Mike32ct
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This wasn't directed to me, but I just wanted to jump in because it's interesting.The OP is gone so this looks like a hit and run thread. I'm taking over to fill in some blanks.
Does making a girl laugh really mean attraction, or are you making yourself to be a dancing monkey or clown? If you go on Don Juan Tips there is this thread here:
https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/shock-and-awe-the-apocalypse-opener.137824/
It was recently bumped up with a poster named "YourGreatestFear", and it seems like he's saying that you are more likely to get rejected if you keep dancing around rather than go direct:
SHOCK and AWE: The Apocalypse Opener
Does anyone know someone where this actually worked and it not been a case of fool's mate? I haven't and I'm on most of the community forums and in the 2 largest lairs in the US. Just out of curiosity, Can you please tell me where the two largest American lairs are located?www.sosuave.net
What are your thoughts about this thread and in particular that post?
First, I would say that the apocalypse opener has nothing to do with humor. It's meant to be delivered deadpan serious*.
But back to you other excellent question... Does humor attract a girl or just make the guy a dancing monkey?
First, we have to eliminate the "attraction giggles" piece. If Chad/Chadlite approaches and she giggles at everything he says (even when he's not even trying to be funny), that's another matter. That's a not a humor/comedy skill. He might still be a legitimately funny guy, but we can't separate that from his looks. His buddies (who don't know any better and just observe) will probably say that, "Chad gets all these girls because he's a funny MF-er lol."
Ok, all that aside, let's take an average (or less) looking guy who does have a good sense of humor. I'm still not sure if his humor will actually ATTRACT women. They will enjoy his company. It will certainly reduce or eliminate any risk of him being perceived as "creepy." So it's generally a very good thing. But I fear that he just provides cheap, free entertainment. When the humor dies down (which is has to eventually), the conversation and the attention on him will die down too. Then, she will shift her attention to a more serious/sultry hotter guy.
INB4 someone tells me about the funny fat dude who gets laid a lot lol. I would argue that it's his physical dominance that is attracting the women. The humor is just disarming and icing on the cake. While the humor is an important part of his "game," they aren't F-ing him because he's funny per se. Put the same humor on a skinny, short guy will no muscles and see how it goes.
*In fact, I would argue that many ONS pickups happen with a serious/businesslike tone, not via "giggle your way into her panties." But that's another topic.
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