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[2c2bt]

Every cute girl I meet is an a**hole.
The last peice of sh*t scum girl I would have given the world to wouldn't even give me a second of her time other than just to talk as friends. WTF!!!!
I'm sick of this sh*t.

 

[Ice Cold]

Code RED code RED

Dude - chill.

Read the bible. It will clear some stuff up.

Approach new chicks. Not with intention of giving the world to them and her giving you something in return. Approach with intention of TAKING THEIR PVSSY. And you'll notice she wouldn't be able to treat you like friends.

 

[2c2bt]

OK.
It's really pissing me off.
Why can't I just find a girl that isn't slime?

 

[Ice Cold]

Define slime

 

[Big Pappy]

Oh, lord, bless this, thy holy handgrenade, so that we may blow thine enemy into tiny bits....


I sense somebody needs to just take a deep breath, let it out slowly and count to ten. Make it twenty.


If you read enough on this site, you will learn that you are not going to be able to change a woman. But, you can manipulate situations and your environment and her a little bit to get what you want.

What is it that you want? A woman who is not slimy. Easy enough.
You want a woman who will love you, right? Not so easy. Given your frustration level, you're not that lovable. You'll have to tighten up on that frustration.

If one girl doesn't do, try someone new. When's the last time you tried to hit on an ugly girl, just for practice? Do so again.

When you get your mind right, just lay the mack down on some b*tches candy a**!!

 

[2c2bt]

It's just that the girl I like so much totally tried to change the topic everytime I try show my feelings.

So they say girls don't want to be trapped or feel committed so they shy away from anything that might make them feel like I want more than just a casual relationship.

Well that's what I want. What am I supposed to do? Nothing seems to work. You're confident, independent, polite, and everything you can possibly be to make this girl like you, and what do you get for all of your work? Nothing.

 

[Ice Cold]

Ok, so one stupid broad doesn't like you? What do you do? What do you do?

I say:

Read the fukkin bible
Hit on some other girls

 

[Anonymous56]

everytime I try show my feelings.

What does this mean...elaborate......maybe you try to show your "feelings" too soon.

 

[Phoebus]

...to make this girl like you, and what do you get for all of your work? Nothing.

Well, there are two problems with this:

1) Do YOU like people who "try" to make you like them? Probably not. Think of a guy doing everything he can to "try" to get you to like him. Chances are you will think he is pretty lame. Same thing with girls.

2) Why should you "try" to "make" someone like you? Either they do or they don't. Either way, shouldn't bother you or lower you self-esteem. And, guess what? The "I don't care if you like me, I like myself" attitude makes alot of people like you. Strange, but true.

 

[2c2bt]

Ya but then you have to act like you don't care if they like you. Then it doesn't even work anyway, and she still doesn't like you.

I still can't figure out what to do to get her to like me. At this point, she won't even make time to see me other than emails once in awhile.

 

[Don Rageta]

Can anyone say ONEITIS?

you must definitely 'NEXT' whoever this girl is you are talking about .
You are too far gone with this one. you have firlmly established yourself as an AFC in her and my eyes.
calm down jacko, this isn't a flame its a reality check.

A. If she doesn't like you now she isn't going to like you later.
B. There is NOTHING (and i do mean nothing) you can do to make her like you.
C. Don't "act like you don't care if they like you." Actually stop wasting time caring about wether or not some random chick thinks.
D. There are alot more where this girl came from.
E. there are also alot of worthwile women in this world.
F. Read the Freakin' bible.
G. The first step to recovery is to admit that you are an AFC, come to terms with it and make a genuine effort to change it.
H. Women change the subject when men show their feelings because it is sociologically unnacceptable for men to be feminine, especially by showing feelings for them.
I. It is a Woman's responsibility to step up a relationship into Long term not yours. (when you bring it up you lose all control you may possibly have)

read the bible, Read The Bible, READ THE BIBLE

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[DankNuggs]

You have to remember to seperate the feelings of hurt from your ego by being rejected, and logically and rationally realize that people have a right to do what they want, click with who they are attracted to, and its just a fact of life...It doesn't mean ANYTHING towards you...

Its their loss, if you didn't feel inferior to them, you wouldn't be hurt...(Ever told a girl you weren't attracted to that you weren't interested in them...) You just putting them on pedestals and feeling inferior.

If they are rude and obnoxious, then why would you want to be around them anyways...

 

[b's nuts]

try sneaking into her room, and stealing some panties!

Chicks always dig the panty kifer.

 

[Dee-Zy]

Originally posted by 2c2bt
Every cute girl I meet is an a**hole.
The last peice of sh*t scum girl I would have given the world to wouldn't even give me a second of her time other than just to talk as friends. WTF!!!!
I'm sick of this sh*t.

That's because you are willing to give the world for her. You have the wrong state of mind buddy.