
