Short term relationships destroy women...
modern women are dead inside
We both perceive that women are more suited towards monogamous relationships. I was stating Caleb Jones' idea that women are more suited to monogamy but in a shorter setting. Women are the ones who tend to end longer relationships that have resulted in marriage. Women file for divorce most of the time. Women are often filing for divorce because they are bored of the current situation, which would indicate a tendency towards shorter term monogamy. I have not seen statistics about whether men or women end non-marital relationships more often. I would think it would be women as well due to thirst among betas.
The median length of a marriage ending in divorce in the United States is 7 years. If you factor in pre-marital relationship time, you're typically looking at a 10 year long relationship failing. If a marital relationship officially fails at 10 years, it was likely dead 2-3 years before the actual divorce filing. A lot of relationships, even bad ones, last longer than one would logically think they would last.
The only time I've seen 'open' relationships sort of work is when you have a married couple that are just basically roommates with ZERO romantic interest anymore... they have children off at college, or no kids, and getting divorced that late in life is just stupid. They have separate bedrooms and their own lives.
The key is that the 'couple' no longer have any romantic interest in each other. I have a couple of friends that are like this.... they pretty much just hook up with other 'couples' that are like them.
I think this idea makes sense.
Do you think married couples with children still under 18 who are roommates with ZERO romantic interest anymore would stay married but in an open marriage solely to keep the household together until the kids turn 18? I think it can happen but I think in that situation, the more common occurrence is divorce. Children under 18 who experience a divorce experience trauma. However, it isn't healthy for children under 18 to see their parents drifting through a loveless partnership and possibly having sex with extramarital partners.
At what point is a divorce "too late in life"?