other DJ ruining my life.

sandinista

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Man, i was just starting to feel confindant with myself and getting into the DJ spirit.. then 'HE' came along.

See, where i work a new guy joined 2 weeks ago..

This is guy is just, PERFECT. He's well built, he plays rugby, he can play the guitar and piano (which he has done in the office, and he was amazing on both intruments), i know this sounds gay, but he is a really good looking guy, and has probebly the best sense of style i've ever seen.

It makes me look so inadicet in comparison. I would be OK if he was a jerk, but he's not! he's just so damn like-a-ble.

One of my strengths was my sense of humour, but this guy is VERY funny and has the sharpest witt since oscar wilde (who's visiting this site from beyond the grave from time to time).

All the girls are drooling over him, and it's completly ruined my self asteem. I mean, how can i compete with this guy? I'm not just talking about the girls at work either. It's gotten so bad that even when i'm out and about i almost feel i'm not wrothy of women's time when there's guys like 'HIM' around.
 
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Don't compete. Just be who you are. Use your own strengths and enjoy your own differences. Also why worry about he girls at work since it's not such a good idea to fish off the company pier.
 

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If it makes you feel any better, I will quit..I didnt mean to walk all over your game.
 

Canadianpimpology

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Make friends with this cat...now. Also, stop thinking of him as a competitor. You probably feel simliar to a girl who's best friend is really attractive. In this case, there's really nothing you can do. Just admit when you've been beat, but don't give up. You can still get women. Just relax and stop worrying about everyone but yourself.
 

sux2bu

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
you could kill him
or you could just accept it, become mates with him and sarge when hes not around if it bothers you that much.

btw what does inadicet mean?
Inadicet = *inadequate
 

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When someone more DJ than you comes into your sphere of influence, don't hate them or try to fight/avoid them...LEARN from them.
 

A1SteakSauce

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To sum up the advice here . . . hang with him, absorb the knowledge, steal the lines, etc. . . *then* shoot him.

A1
 

Starman

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dude there are billions of women to go around..stop focusing on one small microscopic place on earth to sarge women.

and its not like he is going to Take ALL the women in the office away..

soon enough people will start seeing his flaws...there is NO PERFECT SOMEBODY..he probably has a 3" c0ck or is gay.
 

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Whenever there was a DJ that moved onto my turf, I would see him as an equal and make friends with him. Iv always loved hanging out with other DJs. We all learn from each other. They build you up. Especially the guy your talking about. He's not out to get your girls. I can tell already. I bet he would make a great friend.

Plus all the girls always love the new guy anyway. They love him till they see his true colors, or the next new DJ comes along.

You have your own brand of humor by the way, and its not like this new guys. Also there are going to woman that are intimidated by this guy. This guy also may not want the same girls that you do.

Always act confident. Like being you. Like being you more then the other guy likes being him. Smile, and be the DJ that you know you are.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by PiHiPlaya
Why are you viewing him as your enemy?

Make friends with this kid!
Combine forces and rule over the henhouse.
 

BobbDobbs

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On any given night, he can only be phuckting one or two of them. The other ones are lonely and waiting ... for you. :)
 

Juan_Man

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I'm sure that if you hang out with this guy long enough, you'll realize that you have strengths in areas that he doesn't. Use it to your advantage.
 

ryoshi

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Look at the facts. He's gay. Don't worry.
 

myfriendblu

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NEVER date females you work with anyways, so whats the big deal. don't worry about him
 

chlywly

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Everyone has something individual to them, peeps got it right, don't compete eventually this guy may wear himself, out you will have and do have tons of chances :) Pay careful attention to him, is he really a DJ? Are you sure? Or is he playing games.

Just be confident, keep going at it, thats the most important thing, he should be least of your concerns.
 
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