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Don Juan
I heard some news from my x girlfriend & I have started communicating via e-mail with my ex wife, both of which have made me thoughtful & reflective. I never tried to hurt any1 intentionally but sometimes it happens.
My x girfriend got herself fired when she got a very volatile schizoid attitude & started changing moods every 5 minutes, then dissed my friends, but the clincher was when we went on a ski trip & she started calling me an idiot, "BYE, theres the door" was my answer & of course she was crying saying that she didnt take me for ganted & she did appreciate me. but Obviously if u love some1 & u r not taking them for granted & do appreciate them u dont do all that nonsense.
Point of this is that when she starts acting like an idiot u have to set her straight & not take any crap or u r disrespecting yourself.
My first girlfriend after my divorce was the true Queen Pycho B from Hell & Man did she teach me a lot through pain. I was with her 9 torturous months, she was gorgeous I was blinded by that beauty & fell in love like an A$$. Looking back I realize she was nothing but an ignorant lazy addicted poor white trash Ho but I had no street smarts. Well after being taken for granted, used for $, & being cheated on with several men U learn a few things. so let me share the treasures I have learned from pain
1)Dont make excuses for women, if she is being mean to u or acting like an A$$, tell her to leave u alone or show her to the door
2) If she lied to u once, she'll do it again & again
3) DO NOT TRUST, trust must be earned not given, dont trust her just cus she's beautiful, do u know this person? do u know what she wants? do u know what she wants from u?
4) You should be as nice as possible but when u have to lay down the law be firm & let her know that theres no screwing around on this point
5)Respect each other, is she disrespects u, correct her quickly or show her the door
6)If u think she is taking u for granted or disrespecting u, tell her flat out. If she tries to turn the tables on u, show her the door
7) Dont put up with "female logic" this is an oxymoron, female logic does not exist, they r not logical beings
8)DO NOT build your life around 1 person, DO NOT forsake friends & family for her. For your own mental & emotional well being u must have a rounded portfolio of people. Maintain strong relationships with your family, friends, pets, cars, If she tries to make u break these or put herself on top, ask yourself why? & think about running
9)maybe this should have been #1, NEVER loose your objectivity, never let emotions cloud your judgement, if she is playing emotional games with u or hurting u, this means SHE DOESNT LOVE U!!!
10)Impermanence Rules, People change, she will not b the same person she is now forever & her perception & emotions towards u will change, never forget this
Good Luck
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International Millionaire Playboy Dude
My x girfriend got herself fired when she got a very volatile schizoid attitude & started changing moods every 5 minutes, then dissed my friends, but the clincher was when we went on a ski trip & she started calling me an idiot, "BYE, theres the door" was my answer & of course she was crying saying that she didnt take me for ganted & she did appreciate me. but Obviously if u love some1 & u r not taking them for granted & do appreciate them u dont do all that nonsense.
Point of this is that when she starts acting like an idiot u have to set her straight & not take any crap or u r disrespecting yourself.
My first girlfriend after my divorce was the true Queen Pycho B from Hell & Man did she teach me a lot through pain. I was with her 9 torturous months, she was gorgeous I was blinded by that beauty & fell in love like an A$$. Looking back I realize she was nothing but an ignorant lazy addicted poor white trash Ho but I had no street smarts. Well after being taken for granted, used for $, & being cheated on with several men U learn a few things. so let me share the treasures I have learned from pain
1)Dont make excuses for women, if she is being mean to u or acting like an A$$, tell her to leave u alone or show her to the door
2) If she lied to u once, she'll do it again & again
3) DO NOT TRUST, trust must be earned not given, dont trust her just cus she's beautiful, do u know this person? do u know what she wants? do u know what she wants from u?
4) You should be as nice as possible but when u have to lay down the law be firm & let her know that theres no screwing around on this point
5)Respect each other, is she disrespects u, correct her quickly or show her the door
6)If u think she is taking u for granted or disrespecting u, tell her flat out. If she tries to turn the tables on u, show her the door
7) Dont put up with "female logic" this is an oxymoron, female logic does not exist, they r not logical beings
8)DO NOT build your life around 1 person, DO NOT forsake friends & family for her. For your own mental & emotional well being u must have a rounded portfolio of people. Maintain strong relationships with your family, friends, pets, cars, If she tries to make u break these or put herself on top, ask yourself why? & think about running
9)maybe this should have been #1, NEVER loose your objectivity, never let emotions cloud your judgement, if she is playing emotional games with u or hurting u, this means SHE DOESNT LOVE U!!!
10)Impermanence Rules, People change, she will not b the same person she is now forever & her perception & emotions towards u will change, never forget this
Good Luck
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International Millionaire Playboy Dude
