Overanalyses is important for the budding mack.
I don't know about the rest of you, but when I came to this site, I was in a state of silent desperation. When I learned all the simple steps that I needed to go through to get women to be more attracted to me.
In the beginning, I found that I was overanalysing every little detail, trying to figure out which things were significant and which things werent.
Now, I am much better in this department, and I keep my analysis to : Is it something that I did wrong? Or is it something with her? What did I do wrong? and How can I stop myself from repeating that mistake. Anything more eventually is a waste of time... but it is important for the person learning about seduction to analyse his weaknesses and to be honest about them so that these weaknesses can be eliminated.
I couldn't give any guidelines on this because it is all very subjective. But, you'll also have to keep in mind to notice when this analyses is going from the point of helping to the point that it is holding you back... at which point you should simplify the analasis or get rid of the unhelpful worries.
Someone mentioned red flags... I think that is really what it comes down to. Knowing what you are looking for. Some people will want an attention who re, because that that trait of their personality meshes with the personality of the man that she is with... although, MOST of us can do without the attention hoes, therefore when you analyse the situation with the girl and you start seeing traits of the attention ho (attho) you will see it as a red flag and can more easily decide if you would like to pursue the relationship... BUT, keep in mind that a woman, no matter how beautiful should be limited in the number of red flags that she can display... make your own guidelines.
Why would you read the 48 laws of power ? So that you can get some real power for yourself is one possibility. Power, and the feelings of power will increase your confidence. Also, knowing about power can prevent you from being a victim of someone elses power. Although the art of seduction is much better.
"over analyzing is definitely dangerous.
What Ive learned is that you cant trouble yourself to always control the situation, ultimately, it cannot be controlled.
What CAN be controlled is YOU. The way YOU act, tha way YOU think. Take control and become the best that you can be. Everything else really falls in to place after."
It is completely dangerous, but it's a risk that some just HAVE to take becuase there is no other way... (I know its odd quoting the next post, but whateva.)
