Online Woman Are Immoral Scum Bags!!

[RichardTheFrog]

What are you looking for, a committed relationship with a loyal woman who will stay with you and serve you till death do you part? LOL!
I use condoms (and tons of viagra by preference), but even with condoms, you can catch STDs by juice flow below the condom. I reject any bad karma that you may be projecting, but no STDs.

HAHAHHA be careful with that Viagra!!!

It could stop working some day and leave you impotent. Then, you'll have to get an implant like me.

 

[BeExcellent]

I know you're trying to "help" with your posts and this is actually sound advice. But you also need to cut the crap too.

If you get approached by the type of man you like "so often".. why are you still single? Just wh0ring around or what?

And if only trash is online.. then why were you EVER online?

No crap whatsoever. Firstly I don't "wh0re around." It takes time to get to know someone and assess compatibility/screen out the good time Charlie types. I'm patient & in no hurry. I have maturing children and split time between residences in 2 states. Many of the men I meet are very busy business people with children of their own too. So scheduling and logistics & patience are all factors. Nothing develops super fast by design as well as circumstance. I prefer it that way.

As far as OLD, it didn't exist when I married 18 years ago. I know two happily married couples who met online so I gave it a try. For the reasons I noted in my previous post I found it to be a waste of time for me. I really don't need it.

I'm happy with my life and how my life is set up. A relationship would be a worthwhile addition if it's a worthwhile man AND the logistics line up.

 

[sazc]

Hey @soulforge ... You know... It occurred to me.... "What if"?

What if her OLD pics were old and she looks older in person?
What if her OLD pics are old and she has gained weight since then?
What if she thought you were really good looking and got intimated believing that a 10 like you would never go for a 5 like her?
What if she was a catfish?

Anyways, you seem to have taken this personally, as of the was actually rejecting you/who you were.

Try not to take OLD so seriously. Always expect the worst from it. That way it's hard to be disappointed.

 

[guru1000]

Hey @soulforge ... You know... It occurred to me.... "What if"?

What if her OLD pics were old and she looks older in person?
What if her OLD pics are old and she has gained weight since then?
What if she thought you were really good looking and got intimated believing that a 10 like you would never go for a 5 like her?
What if she was a catfish?

Anyways, you seem to have taken this personally, as of the was actually rejecting you/who you were.

Try not to take OLD so seriously. Always expect the worst from it. That way it's hard to be disappointed.

Good point. Many DJs take OLD rejection personally, when all you have put forth are pictures, which are not a clear representation of how you look nor who you are. I have met many women who look much worse in person; and some who looked much better. Ironically, many of the 9s online are photoshopped 6s and some non-photoshopped 7s appear much better in person.

 

[Solomon]

I've ****ed probably 150 BackPage hookers and didn't get anything.

It's called condoms.

This thread is bringing the lulz

 

[sazc]

Good point. Many DJs take OLD rejection personally, when all you have put forth are pictures, which are not a clear representation of how you look nor who you are. I have met women who look far worse in person; and others who looked far better. Ironically, many of the 9s online are photoshopped 6s and some non-photoshopped 7s appear far better in person.

Yes, ladies use filters alllll the time!

I've met OLDs that claim 5'9" who end up being 5'6".

Never get your OLD hopes up. Remind yourself that you must give no fvcks.

 

[Urbanyst]

No crap whatsoever. Firstly I don't "wh0re around." It takes time to get to know someone and assess compatibility/screen out the good time Charlie types. I'm patient & in no hurry. I have maturing children and split time between residences in 2 states. Many of the men I meet are very busy business people with children of their own too. So scheduling and logistics & patience are all factors. Nothing develops super fast by design as well as circumstance. I prefer it that way.

As far as OLD, it didn't exist when I married 18 years ago. I know two happily married couples who met online so I gave it a try. For the reasons I noted in my previous post I found it to be a waste of time for me. I really don't need it.

I'm happy with my life and how my life is set up. A relationship would be a worthwhile addition if it's a worthwhile man AND the logistics line up.

So you have only been meeting men who are your type over the last few months? What was going on before that? Were you less attractive?

If you have been meeting high quality and high VALUE men who are your type EASILY for the past several years.. there is no reason for you to still be single. Something is fishy. Either you are getting rejected a lot or these men are not all that "great" to begin with.

Something doesn't add up here.

 

[Urbanyst]

A fancy way in your opinion only.

I won't waste time trying to convince a chick to come out with me or get irate about it if she flakes. Wasted energy my man.

Yeah you missed the point.

I'm saying women's behavior keeps getting sh*ttier and guys increasingly seem to believe the best response is to just accept it with a smile. I see all this crappy advice going around telling guys not to have emotions, never to get angry, don't let anything a woman does bother you, etc. This is absurd.

Why would a woman respect a man or behave well around a man who just tolerates whatever she does and never has any kind of opinion about it?

Obviously you should never waste time on low interest women. I wasn't saying you should lol.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Yeah you missed the point.

I'm saying women's behavior keeps getting sh*ttier and guys increasingly seem to believe the best response is to just accept it with a smile. I see all this crappy advice going around telling guys not to have emotions, never to get angry, don't let anything a woman does bother you, etc. This is absurd.

Why would a woman respect a man or behave well around a man who just tolerates whatever she does and never has any kind of opinion about it?

Obviously you should never waste time on low interest women. I wasn't saying you should lol.

Problem is... they don't HAVE to respect a man no matter what you do.

They don't even have to respect society in general. They can make a point to be the most disrespectful b1tch in the world just for fun, then hide behind the law.

And when they do decide to dish out their "respect" it is possibly based on something totally stupid due to the fact that they are stupid little girls with no life experience.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Problem is... they don't HAVE to respect a man no matter what you do.

They don't even have to respect society in general. They can make a point to be the most disrespectful b1tch in the world just for fun, then hide behind the law.

And when they do decide to dish out their "respect" it is possibly based on something totally stupid due to the fact that they are stupid little girls with no life experience.

Nobody has to do anything. We are free... in that vacuous and anarchic sense to do whatever we want. But it's stupidity because in all likelihood it will lead to misery and loneliness at the end of the day....

The vacuum comes from a lack of education. Technology is increasingly blinding people to the need for it.

 

[SteR]

Problem is... they don't HAVE to respect a man no matter what you do.

They don't even have to respect society in general. They can make a point to be the most disrespectful b1tch in the world just for fun, then hide behind the law.

And when they do decide to dish out their "respect" it is possibly based on something totally stupid due to the fact that they are stupid little girls with no life experience.

Nobody has to do anything. We are free... in that vacuous and anarchic sense to do whatever we want. But it's stupidity because in all likelihood it will lead to misery and loneliness at the end of the day....

The vacuum comes from a lack of education. Technology is increasingly blinding people to the need for it.

Exactly. You start behaving like a d!ck 24/7 and we'll see how the world reacts to you...

 

[190cmofcancer]

Exactly. You start behaving like a d!ck 24/7 and we'll see how the world reacts to you...

yeaa man. if a man behaves like a **** then people will hate him. but if a woman does this then its nothing new

 

[guru1000]

Exactly. You start behaving like a d!ck 24/7 and we'll see how the world reacts to you...

You mean like Trump?

The goal is not to be liked. The goal is to win (in your chosen pursuit). This has less to do with diplomacy and more to do with having the "goods" the market needs.

Genuinely, 99.9% of people are selfish at their core. The act of pretending to care about others (if you don't) is at its core inauthenticity. I'd rather be hated for whom I am than liked for whom I am not. But, I do understand not too many can live this way.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You mean like Trump?

The goal is not to be liked. The goal is to win (in your chosen pursuit). This has less to do with diplomacy and more to do with having the "goods" the market needs.

Genuinely, 99.9% of people are selfish at their core. The act of pretending to care about others (if you don't) is at its core inauthenticity. I'd rather be hated for whom I am than liked for whom I am not. But, I do understand not too many can live this way.

I would say 80% are selfish at the core. There are people who generally care about others.

 

[guru1000]

I would say 80% are selfish at the core. There are people who generally care about others.

Outside of family, you care for your friend or associate for the benefit of whom? Once, that friend or associate is no longer useful whether that be good companionship or communication, do you continue to be BFF.

Part of freeing yourself from a matrix of sorts is being honest with yourself and your intent.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

You mean like Trump?

The goal is not to be liked. The goal is to win (in your chosen pursuit). This has less to do with diplomacy and more to do with having the "goods" the market needs.

Genuinely, 99.9% of people are selfish at their core. The act of pretending to care about others (if you don't) is at its core inauthenticity. I'd rather be hated for whom I am than liked for whom I am not. But, I do understand not too many can live this way.

Only in America could politics be collapsed into business.

It is part of the 'job description' [duty] for a major world leader to be diplomatic. The last thing he wants to do is preside over a civil war.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Outside of family, you care for your friend or associate for the benefit of whom? Once, that friend or associate is no longer useful whether that be good companionship or communication, do you continue to be BFF.

Part of freeing yourself from a matrix of sorts is being honest with yourself and your intent.

Things, goods, products have utility. Sure, most people in modern life seem almost like objects to us. But there is such a thing as friendship, where you come to treat that person almost as your other self. To deny this only serves to impoverish your life.

Probably the best friendships we had were in childhood... when there was near nothing between you... and in you...and thus a comradery in the nothingness. It's only the clutter of our ego that gets in the way of friendship.

 

[guru1000]

Things, goods, products have utility. Sure, most people in modern life seem almost like objects to us. But there is such a thing as friendship, where you come to treat that person almost as your other self. To deny this only serves to impoverish your life.

Diametrically, it impoverishes your life not to live in truth.

Fact: the only person who visits an inmate serving a life sentence after five years is the inmate's mother.

Don't live in delusion. The vast majority of people do not care about you. They only care about your utility to them.

 

[SteR]

You mean like Trump?

The goal is not to be liked. The goal is to win (in your chosen pursuit). This has less to do with diplomacy and more to do with having the "goods" the market needs.

Genuinely, 99.9% of people are selfish at their core. The act of pretending to care about others (if you don't) is at its core inauthenticity. I'd rather be hated for whom I am than liked for whom I am not. But, I do understand not too many can live this way.

I disagree.. but I realise this comes down to your subjective values. If someone wants to live purely for themselves, then so be it. But the people I know who do that have very few real friends. I guess what I'm saying is yes, I agree that we should be true to ourselves, but for me being on good terms with others is pretty important.

 

[SteR]

Diametrically, it impoverishes your life not to live in truth.

Fact: the only person who visits an inmate serving a life sentence after five years is the inmate's mother.

Don't live in delusion. The vast majority of people do not care about you. They only care about your utility to them.

This sounds like a result of the individual's actions. If that person was a nasty piece of work then why do you think nobody comes to visit?