Opinions Anyone?

[MurdocNiccals]

It's one of THOSE threads...

There's this girl I know, I can't tell whether she's interested in me or not... Idc about a relationship I just want her as a **** buddy...

Well anyway, thing is, she can be really flirtatious with me, she'll go along with what I'm saying usually, we talk about sex now and again (goes along with it if I refer to her as a friend-with-benefits), and she always wants me to take her out, like she asked me to take her to a restaurant, and to a club etc, but I dunno, it's sometimes like she doesn't go with the flow...

Like we'll be talking about her sexual side and all that, and I'll be like "you've yet to show me that side of you" but she'll just say jokingly something like "no because I'm innocent " but I give her the PERFECT opportunity and she responds like that :L

So I said "oh yeah? So what makes you let the naughty side out?" She said "I haven't"... Thing is earlier she was acting like she's some kind of kinky slut even though I know from all of her best friends (one of her best friends I have a TIGHT friendship with) she's a virgin... She has a GIGANTIC anti-slut defense, but I've made sure she knows I wouldn't think she's a slut or tell anybody about anything.

Whaddya think?

Thanks for your answers!

P.S. she wants to stay at mine overnight but I think she would bring one of her girlfriends, though I could probably ask her to come alone.

 

[S. Pryor]

What are one of "THOSE" threads? I think every thread has some validity to it and is worth responding. Right away this woman is an attention ***** stroking everything (your ego) but your ****. She's doing all this sex talk but she needs to put up or shut up. Until she does that then she's not talking about ANYTHING. I would say to pull a David X and say "you know I don't like to talk about sex unless I'm having it" but it might not work now since you've entertained this womans bull**** for far too long. It's worth a shot tho. And this one woman is suffering from a bad case of BBS. Broke ***** Syndrome. Where does she get off demanding YOU take HER anywhere? What else would she ask you for if you comply with her outlandish ass request? If you asked her to come to your place and she says can I bring a friend then she has a dude. It's a way to say to the guy that she was out with a FRIEND instead of just being out with you. Tell this chick to step to the side or be a real woman about hers.

 

[ARrocket]

Your problem is a lack of action. You TALK about sex. You TALK about being naughty. Stop talking. Start doing. I don't think you've read enough posts on this forum. Read the DJ Bible, read the Book of Pook, read, read, read. Because you are CLUELESS.

You're boring her. You need to isolate her, and then start escalating. And you need to do it soon. Otherwise, the friend zone awaits :nono:

 

[MurdocNiccals]

Your problem is a lack of action. You TALK about sex. You TALK about being naughty. Stop talking. Start doing. I don't think you've read enough posts on this forum. Read the DJ Bible, read the Book of Pook, read, read, read. Because you are CLUELESS.

You're boring her. You need to isolate her, and then start escalating. And you need to do it soon. Otherwise, the friend zone awaits :nono:

LOL I've read those things about... 5 years ago

I don't think the friendzone awaits because we don't act friend-ish enough to each other. More like her giving up on me and screwing some other guy awaits.

However you are also totally right, it is time to start doing... I think really I flirt too much without being explicit enough about having serious sexual attraction towards her...

 

[S. Pryor]

Listen to this playa:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dPF3_KPgbvE

 

[L B]

It's one of THOSE threads...

P.S. she wants to stay at mine overnight but I think she would bring one of her girlfriends, though I could probably ask her to come alone.

I don't know what this thread's about. All I see is the P.S.

Tell her to bring the girl friend over. You're all set for a good time.

 

[MurdocNiccals]

Thanks for the replies guys, but it's all good now...

I won't go into details because I'd have to explain the whole conversation we had and things that were mentioned earlier etc, but I'll lift it up from here over IM:

Her: >.> Anything else I can do for you?
Me: Maybe, but not in public
Her: you little flirt! ahaha
Me: lol xD
Her: Cook me dinner then
Me: Dinner? Lol so if I cook you dinner then you will do the things I want?
Her: Depends on how good dinner is
Me: Sounds like a good deal to me I'm a good cook

And then I basically got her to come to mine around Christmas time.

 

[MurdocNiccals]

I don't know what this thread's about. All I see is the P.S.

Tell her to bring the girl friend over. You're all set for a good time.

Sounds good, but her girl friend is my best friends gf. We were FWBs before he went out with her, I actually told him to ask her to go out with him (moral, but stupid in the I-****ed-myself-over sense), but I wouldn't do that to him, I won't go near her 'til they split.