Okay I've been hanging out with this girl for a few weeks and on our second date I told her I just wanted to be friends and I'm not looking for a relationship.. and now she won't have sex with me. She keeps saying she can't be with someone she's not with with. I don't really care because I think she's ugly, that's why I told her i wanted to be friends early on because I didn't want her to get attached because I still planned on sarging and ddating other girls. I'm just tryin to get laid, bein a 21 yo virgin is taking a toll on me. In fact when I sarged her I did it as kind of a joke to myself, I was like hey let me sarge this ugly girl. But that doesn't change the fact that my goal right now is to lose my v card. This is crazy she sleeps over but we don't do anything but make out and feel eachother up.
I have 2 questions:
1) What should I do about my situation? Remain friends with her without the benefits? Tell her to f off and sarge girls I actually think are attractive? Any suggestions are welcome..
2) Regardless of my situation, should a DJ ever let a girl know he's seeing other girls or plans on seeing other girls, or should he play the game and let the girl think shes the one and only?
I have 2 questions:
1) What should I do about my situation? Remain friends with her without the benefits? Tell her to f off and sarge girls I actually think are attractive? Any suggestions are welcome..
2) Regardless of my situation, should a DJ ever let a girl know he's seeing other girls or plans on seeing other girls, or should he play the game and let the girl think shes the one and only?