Your success level in a club will depend greatly on which club you are in and your approach (or lack of one). In some clubs you don’t need an approach per se; you just let them come to you.
I am not going to use club names but I will contrast 2 separate clubs that I find are very different than most clubs I have been to.
Club 1 – 21 and over Internet stats say the girl to guy ratio is 3:1. Most of the people in there are 25+ with some much older. They play retro and top 40’s for the most part. This club closes at 2AM when they can’t serve anymore.
Just to go this club and have fun, dance, and walk around. Talk to people both guys and girls, you may be able to use much of your DJ skills and much of the standard “club tactics” apply. For the most part you can dance with who you want to for a little bit with little rejection. What works and what doesn’t, who knows it could be very random but it is somewhat of a straight laced crowd. You’ll see what I mean in the next post.
Club 2 – Closes at 4AM or so and is an after hours type of club. Crowd is 18+ they have 2 dance floors and kind of 2 clubs in one. One of which is more techno type of music. It isn’t the music in this place, it is the crowd that is so different than most. The other dance floor has not good results (also you will notice no one bumps and grinds).
You can probably dance with some people but you may get rejected more. This one seems to be more of a social proof type of club.
Pick up trick – Dance alone and don’t give a F*** what you look like as long as you don’t look like an idiot. Keep your eye open for someone who may be checking you out and give her a little dance action (bump and grind). Don’t be afraid to touch others nearby if they seem receptive and don’t be surprised if you get sandwiched by 2 girls or more.
Don’t be surprised if you find yourself making out with a chick or even 2 chicks at once or if they try to strip you.
I haven’t been to this club too many times but I can tell you that the times I have been I was attacked by women. At one point I had 4 or 5 ladies practically stripping me on an elevated part of the dance floor when more came out of no-where to get in on the action; I had to push most of them away. There are by far more guys than girls in this club unlike club 1. But the crowd is far from mainstream, I never did it for several reasons but I have been invited to multiple 3somes and (good times) at this club.
The trick I think to get them so attracted is how seductive you are when you dance and how far you’ll willing to take it with the clothes still on and how good you look doing it. The other women in the club will watch you dance and wish they could have a piece of you. They will get closer and closer and just touch them and let them in on the action.
You can spot this type of club by looking at how freaky people are getting on the dance floor, you can quickly determine if you’re in club 1 or 2. Which one do I prefer? Club1 is my favorite but they are not kicking for too long. You seem to have a better people in club 1 but club 2 sure can be fun depending on what you want.
I am not going to use club names but I will contrast 2 separate clubs that I find are very different than most clubs I have been to.
Club 1 – 21 and over Internet stats say the girl to guy ratio is 3:1. Most of the people in there are 25+ with some much older. They play retro and top 40’s for the most part. This club closes at 2AM when they can’t serve anymore.
Just to go this club and have fun, dance, and walk around. Talk to people both guys and girls, you may be able to use much of your DJ skills and much of the standard “club tactics” apply. For the most part you can dance with who you want to for a little bit with little rejection. What works and what doesn’t, who knows it could be very random but it is somewhat of a straight laced crowd. You’ll see what I mean in the next post.
Club 2 – Closes at 4AM or so and is an after hours type of club. Crowd is 18+ they have 2 dance floors and kind of 2 clubs in one. One of which is more techno type of music. It isn’t the music in this place, it is the crowd that is so different than most. The other dance floor has not good results (also you will notice no one bumps and grinds).
You can probably dance with some people but you may get rejected more. This one seems to be more of a social proof type of club.
Pick up trick – Dance alone and don’t give a F*** what you look like as long as you don’t look like an idiot. Keep your eye open for someone who may be checking you out and give her a little dance action (bump and grind). Don’t be afraid to touch others nearby if they seem receptive and don’t be surprised if you get sandwiched by 2 girls or more.
Don’t be surprised if you find yourself making out with a chick or even 2 chicks at once or if they try to strip you.
I haven’t been to this club too many times but I can tell you that the times I have been I was attacked by women. At one point I had 4 or 5 ladies practically stripping me on an elevated part of the dance floor when more came out of no-where to get in on the action; I had to push most of them away. There are by far more guys than girls in this club unlike club 1. But the crowd is far from mainstream, I never did it for several reasons but I have been invited to multiple 3somes and (good times) at this club.
The trick I think to get them so attracted is how seductive you are when you dance and how far you’ll willing to take it with the clothes still on and how good you look doing it. The other women in the club will watch you dance and wish they could have a piece of you. They will get closer and closer and just touch them and let them in on the action.
You can spot this type of club by looking at how freaky people are getting on the dance floor, you can quickly determine if you’re in club 1 or 2. Which one do I prefer? Club1 is my favorite but they are not kicking for too long. You seem to have a better people in club 1 but club 2 sure can be fun depending on what you want.