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Ouch !!

Just got deliciously rejected... said hi to a babe from school in ICQ, she shooted out: "There's nothing for us to talk about"
and then got quiet.

Ouch !! ;)

It's funny... it's been like forever since I last got one of these...
I wonder how many of you guys get these?

You know, lately it's been so f*cking easy for me to meet any girl I wanted... and my popularity is shooting through the roof !!

So, has it happened to you, popular folks, to get screened like that, in 60 seconds?

As far as I know, no one hits on this chick, she has very few male friends, and it's not very popular...

I know a friend of hers, who gives me some hints sometimes...
But I've never asked her to say or do anything other than getting me opportunities to talk to her...

Well, it seems like Da Blues has gotten himself some challenge... If any of you guys have some experience in that situation, please post...

BBB
 

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Just to add... never talked to her in person...

Going to talk this week... now that everything is kinda "f*cked up" I have nothing to stop me from approaching her...

And, going to talk to her friend tomorrow... see what's up with that babe... maybe she's having her period :rolleyes:

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Hmm, you know, BBB, that's really odd.

My experiences have held that most women are more open to conversation online than in person. I've never been openly slapped like that in online convo. :D Maybe it's your overwhelming charm at work?

I don't know if this will be of any use to you, but I employ a '3 strikes' guideline with women:

We all know that people have bad days, get in bad moods, don't want to talk, don't want to associate with others, just want to be alone, have a problem with life, have issues with themselves, issues with others, are in a relationship, are on the rebound from a nasty breakup...the list goes on and on. Anyhow, for one of those reasons or a host of others, it is inevitable that a woman is going to be totally unreceptive to me on at least one occassion. That's ok, because we're all entitled to our moods, and it's her decision to talk to me or not.
BUT - here's where the 3 strikes come into play. If she shoots me down 3 times, I stop trying to open her up and she drops off my radar. It's gonna happen one time or more that she'll be totally blocking any sort of pickup or even the most innocent conversation - she would probably hit ANYONE with the biatchy attitude that day. But if she gives you the slip 3 times...it ain't gonna work.

That's my philosophy. You can't control everything about a woman, but you have to be persistent to a certain degree. It's difficult to put into words, but don't try TOO hard, and at the same time DON'T be offended by getting shot down due to her bad day.

:) By the way, BBB - if you've got ICQ, drop me a personal message with your ICQ#. It'd be good to talk about some of this stuff sometime.
 

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Bump !!

And, once again, the universe conspires for you !!

Guess what, talking online to the chick today, I found that that she was avoiding me because her friend likes me !!
Sweet uh? ;)

And I'm almost through convincing her speaking normally with me... she said that I approached her in a very weird way... My bad !! :mad:

But, patience, class and DJ stlye always makes things good...

So, when I posted this I was totally hopeless... now I found a girl that has a crush for me and probably going to be able to talk normally to the one I want to mack... sweet...

See guys, patience and class pays it off!! Never tell a lady that rejects you at first to f*ck off !!! NEver !!

BBB
 

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Originally posted by whatsupwiddat
BBB didn't you get an AIM name? Get on it!
Yeah, come on BBB, don't hold out on us...
 

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I'm a high maintenance dude... don't have time for this ;)

I'm installing this sh!t again... I just hate it... but... I'll make the sacrifice...

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Originally posted by Brazilian_Blues_Boy
I'm a high maintenance dude... don't have time for this ;)

I'm installing this sh!t again... I just hate it... but... I'll make the sacrifice...

BBB
Yes, be like the rest of us...join us in our chats!
 

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i think her attitude has more to do with her than it does with you


maybe you did somethin horrible to her that you cannot remember?? ha

id let the girl be, shes seems messed up
 

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All right !!
Knocked the b!tch barrier down last night !!

No more objections, no more short answers... she talks to me normally online and agreed to talk with me personally when classes are back... I even pulled out some C&F successfully...

Seriously guys... be patient... and persistant... with variety... and the world is yours...

Gonna post on that later today...

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Hey BBB, who do you consider a better player/bigger talent:

Ronaldinho right now or Romario during his prime?????
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Spades
Hey BBB, who do you consider a better player/bigger talent:

Ronaldinho right now or Romario during his prime?????
That's a very very hard question... Ronaldo is kicking @ss at Real Madrid now, but, Romario at his prime kicked very serious @ss
So I say Romario in his prime...

And keep your eyes on Ronaldinho Gaucho... he kicks some serious @ss too....

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Ronaldo is the one I meant, I don't know why I typed Ronaldinho. Even though Madrid has the deepest roster in the world right now, he still manages to dominate. Hell, their thrid stringers would start for more than 1/2 of the other teams in Spain.

I loved Gaucho's goal against England last summer, it was 100% by chance but it did look damn great. He totally didn't mean to score a goal there, but he tried to serve it to Rivaldo.

Anyways, he'll get much more attention if (when) he leaves Paris for England/France/Spain.

Oh, and what position do you play???? I play forward for my HS varsity team, and I'm itching for the new season to start so I can score some damn goals.
 
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