P.O.F Match.com etc.

[Naughty Ninja]

P.O.F Match.com....Anybody had any luck on any of these sites? I know there loaded with tons of whack-a-doo's and plumpers. But anyone on here tried these sites and met any hotties off them for a little extra potential dates? Sex? (Always good to try all venues to possibly meet new chicks..)

 

[JCballin88]

I made a profile on POF for the heck of it last month in the city where I'll be living this summer, an hour away from my hometown

I actually had 2 girls mail me within an hour of making my profile, but unfortunately neither was attractive.

Since then it's been pretty slow...I've sent a few messages out there and gotten a couple replies. Unfortunately the replies give me hardly anything to work with and the conversation is dead before I can even get started.

I'm thinking about scrapping it pretty soon. The pickings just seem so slim...POF should really be called Plenty-of-Whales in my opinion >_<

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I made a profile on POF for the heck of it last month in the city where I'll be living this summer, an hour away from my hometown

I actually had 2 girls mail me within an hour of making my profile, but unfortunately neither was attractive.

Since then it's been pretty slow...I've sent a few messages out there and gotten a couple replies. Unfortunately the replies give me hardly anything to work with and the conversation is dead before I can even get started.

I'm thinking about scrapping it pretty soon. The pickings just seem so slim...POF should really be called Plenty-of-Whales in my opinion >_<

I go right with "What were you for Halloween last year and What foods do you like to eat? also what states countries have you visited. Keep it on. I've been talking to a few. Write down names (I forget and erase alot of the conversations. I've gotten three numbers so far. Two in Florida as I visit there alot and one in NJ working on a few more. Have pictures of you doing things or with friends smiling. They want to make sure you have teeth and recent pictures. Actually there are some pretty hot ones...You have to really look at the pictures and send some retardedly funny email or mock their profile. Alot respond! So far all good. There are ALOT of big ones on there. Don't write them!

 

[Scion]

I actually have a question regarding this whole online thing. I made a profile on POF just as a extra way of meeting women. So far got 4 hot girls a bit interested (multiple messages from each of them, answering messages right away). However, when I went for the number with each of them they only gave me their msn email. Is this common? I've chatted with 2 of them on msn so far, but again when I tried getting the number from one she didn't give it up.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I actually have a question regarding this whole online thing. I made a profile on POF just as a extra way of meeting women. So far got 4 hot girls a bit interested (multiple messages from each of them, answering messages right away). However, when I went for the number with each of them they only gave me their msn email. Is this common? I've chatted with 2 of them on msn so far, but again when I tried getting the number from one she didn't give it up.

They like to chat a bit on that msn or yahoo crap. I keep it light and don't get into the resume B.S. I treat them as friends then after a bit I ask. If they don't I act like I never asked and keep chatting till they give it up. And I usually wait till they send their last reply and read it but don't reply right away on POF to keep it as I ended the chat. No matter how hot they are. then answer in the next day or so and keep emailing other potentials..I just got another # and pics...

 

[Robert28]

i got kicked off that site about a year ago(still haven't figured out why?) and everytime i create a profile they delete it within an hour or so.lol

 

[Naughty Ninja]

i got kicked off that site about a year ago(still haven't figured out why?) and everytime i create a profile they delete it within an hour or so.lol

If you put some of these women in check they'll report you. Or if you keep emailing the same one. they can dish it. But can't take it..

 

[actionjaxson]

my profile kept getting deleted too! i used the same line over and over again so maybe theres a spam filter that bans you or something.

 

[Robert28]

If you put some of these women in check they'll report you. Or if you keep emailing the same one. they can dish it. But can't take it..

i think i might have been reported by this girl who would look at my profile every single day but wouldn't respond to any messages i sent her. it was just weird, so i asked her "are you stalking me or something?lol" and not long after that i got banned. oh well so is life. you'd think they'd at least tell me why i got kicked off or give me a warning or something. according to their rules and guidlines i did nothing wrong.

 

[Robert28]

my profile kept getting deleted too! i used the same line over and over again so maybe theres a spam filter that bans you or something.

but you would think you could make a new profile right? wrong. i've tried making one with a different email, different computer, different ISP, nothings worked. always get deleted within an hour or so. it's like i'm on their to 10 most wanted list or something.haha fat femenists and single moms who's kids i'm paying for unwillingly are out to get me!

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I've sent them this as my initial email...to ALOT of them....I throw their "wants and needs" right in their face in a humorous way..Alot reply back immediately after they read it saying they laughed their ass off (so far never had a bad reply and so far haven't gotten tossed off there) then I go into my random conversation..

 

[actionjaxson]

at least yours lasts for an hour! i just tried creating one again and right after i do the chemistry test it wont even let me login anymore. i didnt even send any messages or anything.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

That chemstry test is retarded. I had a problem once where it wouldn't let me send...had to delete the profile and start all over...this site won't let me post my email to them..probably because it's off of email....Damn...

 

[Scion]

They like to chat a bit on that msn or yahoo crap. I keep it light and don't get into the resume B.S. I treat them as friends then after a bit I ask. If they don't I act like I never asked and keep chatting till they give it up. And I usually wait till they send their last reply and read it but don't reply right away on POF to keep it as I ended the chat. No matter how hot they are. then answer in the next day or so and keep emailing other potentials..I just got another # and pics...

Yeah, I get that they like to chat a bit before giving up the number but it's still annoying. A number is so much easier, can contact her whenever, not just when we both happen to be online. Plus then you don't have to deal with the crap messenger programs (I had a hell of a time adding one girl yesterday, still don't know if it even worked).

 

[COD]

SHEESH AGAIN WITH THE ONLINE DATING THING...........people read the old posts.......type in your search word into the box.............TONS ON ONLINE DATING AND YES EVEN WAHT TO DO STEP BY STEP IF U GET BANNED, BOOTED, DELETED, HOW TO GET HER NUMBER, ETC

I KNOW CAUSE I WROTE A TON OR ARTICLES ON HERE ABOUT ONLINE DATING AND ALL THE TACTICS

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Thanks COD. We just wanted to have our own chat thread on the subject. I'll search and read them. I had a great conversation putting a girl who's got pictures of her "hot" friend online and trying to start her own matchmaking buisness. lol. They can dish it on there but can't take it unless you're agreeing with everything they spew and act AFC orbiter.

 

[Lexington]

I started an account on OKCupid less than 2 weeks ago. I ripped off my profile from various things I read here. Then I sent a generic cut and paste message out to a bunch of different girls with a few things edited for each one. Only a few (maybe 25%) replied. Of those, I got dates out of 3.

All 3 were decently attractive, but I realized one of them was not my type after meeting her. I had coffee dates with 2 of them last weekend and I'm going to have second dates with both of them this week....I'm taking one bowling and the other ice skating.

Here are the tips that I've found useful:
1) Use a funny subject line. Mock her about something she said in her profile. This is what you need to hook her attention. Any half decent chick gets bombarded with a ton of messages everyday so she needs a reason to open yours.

2) Play the numbers game hardcore. Like I said earlier, every half decent chick gets flooded with messages. Unless you're really good looking, your chances aren't great with each individual girl. But if you use a generic message, you can contact many women in a very short period of time.

3) Be very concise and mysterious with your answers When she asks a question, respond in such a way that it raises more questions. You want her to be intrigued by you. Never show her all your cards. In order to setup a date, I usually respond to one of her questions with "I'll tell ya what, why don't I tell you over a cup of coffee?"

Using the above formula I've already met 3 girls and I'm working on a few more girls at the moment. The way I see it, online dating is basically something to supplement your "real world" game.

If you want to truly cultivate an abundance mentality, then you should always be working on multiple women simultaneously. Use every avenue open to you. One of those avenues is online dating, but it should never be your only avenue.