CuddleJunkie
Master Don Juan
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Not only I put up with it, I encourage it. I have 0 respect, I have 0 empathy for a cuck. Cuckshaming will save the West (not really, it's already doomed lol).
Open marriage struggle ...
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mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
At least he's not a pure cuck in that he gets no affections from his wife while she chases other c0ck. To level this situation out, he can phuck someone equally out of bounds so she will feel the same way, then they can decide to close this "open" door for the good unless it's an emergency, like one of them have a stroke and can't phuck.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Sometimes with the way the world is, his relationship setup IS a good setup. As long as you maintain your SMV most females don't want their man banging a whole bunch of females, so it keeps the parity, kinda like the US and Soviets with Nukes.
What is worse is men being cucks against their will, becoming fat, loyal and loving providers to ladies who show them no love. Many of these females act like they don't like sex, and might being pounded out by men who wouldn't nor couldn't even lift a finger to help her other than offering some free sex.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear All,
This Man has pushed the Boundaries of his svexuality to the edge and it has back fired on him...He has my pity...He asked for help,not to have you Guys be his self appointed Judge,Jury and executioner...He is far closer than most of you to our esteemed if legendary namesake Don Juan who I wouldn't suggest ever submit himself and his lifestyle to this Kangaroo Court!
This Man has pushed the Boundaries of his svexuality to the edge and it has back fired on him...He has my pity...He asked for help,not to have you Guys be his self appointed Judge,Jury and executioner...He is far closer than most of you to our esteemed if legendary namesake Don Juan who I wouldn't suggest ever submit himself and his lifestyle to this Kangaroo Court!
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Tictac
Banned
Not like I've seen a ton of 'open' marriages or even relationships. But I've never known a single one that worked.
Those I've seen, sooner rather than later, came to mean one person was in a relationship and the other wasn't and pretending just didn't cut it.
Those I've seen, sooner rather than later, came to mean one person was in a relationship and the other wasn't and pretending just didn't cut it.
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not really, a real don juan wouldn't be married, he wouldn't care about woman ****ing others(she would want only him), and he let his care for this woman be over his head.
from what I notice of this whole thing is his wife wanted to **** him in a way she never did before, she was aware who he was, was aware on what that would mean for him on his job. but even so she opened her legs to him, rules or no rules, open marriage or not, you know very well you don't deal with people who hate your partner,.
waht did happen here is on forum is, most don't like the open marriage idea, no gain for the guy, most open marriage have the rule of they are always together, because for some reason they find hot seeing the one they "love" ****!ng another person, and most cases its the female who own the relationship and he is just a thing to be used by her.
on the op, he get what he asked for, if he want to get even or so, best way is find a mistress and start to diverge some resources to her, serious go for sugar daddy way, that is the only way I can see he pissing his wife off, stop spending his resources on her and find another girl to do so.
because lets get real here? he wouldn't have the balls of bait her on this open **** again, get proves of her cheating on him then use that on court, and when asked you 2 wasn't in a open relationship? he would deny, test his kids to make sure he is the dad, then drop her ass together with any kid is not his and life his live without being a cuckhold.
I can't judge the OP for his lifestyle choice, it's his life.
It reminds me of a jellybean experiment.
I have a guest in my office and on my desk is a large jar of jellybeans. I excuse myself from the meeting and tell the guest to help himself to the jellybeans.....but don't eat the green ones.
My guest will do one of 4 things:
1. Leave the jellybeans alone.
2. Eat some jellybeans and leave the green ones alone.
3. Eat whatever he wants, disregarding my like of the green jellybeans.
4. Swishing the green jellybeans in his mouth and spitting them back in the jar.
I don't really know what we're dealing with, but it's kind of funny to think your coworker just spit your green jellybeans back in the jar.
Like I said......no judgements from me, but sometimes it's better to know what you're getting into before you share your jar of jellybeans.
It reminds me of a jellybean experiment.
I have a guest in my office and on my desk is a large jar of jellybeans. I excuse myself from the meeting and tell the guest to help himself to the jellybeans.....but don't eat the green ones.
My guest will do one of 4 things:
1. Leave the jellybeans alone.
2. Eat some jellybeans and leave the green ones alone.
3. Eat whatever he wants, disregarding my like of the green jellybeans.
4. Swishing the green jellybeans in his mouth and spitting them back in the jar.
I don't really know what we're dealing with, but it's kind of funny to think your coworker just spit your green jellybeans back in the jar.
Like I said......no judgements from me, but sometimes it's better to know what you're getting into before you share your jar of jellybeans.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear All,
open relationships are not for the weak,but they can and sometimes do succeed...As an example The Belgian author George Simenon...was as far as I have read,happily married though living in a Menage A Troix...Claimed to have slept with 10.000 Women,his wife thought this a wildly exaggerated estimate suggesting 3.500 LOL.... well considering our own Altar Ego Don Juan bedded just 640 that's not too bad!....Having been a Lecturer and moving on several Dancing Scenes I probably have more acquaintances than most,probably about 120 people..... of these I know of three completely Open Relationships.... both of these have survived a long time with Children happily raised and all turning out fine young people...True in two cases the driving force was the dominant Male,but in one it seemed both parties were equally involved... all quite remarkable people.....The relationships have survived variously circ.35,25 and 12 years...So based on my experience,it seems about 2.5% of people are in Open Relationships,but it would definitely be higher as people can be very discreet about such things...certainly 3%...In Honesty I cannot say I know of any open relationships destroying marriages,though I am sure they do.
Platinum God is unique in my experience in having an open relationship dominated by the Female partner...I find this interesting...Her seemingly outright malice in bedding his business adversary could be quite complex,maybe she is saying,well Platinum he gives you big time headaches,but is putty in my hands... I had a similar experience,which I regret now,in which I seduced and humbled the Wife of a Boss from Hell.....So because you see the Rooster standing alongside the egg,best not jump to conclusions!
open relationships are not for the weak,but they can and sometimes do succeed...As an example The Belgian author George Simenon...was as far as I have read,happily married though living in a Menage A Troix...Claimed to have slept with 10.000 Women,his wife thought this a wildly exaggerated estimate suggesting 3.500 LOL.... well considering our own Altar Ego Don Juan bedded just 640 that's not too bad!....Having been a Lecturer and moving on several Dancing Scenes I probably have more acquaintances than most,probably about 120 people..... of these I know of three completely Open Relationships.... both of these have survived a long time with Children happily raised and all turning out fine young people...True in two cases the driving force was the dominant Male,but in one it seemed both parties were equally involved... all quite remarkable people.....The relationships have survived variously circ.35,25 and 12 years...So based on my experience,it seems about 2.5% of people are in Open Relationships,but it would definitely be higher as people can be very discreet about such things...certainly 3%...In Honesty I cannot say I know of any open relationships destroying marriages,though I am sure they do.
Platinum God is unique in my experience in having an open relationship dominated by the Female partner...I find this interesting...Her seemingly outright malice in bedding his business adversary could be quite complex,maybe she is saying,well Platinum he gives you big time headaches,but is putty in my hands... I had a similar experience,which I regret now,in which I seduced and humbled the Wife of a Boss from Hell.....So because you see the Rooster standing alongside the egg,best not jump to conclusions!
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
But, you did it for revenge.... what was HER motive? That's the part that worries me....
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear Sodbuster,
It's a wise Man that understands the mind of any Woman...This Guy was different,I would have liked to find out more about this novel life style he and his Brunhilde enjoy...After being crapped on from a great height I would imagine we shall never hear from him again....Pity...My own thoughts include the idea that she was actually still playing to her husband,building credit in his eyes...I think their relationship is a good deal more substantial than others seem to believe...Of course our chances of finding out more are blown now...Stupid!...Anyway I am going Bush for the next five Days.
It's a wise Man that understands the mind of any Woman...This Guy was different,I would have liked to find out more about this novel life style he and his Brunhilde enjoy...After being crapped on from a great height I would imagine we shall never hear from him again....Pity...My own thoughts include the idea that she was actually still playing to her husband,building credit in his eyes...I think their relationship is a good deal more substantial than others seem to believe...Of course our chances of finding out more are blown now...Stupid!...Anyway I am going Bush for the next five Days.
LiveFreeX
Banned
The situation is f*cked all around, as others have pointed out. You shouldn't have agreed to this to begin with. But with that said, she took it too far and majorly disrespected you. I'm guessing she knew full well that you didn't like this guy. She basically f*cked your nemesis. That's like disrespect of epic proportions.
What's worse is she didn't take the problem seriously. She was blushing when you confronted her about it. Not only did she cross the line, but she doesn't seem to care. Your marriage is done IMO. Put a fork in it. Get a DNA test and verify the kids are yours.
What's worse is she didn't take the problem seriously. She was blushing when you confronted her about it. Not only did she cross the line, but she doesn't seem to care. Your marriage is done IMO. Put a fork in it. Get a DNA test and verify the kids are yours.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It's all comedy to her. I'm not sure how this can help you unless you are cool with being part of a comedy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Disrespect
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
This has got to be a troll post. I'm honestly not sure though...seems like it could be legit. If anyone has ever gotten bored at work and surfed around the web to all the different crazy forums, yes, there's even forums for guys who actually like having their wives get f*cked by other men.
This woman has run the relationship since the beginning, period. It's a damn shame that if legit, and they have kids because of it now, that the OP is in this position. Literally the only way I see for the OP to try and regain some self-respect is to immediately terminate the marriage and break away from this woman forever. There is no reconciling, and there never should be some sort of hope of it happening. OP's will NEVER regain frame as a man should be able to because at any point in the future he will be seen as a guy who allowed his woman to be used as some other man's playtoy. Perhaps the worst part of this is if his kids ever learn the real truth behind all of this when they are older, how in the hell do you maintain their respect?
This woman has run the relationship since the beginning, period. It's a damn shame that if legit, and they have kids because of it now, that the OP is in this position. Literally the only way I see for the OP to try and regain some self-respect is to immediately terminate the marriage and break away from this woman forever. There is no reconciling, and there never should be some sort of hope of it happening. OP's will NEVER regain frame as a man should be able to because at any point in the future he will be seen as a guy who allowed his woman to be used as some other man's playtoy. Perhaps the worst part of this is if his kids ever learn the real truth behind all of this when they are older, how in the hell do you maintain their respect?
I think a lot of it boils down to who initiated the open marriage. If it was her, then this was flat out contempt. If it was the OP then this is her way of closing the open marriage.
I think he is more pissed that he lost the power play going on in the office. Also opens the question of who the douch really is.
Power moves are easy and often infantile.
There's one move left that would more than likely end the other guys career and bag you a pot of money.
I think he is more pissed that he lost the power play going on in the office. Also opens the question of who the douch really is.
Power moves are easy and often infantile.
There's one move left that would more than likely end the other guys career and bag you a pot of money.