Debriefing
On Saturday 09, December 2006. OMR finally got the chance to engaged and try and number close HSS. The location she works in is very slow so OMR entered into a mundane conversation about Xmas, shopping, and the cute baby Northface coat she just bought.
Here's the attempt at the number close.
[/b]OMR: Well, I have to get going now. Can I call you?
This is a rookie mistake and OMR knows better. Instead of TELLINGthe HSS to give me her contact information, OMR ASKED the HSS for contact information. OMR but himself in a supplicant role momentarily giving the HSS control of the sitution.
HSS: HUH???? bad sign
OMR: Can I call you?
HSS: Why?
Right here OMR knows he's dead and he's not going to number close. Though OMR has been shot down, he continues with the conversation.
OMR: So I can speak to you on the phone.
Another rookie mistake. Instead of this rather weak and lame response, something ****y and funny would've been appropriate.
HSS: Do you know how old I am?
OMR: Your 18.
HSS: No I'm 17. I just turned 17 last month.
OMR is stunned. OMR could've sworned that when the HSS told OMR her age, that she specifically said 17. If OMR would've knew that she was 16 going 17, OMR would've never established contact and attempt to engage due to legalities. OMR feels that it's mendacity on the part of the HSS to extricated herself from the sitution and elimate any chances from OMR to proceed.
OMR: That's okay, I'll just put you on an 11 month plan.
HSS: Laughs That's ok. Besides, I'm kinda like talking to someone.
Mistakes: OMR failed to establish enough rapport with HSS. Those she was friendly and responsive to OMR, OMR failed to connect with the HSS. OMR also didn't engage in any Kino and OMR failed to make himself an object of interest and desire. OMR also didn't demonstrate any value.
The fact that HSS is "talking to someone," isn't revelent. It implies that she likes somebody, amybe has had sex with this individual and she waiting on him to make it "official." OMR questions the existence of anothe party simply because the HSS never mentioned him before.
Summary: Those the mission failed, and OMR felt uneasy and embarrassed at being shot down. All and all it was a good experience. OMR clearly has to shake the rust off and pefect his number closing game. In six OMR hopes that out of 20 approaches, 10 have correct contact information and out of those 10, 5 are conquered.
Thoughts and opinions are greatly appreciated.
Mission Results: MISSION FAILED