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Only a true DJ could have the answer to this question...

Jester

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If you truely have the answer to the following question, you are a real DJ without question. Only because to know the answer, you would have to have the quality.


What is it that gives a DJ his power and influence in any given situation?

What is it that seperates DJs from the rest of the male population? Even the up and coming DJs?

If you actually have obtained lets just call it DJ Nirvana, you can tell me the answer to these questions(its the same thing).
 

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Originally posted by Jester

What is it that gives a DJ his power and influence in any given situation?

What is it that seperates DJs from the rest of the male population? Even the up and coming DJs? [/B]
1.) Control and appealment to subject's sensibilities.

2.) Knowledge of what we are doing in complete, defined terms, and ability to manipulate those items to our liking by defining, understanding, isolating, and manipulating the specific parts of the problem. You can call it control.
 

AC/DC

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Originally posted by Jester
nice! do you have aim?
**** yeah man, you talk to me all the time!!!

ITS WUWD BABY!

AIM: HangTen3000
 

PiHiPlaya

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Originally posted by Jester

What is it that gives a DJ his power and influence in any given situation?

What is it that seperates DJs from the rest of the male population? Even the up and coming DJs?

If you actually have obtained lets just call it DJ Nirvana, you can tell me the answer to these questions(its the same thing).
1. His Charisma, Confidence, and Self Assuredness... he know's he is right, other people sense that.

2. Expierience, more things are natural to a DJ. He is fine with everything, C+F is a part of him, he neg hits with ease (and it rarely backfires) This gives him confidence... which makes people look up to him. That gives him even more confidence.
 

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Originally posted by Jester
What is it that gives a DJ his power and influence in any given situation?


Complete self control and if dealing with people, well-achieved social skills.

Originally posted by Jester
What is it that seperates DJs from the rest of the male population? Even the up and coming DJs?
An understanding of human behavior, learned efficiency, as well as acknowledged goals and the knowledge of how to efficiently achieve them.
 

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Originally posted by Jester


What is it that gives a DJ his power and influence in any given situation?

What is it that seperates DJs from the rest of the male population? Even the up and coming DJs?

id say its knowing who he is. when a man knows who he is, he is confindent, self-assured and comfortable with who he is.

when he knows who he is he is and has become the person that he has wanted to be.

im nice and drunk right now but ive felt this way for a while
 

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1. Self-confidence.

2.Self-confidence.

BONUS QUESTION :3.Jello.
 

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1 - Knowledge of human nature, specifically the human EGO. How, when and why to appease it and/or mistreat it.

2 - The feeling of serenity that comes along our knowledge. The understandment of how things work and why certain events happen instead of calling it just "luck", fate or coincidence.
And the ability to manipulate and influence the "factors" that make things happen, making them more favorable to our desires.

BBB
 

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First... I'm glad a lot of the veterans decided to take the time out to answer Jester's rather interesting question (hell... it even dug me out of the woodworks). Anyway... unto the question.

1. The understanding of human nature and human dynamics. Not only the understanding, but also the ability to manipulate human nature and those dynamics to benefit his own life.

2. Almost too many things to name... but here are some: Confidence, knowledge, and one that I think is very important, but people always seem to leave it out... self-control. There are many other factors that place us ahead of the learning curve... having the motivation to continue to improve ourselves... and the want... the simple want to want it more than a lot of other people... these things are what seperate us in my opinion.

Great question Jester...

The Matrix: Revolution
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
1.) Control and appealment to subject's sensibilities.

2.) Knowledge of what we are doing in complete, defined terms, and ability to manipulate those items to our liking by defining, understanding, isolating, and manipulating the specific parts of the problem. You can call it control.

Brilliant.
 

AC/DC

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Originally posted by Ronny_Neumonic II
Brilliant.
I do my best.

Also, I've noticed the newer people said "confidence" and "charisma" and such.

Does confidence dictate to you how to be a great conversationalist?

Repeat it with me: hell no.

You can the the most confident guy in the world, but being confident simply isn't enough. You need to have what I said in my first reply to this post.
 

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Originally posted by THA REALNESS
1. Self-confidence.

2.Self-confidence.

BONUS QUESTION :3.Jello.
hahaha, SH|T, i put jellY for number 3 *cries*


I think I like his response the best. Short and sweet. :)


All the guys htat typed out like paragraph answers are taking this too far. All those things are like effects of being a DJ. just knowing those things wont make you get off your ass and go do it.


I would like to intigrade Pooks and Lorenzo's arguement into the following:


I think mindset is the foundation of the Dj mindset. The walls/roof are techniques/etc.

Sometimes however you have to know the specifics of the walls/roof before you can create a fitting foundation.
 

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Originally posted by oreo_renegade
hahaha, SH|T, i put jellY for number 3 *cries*


I think I like his response the best. Short and sweet. :)


All the guys htat typed out like paragraph answers are taking this too far. All those things are like effects of being a DJ. just knowing those things wont make you get off your ass and go do it.


I would like to intigrade Pooks and Lorenzo's arguement into the following:


I think mindset is the foundation of the Dj mindset. The walls/roof are techniques/etc.

Sometimes however you have to know the specifics of the walls/roof before you can create a fitting foundation.
i was just about to write what ac/dc (i miss calling him wuwd) did, because he is correct in that confidence not not change reality and ability.
 

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Personally I thought the answer to both questions was simply confidence.

Confidence in self.
 

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Originally posted by The Matrix: Reloaded

1. The understanding of human nature and human dynamics. Not only the understanding, but also the ability to manipulate human nature and those dynamics to benefit his own life.


Without confidence, all this is still nothing.
 

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^^^ Smooth... the understanding of such things is what aids in the creation of a large amount of confidence... so yes, without confidence such things are useless... but knowledge of such things is what breeds confidence. I understand why you and Oreo would basically state that confidence is everything (which for the most part is very correct) but we must remember that confidence cannot be found in stores or taken from a random box... like a house, it must be built. The various things that many of us responded to Jester's question with are the very things that build that confidence.

The Matrix: Revolution™
 

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Like you said...

Originally posted by Jester
What is it that gives a DJ his power and influence in any given situation?

What is it that seperates DJs from the rest of the male population? Even the up and coming DJs?
... the answer to both is the same: It's the six inches of space between his ears.
 

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Re: Like you said...

Originally posted by Von Neuen
... the answer to both is the same: It's the six inches of space between his ears.
Don't forget the six inches in his pants.

Did that sound gay? :confused:
 
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