Only average or below average looking girls are attracted to me it seems like?

[Red Legg]

-Keep your living space neat.

I have always had women comment on how neat and tidy my place is and my car.(there must be a lot of slobs out there),the Army taught me how to be "dress right dress" I hate slobs...I dated a very pretty woman once BUT her car was always dirty she must have had 50 empty McDonald's bags in her car,then I realized she didn't brush her teeth either. (total turnoff)

 

[Ryan Adams]

ok I've attracted multiple 300 lb females before does that mean I'm at the same level of attractiveness then they are? haha no I dont think so. I think finding my bucket is a true statement. the area I live in isnt really well suited for the type of personality style that i am to pick up the hotter chicks.... otherwise I know I am an attractive guy with a good personality. not perfect but definitly good looking to pull the hotter chicks.

 

[Ryan Adams]

Some products are valuable to the whole market. Some products have only niche appeal and need to be marketed to specific segments. This comes down to knowing what strengths you have. So you said you have country boy style and live in a rural area. So if you're an outdoorsy type find outdoorsy chicks. EG look for hiking groups with good ratios.

I'm into asian chicks. After decades putting up with their s*** I can't cope with Western princesses anymore. So I belong to badminton groups where I find Asian chicks who are sporty. Asians love food and cooking. So I hit on them in the Asian grocery stores. I'm good at online dating and I've learnt to write a profile that the Asian girls love.

So there you go by applying my strengths to my market and looking for places that have plenty of girls I'm fishing in a bucket.

Most guys are stupid and do exactly the opposite. They go to a bar which is a c0ck Forest and then they come here whinging that they got AMOGed and all the girls were b1tches who thought their pvssy was made of gold.

Now I'm being kind here spelling this out as I'm assuming you're young because you seem to have a desire to be spoon-fed which is not the way of a man.

As important as advice is practice. So go find your bucket and then target hb7 s and above. Get some experience then come back here and research your sticking point s. And I mean research not sit to there with your beak open waiting to be fed. You re really not showing any signs of having read the DJ Bible which is kind of the price of entry here.

I'm 27 is that considered young? and how do I want to be spoonfed? this is an open forum and im asking questions on what should I do to get more chicks based on my apperance. pretty sure that's normal?

 

[Urbanyst]

ok I've attracted multiple 300 lb females before does that mean I'm at the same level of attractiveness then they are? haha no I dont think so. I think finding my bucket is a true statement. the area I live in isnt really well suited for the type of personality style that i am to pick up the hotter chicks.... otherwise I know I am an attractive guy with a good personality. not perfect but definitly good looking to pull the hotter chicks.

Location matters bro.

I'm telling you.. the major cities on the east coast often snub blue collar men. If you operate the forklift at Home Depot, you won't have loads of options. These women want to be able to brag about what their boyfriend does for a living. In the DC area.. one of the first questions women ask you is "So what do you do?" But you probably know this already.

Look at LA for example. The hottest women are all chasing famous men. They aren't f*cking with an average guy that's just "cute". Not if they're a 9-10.

 

[resilient]

In the DC area.. one of the first questions women ask you is "So what do you do?" [w0manese for what's your nest earning potential?] But you probably know this already.

If you answer "student" or "career in transition" they high tail it out of set because she knows it could be 2-5 years before the income is back on top and financial security improves if successful. By then, she loses precious time on the biological clock. That's too risky to invest in a man who has potential but hasn't has proven it yet.

Look at LA for example. The hottest women are all chasing famous men. They aren't f*cking with an average guy that's just "cute". Not if they're a 9-10.

They also do their homework on social media to see how his clout is... Social status, assets, how hot the ex is (if he kept a photo up) etc.

 

[ubercat]

Yep you're young. Because when challenged u immediately get defensive. Normal sure. As u want better chicks I assumed u were willing to do the work to be better than normal. Which actually involves challenging yourself and your own ideas. I have to challenge my own assumptions and Prejudices all the time. Not easy but that is a man's way.

As G1000 would say you have to be like water. Every fixed opinion and assumption is a potential weakness.

As you said this is an open forum. However you might have noticed there are very experienced posters here and no I'm not talking about myself and there is a search function.

Regarding the spoon feeding comment. What ideas have you thought of. And how are you going to test them out? For example if you think your location really is a problem. You could easily put up an online dating profile in another city and see who responds. All I'm saying is if you come to the forum with specific sticking points on stuff you ve tried you'll get better advice and you ll progress faster. Anyway timebox exceeded good luck in your hunting.

 

[Fruitbat]

As a white collar dude, a guy who lost out constantly to meatheads who worked in construction in my 20s.....it's very pleasing that years and years of effort in the career are finally paying off in 30s.

I found the opposite when I was young - chicks here, younger chicks, like men with physical, masculine jobs like cars and heavy work.

I'm finding foreign chicks are the opposite, they tend to like professional men. It's not about money either, here, you can earn good money in physical jobs. Tradesmen (think the yanks call them contractors) if successful, can earn similar to me, but women seem to go off them as they get older, but love them when they're young.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I hate to say it but there seems today an inverse proportion at work between a women's hotness and her charm. Spoilt by social media perhaps?

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

I've had luck with 5s but wanna step it up to start pulling actually cute and hot chicks not just run of the mill average looking woman. I'm a pretty good looking guy have decent style stay in shape from what ive been told im funny etc. But it seems all i pull are average looking females. Is it because I'm just an average looking guy or I mean how do I step it up?

This might be a good thing... if you are not into drama and eternally chasing the golden fleece.

 

[SuckItUp]

I hate to say it but there seems today an inverse proportion at work between a women's hotness and her charm. Spoilt by social media perhaps?

Because woman don't have to work to have lots of options. It's only when she's challenging herself that she needs to have great game with the natural alphas.

 

[exhausted]

I live in the suburbs of the washginton dc area. im 5'10 and stocky about 205 well muscled not ripped or fat but strong and athletic looking. I have a beard. I workout alot. my jawline is ok im not a model but im pretty attractive across the board. I dont make crazy money no. I am blue collar and look the part. I've been called a country boy (im originally from sc) but constantly only get attention from average looking woman.

Change how you dress.
Wear dark jeans with good boots (red wings) and a button up shirt, not a flanel, and ooze a better styled casual look. Women are attracted to style. Work blue collar dont lol blue collar.

 

[wifehunter]

Just hold out for a good one...

Most good looking women have scads of orbiters. You'll be waiting in line, if you don't let women chase you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Location matters bro.

I'm telling you.. the major cities on the east coast often snub blue collar men. If you operate the forklift at Home Depot, you won't have loads of options. These women want to be able to brag about what their boyfriend does for a living. In the DC area.. one of the first questions women ask you is "So what do you do?" But you probably know this already.

Look at LA for example. The hottest women are all chasing famous men. They aren't f*cking with an average guy that's just "cute". Not if they're a 9-10.

They'll use a non famous guy for an orbiter or a handiman or a friend.

 

[Ryan Adams]

all great advice fellas. I appreciate it. Im going to go out tonight dressed up a bit better then usually and approach see how the 7-10 respond to me when i dress up nicer and see how it goes. I'll come back here and tell you fellas how it went. the 9-10s are so much more drama and are more materialistic yes but for the sake of my own I want to get with one for ego purposes and its a challange. to date one absolutly not....