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For those that like eating a girl out, I recommend you try edibles(if legal in your state) which will enhance all your senses and really take up your licking and fingering to a new level. Once you become sensitized to all of her areas while high, you know exactly what and where to do things from that point on with any woman, even when you're not high. It was truly eye opening and raised my skill up a couple notches.

I've had girls compliment me that they've never been touched like that, not even by themselves when masturbating.
 

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Foreplay is important, most guys just skip right to penetration and women will reflect on the sex later and remember it more fondly if there was really good foreplay. Foreplay is underrated.
Also yes, bl0wjobs > sex 85% of the time.
 

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Pedastalising? Not when I'm drawing her soul out through her fvckhole it ain't.

If she arches her back you're on the right track. And don't be scared of making it just a little painful.
 

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Foreplay is important, most guys just skip right to penetration and women will reflect on the sex later and remember it more fondly if there was really good foreplay. Foreplay is underrated.
Also yes, bl0wjobs > sex 85% of the time.
Disagree. Most girls I’ve been with have been super horny & want the D in them sooner, rather than later.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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Interesting question. I'm not sure that performing oral sex on a woman is pedestalizing, but I do think there is a submissive aspect to a female giving a bl0wjob.
She is literally kneeling in front of you, ON HER GODDAMN KNEES, trying to give you pleasure and prove to you that she has worth and is a good sexual companion. It doesn’t get more submissive than that.
 

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Do you guys pass on oral sex or is it important to perform oral sex with your partner? Is it pedestalizing women by giving oral sex to them? I prefer not to kiss and perform oral sex because I don't like it and not good at it really. What are your thoughts?
Don't do it if she smells like a fish market.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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I don’t give in to them wanting it right away. I make them wait for a while sometimes. Seems to turn them on even more. There’s a time and place for it though
Good point. But I’m usually mad horny too. I don’t have that much self control.
 

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Once you get intimate with a girl there are two things you can do to really set yourself apart from most guys. Be a great kisser and be great at going down on them. If you check off both of those boxes you will absolutely be invited back for more. I can't stress the importance of being good in both of these areas if you want to succeed with women sexually.
 

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Once you get intimate with a girl there are two things you can do to really set yourself apart from most guys. Be a great kisser and be great at going down on them. If you check off both of those boxes you will absolutely be invited back for more. I can't stress the importance of being good in both of these areas if you want to succeed with women sexually.
Big dvck, nice face & stamina.


I’d rather be celibate than munch carpet.
Fortunately, I don’t have to.
 

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I like going down on a woman, probably as usually get good feedback.

Strangely I'm not into bj's and usually get bored after a couple of mins and move it onto sex. Find the thought, act of a sex a real turn on, whereas bj's really don't get me going at all, find my mind wandering and detracts from the whole vibe/situation by a notch or 2. I'm usually laying there thinking I just want to stick it between your legs and f**k you senseless.

Think I don't like being passive during it all, can feel a bit fidgety when woman is riding on top although at least then seeing her moan, scream, body moving, sweating etc makes up for it.

If I watch porn pretty much always skip past oral scenes.
 
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Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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It kind of depends, you know the most I've ever been turned on ever was not this beautiful woman, she was this butch redhead I had briefly worked with at a mental hospital, she was on intake and one of my clients went nuts, long story, but she told me she was married, wanted to chill, I invited her over.

This broad was wild, she was butch as ****, metal all over her body, piercings, but I would just force myself on her and she gave no resistance to anything at all, I would stare into her blue eyes as I nut in her mouth and she would gargle it, play with it then swallow it, she let me shoot infinite loads in her, I get a bone whenever I think of her, something about her pure and total lack of resistance was almost hypnotic, like I've had women submit but not like that, one time she ate my nut over 10 times in an hour, it got to the point where I was just beating off into her mouth just to watch her do it again.

She never wanted me to give her oral, she just wanted to please me to the fullest extent, been looking for her number for a while now
 

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If I'm honest with myself, it's not so much the pleasure of going down on a gal ... as is is the ego gratification of hearing/seeing her reactions.

If you're good giving 'oral support' ... you can be forgiven for nearly anything.
 

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If I'm honest with myself, it's not so much the pleasure of going down on a gal ... as is is the ego gratification of hearing/seeing her reactions.

If you're good giving 'oral support' ... you can be forgiven for nearly anything.
exactly that! definitely a selfish thing mainly, same with being known as good kisser etc. don;t care too much about them as such, more about liking the feedback, ego etc that derives from them having a good time. plus if they're turned on adds to the whole thing, makes me even more turned on rather than them just laying there appearing like not enjoying themselves
 

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The pvssy is just too close to the cornhole for my liking. Your tongue and lips will occasionally touch the poopcutter by mistake.
At least for her, an erect penis increases the distance between her mouth and the brown-eye.

Salad tossers are a special breed, because deliberately setting out to specifically eat a woman’s anus takes a different type of dude. Cant imagine an alpha like James Bond with his tongue jammed in a woman’s brown starfish.

Ive given and received oral sex over the years, but I will swerve it if i can.
 

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I do it to women I'm very attracted to if there is mutuality and not in the first few dates. I'm good at it and have given some women feelings they have never had before.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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