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Overexposure
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Since you can't really make out with your girl at school, school's not really a fun place to see your girlfriend, so here's what you do:
1) Occasionally eat lunch with her at school.
2) Give her a little slice of your busy weekend to hang out and do more than hug.
This is good because you let her know that your life doesn't revolve around her, you let her and your friends that you usually hang out with at school during lunch know that you have your own mind, and you keep a good level of communication with your friends and your girlfriend at school.
Later,
DJBedford.
1) Occasionally eat lunch with her at school.
2) Give her a little slice of your busy weekend to hang out and do more than hug.
This is good because you let her know that your life doesn't revolve around her, you let her and your friends that you usually hang out with at school during lunch know that you have your own mind, and you keep a good level of communication with your friends and your girlfriend at school.
Later,
DJBedford.
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Master Don Juan
Totally off topic but our names are damn similar. Freaky coincidence!
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Master Don Juan
The key for highschool relationships is freedom. Let her be free and be free from her. I answered a question just a lil' while ago about going to lunch with your girlfriend and I told the guy to go like once or twice a week for lunch with his girlfriend. Spend the rest of your lunch hours with your friends and she can do the same. That way you two don't get sick of each other and as an added bonus her friends will probably like you more for letting her go out and play (oh and your friends won't pick on you as much for being 'whipped', haha). Just try to get free time from her at school when you can or hang out with her in a group like at breaks and stuff. Oh and one last thing try not to be all over each other at school, no one wants to see that and it'll end up getting you two isolated at school and that'll lead to the overexposure you're talking about
Overexposure is one of the most common killers of highschool relationships. Remember, you're out to have fun, not to simulate a marriage. Spend some time with her every day during breaks, but it's not necessary to eat with her every lunchtime - show her that though you care about her, you have a life outside of her.
Also, on the same note - don't initiate phone calls more than 3 times a week as a general rule of thumb.
Also, on the same note - don't initiate phone calls more than 3 times a week as a general rule of thumb.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.