Opening coversations!

[terminator911]

Tip #1 - Work out a personal "opening line" and try it with endless
variations. Some men need the support, the crutch, of a definite "line" in
approaching and winning a woman. If you do, give a good deal of thought to
this while you're working, reading, traveling. Formulate a number of
possibly effective opening lines in your mind and then sit down with a
pencil and paper and write them down. Practice them out loud before a
mirror until you get just the phraseology which sounds most natural,
smooth, spontaneous and attractive.

Practice delivering it in private aloud until you can use it as if it has
just occurred to you in response to this particular woman. Go out and
practice it, but with the freedom and confidence to vary it imaginatively
to fit every new situation and woman.

Here's a few great opening lines to use when you run across a single woman
you would like to meet:

Bars and nightclubs - "Do you want to dance?" If she says no, whatever you
do, don't just walk away. Follow up with, "If you don't want to dance, do
you mind if I join you for some conversation?"

Nightclubs with "live" music - "What do you think of the band?"

Restaurants - "This is my first time here. What's good on the menu?"
Another one you could use is, "Would you like to go have a drink after
dinner?"

Beaches - "Would you like to play some Frisbee?" or "I'm going to the
store, can I bring you back anything?"

Supermarkets - "Excuse me, which steak looks better to you?" or "How do you
tell which one of these cantaloupes is ripe?"

Laundromats - "Would you like to go have a cup of coffee while we're
waiting for our clothes?" or "Could you tell me if I should wash these
clothes in hot or cold water?"

Tip #2 - Pick out a successful Don Juan in your crowd and study his style.
Don't ask him questions. He probably doesn't know himself how he does it.
But try to go on "woman-hunting expeditions" with him. Go to dances,
parties, the beach, with him. Try to arrange some double dates together.
Take advantage of every opportunity to watch him in action and study
intensively, remember, rehearse in your own mind, every line and gesture in
his technique with single women.

This article contributed by Don Diebel. If you would like more dating tips
on how to meet, attract, and seduce women, visit: http://www.getgirls.com

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"Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y."

 

[krakhed]

Here's an opening line that some woman in my building used on me about twenty minutes ago when I was on my way back from lunch.

I was walking in from the parking lot and into the lobby and she comes tearing in after me with this big smile on her face. So I hold the vator for her. She says "Hello." and I say "How are you?" And she says "It's so nice out. Are those good?" and she's pointing to my bottle of Snapple Rain. And then I tell her how much I like it and then, what do you know, we're already into a conversation.
"I'm Britney Brunette."
"Pleased to meet you, I'm Krak Theodore Hed."
It's that easy.

The approach and pickup has never been my problem. I'm all about the self-destruction later on.

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In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey.

 

[Anti-Dump]

Great post Terminator911!

Everyone should add this to their Don Juan list of weapons.

AD

 

[wutang180]

Originally posted by terminator911:
Here's a few great opening lines to use when you run across a single woman
you would like to meet:

Bars and nightclubs - "Do you want to dance?" If she says no, whatever you
do, don't just walk away. Follow up with, "If you don't want to dance, do
you mind if I join you for some conversation

Seriously if the lady doesn't want to dance with u, do u really thinkthat she would be interested to converse with u. huh? I would understand if she was one legged and u asked her to dance and she said "no"

. but if a women rejects u and tells u that she doesn't want to dance with u ,their is no way in hell that she would want t start a conversation with u period. and please stop using the lay guide techniques.

 

[Drow]

bump

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by terminator911:
Tip #1 - Work out a personal "opening line" and try it with endless
variations. Some men need the support, the crutch, of a definite "line" in
approaching and winning a woman. If you do, give a good deal of thought to
this while you're working, reading, traveling. Formulate a number of
possibly effective opening lines in your mind and then sit down with a
pencil and paper and write them down. Practice them out loud before a
mirror until you get just the phraseology which sounds most natural,
smooth, spontaneous and attractive.

Practice delivering it in private aloud until you can use it as if it has
just occurred to you in response to this particular woman. Go out and
practice it, but with the freedom and confidence to vary it imaginatively
to fit every new situation and woman.

It's funny you mention this t911, because I have a whole page full of humourous and entertaining lines that I use when I go out to clubs. If I find a good one that works, I write it down on the page and remember it. By studying these opening lines before I go out, it makes approaching way easier because I always have stuff to fall back on if I can't think of anything to say.

 

[carbani]

*BUMP*

 

[CaliforniaKing]

Originally posted by terminator911
Beaches - "I'm going to the
store, can I bring you back anything?"

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"Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y."

Try to avoid this line. You'll look like a servant.